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Hey is there anyone that has done or is doing all star cheerleading? Is it worth the money?? (link)
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I've done it.. it was fun for me, because i used to be obsessed with it. So yes, i thought it was worth the money but it all depends on how much you like cheerleading and how much time and energy you are willing to devote.
goodluckkk
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what is the meaning of life? (link)
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It's what you want it to be.
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Which type of crest white strips is the best? They seem to come out with a new kind very frequently.
Personal experience is preferred :) (link)
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I've been using the 3D crest white strips and my teeth are definitley whiter than before. They come with 20 strips(both top and bottom, so technically 40) and you can see a difference in 3 days.
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How do you let go of someone you love? Even though you know its for the best, and you know that they are not right for you, and you suffer by being with them, how can you let them go if you love them? If you cant be without them? If, for just a small amount out of the total, you are happiest with them? If so many promises were made by you that you wouldn't leave, that you're different. And most of all if you know that leaving them would mess them up worse than anything else could? I don't know what to do... (link)
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This is your life and you only get one. You dont want to stay with the person if its not the right thing for you or even them. Do what makes you happy, especially if its for the best, like you said. You're probably not going to be happy until you do what you need to do.
Things will get better, good luck.
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Well, I have friends at school, though I'm not totally sure who's real & who's fake. I'm very shy and don't make friends easily. I've gone from group-to-group a lot this year and have lost touch with the people I knew had my back. I felt like a 6th wheel sometimes and was bored with them, but I knew they were real. I started hanging around another group, of whom I was only comfortable & really friends with one girl. But, now, the rest of that group is nice one day, then act like they don't know me the next. Finally, the group I sit with now isn't much better. Two of the girls in that group are from the first group I mentioned. One of those girls is switching schools next year...she's also the one I'm closest to. The girls in this group do things on the weekends that I have no knowledge of. They plan things at the table when I'm sitting there and they don't even look my way while they're doing this, so they don't invite me. Then, later in the day, they have the nerve to ask me what I'm doing this weekend. When I saw 'nothing,' they just say 'oh.' So, as you can imagine, I have no contact with the opposite sex. I have a weight problem, but I'm losing weight (50 lbs and counting), so confidence is an iddue. And, lastly, associating/connecting with people is the hardest thing for me to do. I have a hard time laughing at things that I normally find funny because I'm a wreck on the inside. I've dissected this situation & my own mental state along with it multiple times. I just don't know what to do. Sorry for being a black cloud. Any advice...please? (link)
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growing up is so much fun isnt it?
congrats on losing weight! i know thats a hard thing to do. I am currently doing it also. But anyways, this isnt an uncommon problem. I dont think you should sit with these girls anymore. Find people who accept you for you. There are people like that out there, i promise. It just may take a little bit of searching. Dont let confidence be an issue< your judging yourself too harshly. Things will get better if you let them.
sorry i didnt help much, but i wish you the best of luck!
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where can you get a job at age 15?
thANKS (: (link)
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hmmmmmmm well my parents own a laser tag buisness, and they hire kids as young as 14. maybe at an amusment park or entertainment center is where they will most likely hire you. =] hope i helped and good luck!
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15/f
i tend to live in my own little world, but i'm open with people, friendly, and fun. recently i've felt distant from my friends, detached in a way. it's as if i can't connect with them, and it's really frustrating. i feel like i'm not having fun the way i am, and i don't want to go to crazy parties (i don't want to drink.)
