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im a junior. i love movies. photography. scene plus american eagle. i love vintage and antiques. im my own person. i try not to judge and i have many different sides of me. im stubborn.insecure. lazy. cranky in the morning. but im also forgiving. protective. shy.

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Location: Ohio
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Age: 16
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16/f. for halloween this year i want to be belle from beauty and the beast. i dont want to wear a long gown because it would just get in the way when i go to a party. I want a short yellow dress, a little above the knee, thats poofy like belles. I dont want to look slutty, but i do want to look cute. also, i want it to be under $100, hopefully around $50. THANK YOU!

the first one is short but with high socks i dont think it would be bad.

http://store.costumecity.com/adult-storybook-beauty-costume.html


http://www.costumecraze.com/DISM217.html

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Ok I am 16 and female and this boy is 17 and male. Everyone in my school has made fun of and harassed me to ask out my best friend. They gave that up and now they moved on to another boy. This one, I wouldn't actually mind dating. Well today, we were walking and I told my friend I love her outfit and she returned the compliment. This boy just pops out of nowhere and says so blatantly, "I love this!" (meaning the period we were all going to.) Then we walked to the doors and everyone went ahead of us into the opened door and he went to open the door that was still closed and stood there a minute and was like "I would have opened that door for you but it doesn't open.." then he looked down at the ground, I laughed at him, he smiled. Then I quick walked ahead of him to set up for class.

So far, what do you think? And what should I do to move this along?
Thanks!

this sounds like he likes you. i wouls try walking by him to and from class or pretend to be a little slower leaving teh class and see if he waits for you. talk to him. dont be nervous talking to him. go for it girl.

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I'm a runner, and I'm super competitive. I don't settle for less than my best, and even my best isn't enough. Basically im super dedicated, i think you get the point :). I also love music. I use it to get me pumped before a race. I have a playlist on my ipod to motivate me, but i can't think of any other good ones. Any suggestions? Thanks so much! :)

headstrong by trapt

thats the song i listen to to get pumped

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Well if it is 2010, and we have been using a 24-Hour clock. Over time, are we losing accuracy in the date? A day is actually 23 hours & 56 minutes. 1440 minutes in a day, BUT, after a year we are off by 1 day and 20 minutes, and every leap year wouldn't make it up. So aren't we off by maybe a few years?

well the world is millions of year old, but time was started counting 2,010 years ago.

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Okay so, I signed up for aerobic dance for my school, They have 2 different type of dance classes, "regular dance" and "aerobic dance" I was in regular dance for about 2 weeks last year, then got switched out of it, and got put into P.E. I hated p.e. so I thought this year I would sign up for something else. Well, today was our first day to actually go and practice, and we're doing the same exact stuff we did last year! same exercises and everything. is aerobic dance just like regular dance? is it harder or easier? plus, I was informed that I have to perform infront of the whole school (with my class) at the end of the year, I have two problems though..
1.) I am not even 1% flexible and i'm uncoordinated.
2.) I am super shy! the thought of performing infront of crowds scares me..
What are some things I can do at home to make myself more flexible for my dance recital.

it usually requires some flexablilty and aerbic is faster music generally to get your heart pumping more. its a little harder than regular dance.

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ok so my friend cheated on her boyfriend and is trying to hide it obviously. we were hanging out with a bunch of people and the guy i really like was there. she likes him too. (even though she has a boyfriend) another friend was saying how she cheated on her boyfriend with some guy we meet in the city one night. so she tried to cover it up by saying that i had sex with him, in front of everyone at the party, not her. now the guy i like thinks i'm a slut and a bad friend for leaving my friend to go have sex with the guy we met at the city. and its all because she doesn't want this guy to think she's a cheater. do you think this is a little f*cked up or is it just me? what should i do?

this isn't right. i think you are a great friend for trying to help your friend out but she shouldn't have let you take the blame like this. i think you should come clean, she's the one that got herself into this mess and she shouldn't expect you to clean up after her (bad metaphor but i think you understand it)
im sorry that you are in this situation, i think you should tell your friend that you aren't going to cover for her anymore and that you should tell the guy that you like the truth. you dont want to ruin your reputation because of something bad your friend is doing.

hope this helps.

