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ok well i have this friend..and at the begging of the year we were really good friends and some howw we got into fites....and it all started when i said that her b.f was a player and she beilved him insted of me ..she got mad at me we didnt talk for months and then she called me up and said im soory...so i forgave her ( dont really ever forgive people when they backstab me) then the second time she siad that i did something on purpose..and i was like no i didnt..and it had to do with a guy...she thought i was trying to steal him but i wasnt..so aguan we got into a fight then she called and i forgave her...because i really loved her alot she was my good friend..but now agian somwthing happend about and lets just say it repapted and we werent talking and then agian i forgave and we beacme firneds....yea i know im pathetic..but now this is new she thinks i spread rumor about her..like really bad...rumor and hwn i didnt beacuse why wouold i so now we hate each other agian and today in the whole way she came up to me with her friends and asked if i said anything i was liek no and started to wlak away she grabbed me and grabbed her hang like le tme go you hore...and wlaked awya and she laughed and calle dme names..so i dont no what to do !! HELP!!!
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It kinda seems like you guys are developing a pattern: she thinks you did something, she gets mad, she calls and apoligizes. and that just keeps repeating over and over again. i don't think thats a good situation for you to be in. it seems like you've been really hurt by this, and even though she is a good friend, you have to ask yourself if she will keep repeating it and if she is really worth it. it would probably be a good idea to take a break. then slowly try to rebuild the friendship until you guys are back to normal. but this kind of thing keeps happening, you might want to let it go for good. just do what you think is best for you, and remember that a true friend probably wouldn't keep doing this to you.
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well not to be judging or anything but she donesn't sound like a real friend that someone would like to hang out with. You shouldn't let her come back so quickly... you should say that if she ever wants to be friends then she has to gain your trust back.
But in the mean time shake it off. Dont let her get to you. Meet some new friends
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i know that feeling. i had a friend exactly like that. i stopped talking to her. my advice to you is to not let her get to you. tell her she had her chance and she blew it. and that noone even cares about her boyfriend. tell her you mean it and that you dont want to be friends again. just whatever you do, dont let her get to you because once she has, then shes won.
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Don't keep letting her come back, because that gives her excuses to keep finding ways to fight with you. Why would you want someone like this in your life? She's obviously not someone who cares about you if this is what she's doing.
Remember not to stoop to her level. If shes calling bad names to you, just look at her and smile and keep walking. Don't show her fear or she'll continue what shes doing. Find other friends to hang out with.
Just drop her. She's not worth your time. I had a similar situation and when she see's you really don't care she may fight back for a bit but she'll get bored when she see's it's not bothering you.
Good luck.
You deserve better.
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