but i also feel like i'm missing out in the highschool experience by creating myself and doing research on random things and being a weird little person
i don't feel like i can call any of my friends "best friends" like i used to with my other friends, and i feel like my relationships are weak. how can i stop feeling like this? we have fun with each other, i just feel like something's missing. thanks =] (link)
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your not missing out on the highschool experience. the highschool experience is what you make it. there are no standards. but i guess to stop feeling like this what you could maybe do is meet some new people or get a new hobby like a sport or club. maybe its just a phase and it will go away in a little. and sometimes being in your world is a good thing. id rather be in my own world than be doing the stupid stuff thats goign to mess up lives. (drinking drugs sex) etc. i really hope i helped and that you feel better
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i usually get very gudd grades in school, but i dont really get why i dont get as high grades as some of my friends, who do all their homework and pay attention and study but dont participate much. for me, i participate a lot more than them, i do most but not all my homework, and i pay attention and never not pay attention, i dont study alot, but i do study a little(lol not more than 15 minutes 4 any test/ quiz) and i get higher grades than my friends that do study (most of the time, except 4 once or twice), and yea my teachers luv me. but i dont get why i get lower grades than some of my friends and i want to know how 2 improve. thankx plzz answer. (link)
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thats how i feel sometimes. my problem one time was because i bombed the first test of the marking period. that just really affected my grades. my advice to you is to make sure you get all your homework done and try to focus on school for the last couple of weeks.
good luck home i helped =]
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okk soo right now i just got a new AIM sn. and i want to change my icon and wallpaper but it only gives me the AOL options and they suck so i was wondering how to change my icon to ones that i find on like, photobuchet. okk thx. plz help im a technology retard. (link)
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you can go to iconator.com that has tons of icons.
all you have to do is click on an icon. then click download this icon. then something on your IM should come up saying do you want to change your buddy icon? (you have to be signed on to do this) just click yes and then save.
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I like my own guy friend but he likes this girl in my class. And it hurts me the most because he likes someone who doesn't like him back or maybe she WILL go out with him because she just doesn't like staying single. But I am afraid I love him too much and I want to be his girl but he doesn't like me back. I really think he likes the girl because she is like something I can only dream to be. (link)
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awee i know the feeling. and sweetie unfortuanatley guys can be blind sometimes. eventually he will realize that this girl isnt who he thought she was. and if they go out and he doesnt realize it for a while. then you maybe he isnt really who you thought he was. just remember there most likely not going to be together forever. and if you like him. tell him. my guy friend told me he liked me and i ended up feeling the exact same way about him while i was telling him all along i liked another guy (which i really did like this other guy). you never know. it cant hurt to tell him =] hope i helped and good luck
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13/F so my freind for a long time likes me and i dont like. like that and i kinda like. but im still young im 13 and i dont kno how to date yet and i dont kno wut to do (link)
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whatever you do dont mess up your friendship. tell him your friendship means more to you. i'm sure he'll understand.
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hi. 16/f.
i swim in the fall and play softball in the spring. i've had my period for about 4 years now, and it's pretty regular. for some reason, i noticed that during the spring and fall, when i'm involved in a sport, i don't get my period. is this weird? or is it just something about sports that stops your cycle?
thank you :) (link)
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being active and playing sports can make you get your period lighter or make it go away faster and i guess some people dont get it when their active. yeah its pretty normal. i get mine really light when i excersise. hope i helped!
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14/f. theres this guy in one of my classes who like always says random stuff to me like "i love your ears" and "can i touch your eyebrows". and "i love you ____ (my name)" all stuff like that. hes this like really laid back i guess "cool", asian kid. and the problem is that it leaves be confused. like idk whether hes just joking, or he means it and hes just trying to be my friend. cause i dont want to be like agreeing to it when he was just kidding but i dont want to be cold and lose a friend.. but i really have no idea so it bugs me and i try to avoid him so he doesnt say stuff like that. like idk how to respond so im usually like.. "okay." but what else could i say? i mean how can i tell whether hes joking or not too? if he genuinely wants to be my friend? geeeez help please. (link)
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i think you should play along. like when he asks you if he can touch your eyebrows just be like yeah if i can touch yours. hes probably joking around or trying to get a reaction out of you.
gooooooodd luccccccck! hope i helped
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okays well im 14 and a female. theres this guy i really like, and im pretty sure he likes me. we talk all the time. and flirt. his friends are telling him to ask me out and my friends are tellin me to ask him out. im thinkin aobut askin him out, but what if he says no. our friendship would be weired. but i think we should give it a chance by going out. i think we would make a good couple. do you think i should take the chance and ask him out??? or wait for him too???