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What does {{xoxo}} mean?

it means hugs and kisses.
its just a cute way to end a letter or text

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I want a new screen name for a AIM messenger account. I really like the color pink so I want to use that in my username but I can't think of a good, cute screenname. I'm kinda girly, LOVE pink, have blonde hair, really tall, play softball, 15 years old, & did I mention I LOVE PINK?! Like, the color ;) not the singer/music artist.

Anybody have some great "pink" screen name ideas?

Thanxxx

the person who previously answered has good ideas. but i have a feeling that they will be taken. but i would use caps in certain areas like
PiNk
or P!NK
and then your birthday like 4594 (4 for the month, date then last to for the year, or numbers for the year you graduate)
tH!nK p!Nk

p!Nk lO\/e

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18-Female

about a month ago i started getting this nauseas feeling all the time. I constantly feel like i am sick to my stomach and it makes me have more BM's i used to do it only a couple times a week and now it is a daily thing.(which i understand is whats normal) but it is different for me and its not normal because it makes me feel sick. Along with the sick feeling i seem to have a constant headache and pain in my lower & upper back. I am not completely sure is what up or even a little bit sure whats going on all i know is i want to feel better.

I'm pretty sure there is no way i am pregnant i have been using condoms and none of them have broke and im understanding that that is the only way i could get pregnant using them.

I want a few opinions before i decide to go to the doctors or buy a pregnancy test.

Thanks.

i am not a doctor either, but i would start talong viatmins, look for viatmins made for women (one-a-day works well) maybe your body is missing some nurtients or mineral.
i would still go to the doctor and tell them the same thing.

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My girlfriend and I as of 11 months July27, are having an issue. There's this guy I CANT STAND. He's done a lot of things I can't stand him for, (they went out a long time ago for one) I know thats a stupid reason to dislike him and I guess I dont really hate him for it. It just makes me feel iffy but anyway, I was having a convo with him one day and he started calling me a "fucking retard" jokingly, I explained to him that it bothers me a lot and to please not do that because I have a 19 year old sister to whom is mentally challenged and its mean to speak of people with disabilities as a joke. After I explained all that to him he told me "get over it you big baby" and started laughing, we got in a fight and basically I want to kick his ass.. Hes always "harmlessly" trying to flirt with her. I trust her 100% I swear on my life I love her like no other. I just cant stand him. He also tried to "nibble" her neck while her and I were going out for 2 months. Is it to much for me to ask for her to just stop talking to him? I asked her not to and she keeps talking to him and he she says that im wrong for not trying to talk to him

ok so im a girl and ive kind of been in a situation like this before. i dont know your gf personally but from a girls point of view she might think that you would come off as controlling if you asked her not to talk to him. . . girls dont like controlling guys (usually). but that doesnt mean that this should still go on. you should calmly talk to her and tel her that it bothers you. she really should understand that you are hurt by this and that she should (on her own) stop talking to him. she might get defensive since they are friends and say "oh well you dont even trust me" then you can tell her that you trust her, you just dont trust him with her.
this is a tough situation and im sorry for that. i hope everything works out for teh best.
also i love the fact that you stick up for your sister. its an honorable thing! :)

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Is monster bad for you if you only drink it once in a while?

this isnt researched either. but in my opinion its not that bad for you. but only drink one a day and dont make it a habit. i would limit drinking any energy drink once a week (i dont consider gatorade as one, im talking about moster and red bull). also dont drink more than one at a time since it speeds up your heart. too much can cause heart problems and maybe even a heart attack (2 or 3 drinks).
i hope this helped. i drink one twice a year, news years always so i can stay up all night. but i dont think once a week would hurt you. my friend drinks 1 to 2 a day and i worried. hes basically addictided. he cant stop.

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how do you know that a guy is the one for you. the one you're going to marry and spend the rest of your life with? how can you tell? and how young can you be to know?

i believe its when you can look at another guy and just not even care because you know you are 100% happy with the guy you are with now.
if you are thinking about another guy at all then maybe you arent sure. im not saying break up if you are thinking about another guy. your feelings with this guy might grow more the more you are with him.
but you dont question yourself wwhen you know. you just do.