thanks :] (link)
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ask him out. dont wait because guys change their minds fast. hope i helped
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14[15 in july]/female. i was wondering if their was anyway that i could like tighten my butt up a little bit. and go down from like a 3 to a one again because i went from a 0-3 in just 1 school year, 9-10 months?. i run track and we do alot of ab work outs but i dont think that will help me out that much, any suggestions?
if you need more info just leave it in the answer and ill do a feedback thing of it. (link)
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i would kill(not literally) to be a 3. you are still skinny. but if you really want to tighten things up then i suggest you do squats, lift weights, push ups, leg lifts, lunges you know, those things.
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Sorry that I probably spelled that incorrectly. Long story short, I think too much. If something good happens, I think about it so much that I can turn it into a bad thing, and I think about bad things so much it eats me up inside and it's making me feel horrible, and not many people I know do this, or the ones that do, I'm not comfortable bearing it all to. I replay low moments in my life as long I have nothing way better to do. Basically, when I'm not talking, I'm mentally shooting down myself, I lower my self esteem about my personality and apperance and other things. Nowadays though, I don't have much of a life, so I can't really find other things to do to take my mind off bad things. All I have is my computer phone, and tv, because I'm 14, jobless, never have rides to go anywhere, so I can't even do clubs at school, I don't know many people. Sometimes even, what I do have makes me feel worse about my life, seeing people on t.v making something of themselves, or my friends passing me by, or complaining about their issues to me while I lend an ear and never complain about mine-untill now I suppose. There are so many things I want to do, plus size model, sing, dance, be a pageant queen, be an incredible gymnast, and all these things people believe if anyone in my family could do it, it would be me. Thing is, I tell myself theres no chance, and I'm not nearly as good at these things as I should be, and my parents probably wouldn't let me develop my skills as much as I would like to, because nobody else in my family has tried. Possibly during summer, but they would much rather have me study than take classes, or even go on vacation! So I forget my aspirations, tell myself I would fail if I tried, and go into some medical field, which I wouldn't mind, but I dont want to be a bad doctor, because my dad is a good doctor! Sorry if I went in circles a lot, but I need some help here! Thank you soo much. (link)
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i know exactly how you feel. i truely do. im your age and honestly sometimes it can suck. ok well first off dont think about the bad things in life, just think of how happy you are to be alive. Think you get to go to school and see your friends everyday. and for not knowing many people, well just go up to some people and introduce yourself, it cant hurt. plan things every weekend to look forward too. As for those dreams you have, well dont ever give up, talk to your family and tell them your feelings.. i used to and it made me feel better, like someone was listeing or if you dont want to tell your parents, tell a friend or cousin. it will feel like your getting something off your chest. tell your family this is really important to you. and at school do they have activity buses?? if they do you could just take those home. join school clubs (if you have activity buses or you can get a ride) get a ride from a friend thats in the same club. and for some things to do without a ride, go running, play outside, invite a friend over, call someone. try new things. and just remember the people on tv wether it be a reality show or just a regular series or movie, that their lives are fake. would you rather live a fake one or have reality? when something good happens in real life your going to be happier. and what you said about being a plus size model, well i was the same way and getting excersise and losing a little bit of weight can make a HUGE difference in the way you think of things. its weird but im not kidding. eating healthy and excersising can also releive stress. like i said before, just try new things and meet new people.
i really really do hope i helped.
and that you feel better =]
good luck!
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okay. this boy that i thought was my best friends and that i could trust i cant trust him anymore and he is begging me to come back to him. i dont really talk to him and he really made me mad and he lost my trust. he has been girl hopping and its makeing me mad. he broke my best friends heat and pretty much used me by asking me out makeing out with me and breaking up with me. i dont know what to do anymore i was to take him back but im a tough girl and dont care over guys and he almost made me cry. should i take him back or not? (link)
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i know this feeling. i have a verrryyy identical situation (except we didnt make out) i took my friend back as a FRIEND and thats it. i just dont tell him anything anymore. but luckily for me i have another friend thats a guy who resucues me from anything. just be friends, tell him you dont appreciate what he did and that if it ever happens again that its over.
hope i helped =]
and good luck i know how hard it can be
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i have cheer tryouts tomorrow at 12:30. im trying out with 2 other girls at the same time. heres what we have to do:
-cheer (w/ bhs in it. i have my bhs but its kinda ugly and i land sometimes on knees haha),
-fight song,
-extremely fast and tiring dance!,
-stunting (im a back base, and new to basing liberties!!! help),
-jumps. toe touch, pike, hurdlers.
please give me any and every advice you have for tryouts......EVERYTHING! thank you!
im currently jv captain, and trying for varsity this year and im a sophomore right now =] (link)
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I cheerleaded for a competition squad and school squad. i was also a back base =]. The basics will help you alot, you know like tight motions, remembering motions and words and ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS smile and look like your having fun. even if your not. liberty back basing isnt hard at all. just hold on to the flyers ankle and thigh and pull up to relieve some of the weight on the bases. point your toes in your jumps and yell loud and clear. just no matter what have fun with it.
hope i helped =] and good luck!
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ok well i have this friend..and at the begging of the year we were really good friends and some howw we got into fites....and it all started when i said that her b.f was a player and she beilved him insted of me ..she got mad at me we didnt talk for months and then she called me up and said im soory...so i forgave her ( dont really ever forgive people when they backstab me) then the second time she siad that i did something on purpose..and i was like no i didnt..and it had to do with a guy...she thought i was trying to steal him but i wasnt..so aguan we got into a fight then she called and i forgave her...because i really loved her alot she was my good friend..but now agian somwthing happend about and lets just say it repapted and we werent talking and then agian i forgave and we beacme firneds....yea i know im pathetic..but now this is new she thinks i spread rumor about her..like really bad...rumor and hwn i didnt beacuse why wouold i so now we hate each other agian and today in the whole way she came up to me with her friends and asked if i said anything i was liek no and started to wlak away she grabbed me and grabbed her hang like le tme go you hore...and wlaked awya and she laughed and calle dme names..so i dont no what to do !! HELP!!! (link)
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i know that feeling. i had a friend exactly like that. i stopped talking to her. my advice to you is to not let her get to you. tell her she had her chance and she blew it. and that noone even cares about her boyfriend. tell her you mean it and that you dont want to be friends again. just whatever you do, dont let her get to you because once she has, then shes won.
hope i helped
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15.f
i like a guy.
i am friends with two of his friends, guy A and guy B.
i am considering telling either guy A or guy B about my crush for several reasons. firstly, i could get the inside scoop on my crush's life. secondly, i can get advice from them on how to go about becoming friends with my crush without being obvious.
"why don't you just gradually start talking to your crush more instead of risking him finding out from your friends and getting into all this hassle?" you might be asking. but the answer is simply that i'm scared. please note: do not give me advice on how i should be more confident, etc. or i'll rate lower.
i've come to the conclusion that i'm much better friends with guy A than guy B.
i want to find out how i can test guy A to see if i can trust him with something like this or not. please do not suggest "tell them a fake secret and see if they tell!"
i was planning on just being like, "yo, i kinda like this guy and idk what to do. can you help me?" -- if guy A responds like, "oh do this..." then i don't have to worry about telling guy A the name of who i like. but in case guy A is like some people, and gets very angry with me that i won't tell guy A, i'll be forced to tell guy A and i don't want to be in such an awkward position cause i don't want to lose my friendship with guy A.
summary: how do you know when you can fully trust someone when you're in the transitional stage between acquaintance / sorta friends to good friends with them? (link)
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i had the EXACT problem a few weeks ago. i just asked my friend who he liked. he told me. then he asked me who i liked and i told him. he has actually been really supportive. asking me if i want him to introduce us and stuff. but i dont really know your friend. so if hes like that then tell him. im sure he probably wont tell if you tell him not to.
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