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Were are some places I can go with my boyfriend. My mom said just to tell her wen we wanted to see each other so where should we go? And I'm only 13, 14 in October but where can we go? And don't be like the movies dinner ect. Sum places we can go with friends with us too!!

And also how do I sugget to my friends to go with us? This makes me sound super dumb but yeahhh./. Thanks and I'll rate after at least two or three people answer and yepp!!

lazertagging, amusement park, bowling,fair, chill at his house and watch movies, starbucks,

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How can i convince my mother to let me fly by myself from indiana to arizona to see my boyfriend who is there for the entire summer? Me and him have been together for two years.

oh sorry i thought it was the whole flying part. well if you guys are going to stay in separate rooms then you can tell her that you will make sure of it and that his parents will be there. you can also have his parents call your mom and have them talk so that they know that they would love to have you and stuff like that. it might be better to here his parents confirm that everything will be good adn that they will respect you while you are there.
hope that adice was better :)

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hey my name is evan and im 15. i think i prolly have ocd but i dont know what kind of doctor to see to find out for sure. thanks!

if you go to a councelor, if they cant help you they will direct you to someone who can.

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i went to a restaurant n sat on d toilet seat .,, it was a bit wet so i really sccared will i get preganant?

deffinatly not.

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ok so my bf and i r going out and i went to his house yesterday we started making out and one thing lead to another and he took off my shirt and bra.we continued making out but i eventually put my clothes back on after like 3 minutes. I'm only 14 and a female and i feel like I'm a slut because we've only been going out for 3 weeks. he said that he loved me and he always talks about the future in like years but i don't know what to think. am i slut?

16/f


hes not a stranger, so i dont think it sounds slutty. i wouldnt let it get much farther than that though until at least 6 months. but you guys are dating and you shouldnt stick to hugging for forever.

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I'm a 15 year old guy and, as I write this question, I have a pacifier in my mouth.

I was wondering, what do you think of a teenager secretly sucking on a pacifier?

Do you think I am normal? What should I do?

Thanks

16/f

so my adivce is to try to break the habit. not for others sake though.
i try not to get what others think about me get me down but in reality it hits me hard.
its awesome that you are open about it (even if its just advicenators that know).
well i think that you should try to break the habit so that you arent dependable of it and so that others dont hurt you about it.
my habit im trying to break is biting my nails so i try to chew gum whenever i can.
you should try it too.

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So I started taking birth control right after I ended my period like your supposed to, and then like 2 days before I was supposed to be on it again I had sex and never had my period but thought nothing of it. I continued taking my birth control for another 2 packs which by this time I had missed 2 periods. So once I missed my third period I stopped taking my birth control and within a week of being off it I started my period and it was pretty heavy and lasted for 7 days. Is there a chance I could be Pregnant?

there is always a chance . . but in my opinion it sounds like your birth control is just starting to kick in. my period wasnt regular again for another 6 months after i started taking the pill. but if i were you i would take a test just in case.

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16/f
I have sex with my boyfriend on a regular basis (at least 2 or 3 times a week). We have been dating for a little over 9 months now. I am his first girlfriend and first person to ever even kiss him. He's not my first boyfriend, but I've never done anything 'sexual' with anyone else. So we're each other's firsts. So, since we were virgins when we met and we've only done things with each other, I don't have any reason to be going to the gyno for checkups, right? I mean, it's not a problem if I did need to go because my mom would probably encourage it for the sake of my health, but I'm 100% sure neither of us have/had any STD's, so am I supposed to be going to the doctor?
Also, I'm a bit curious about birth control. Currently we use condoms and he pulls out too so if the condom ever broke, it wouldn't be inside me. So we're pretty safe right now, but I'm thinking birth control would be a lot safer. So I only have a few concerns about the pill;
1) I read somewhere that some birth control pills can make you gain weight. I know it's different for everyone, but does anyone know if this is a common side effect?
2) What do you think would be a good time to take it at? I know you have to take it at the same time every day, so I don't want it to be a time that I could possibly miss for any reason.
3) How should I ask my mom about it? I mean, I could go the easy way and just say I need it to regulate my period (it wouldn't be a lie, my period is very irregular) but I think it would be easier to just tell her straight out, so I won't have to continue all the sneaking around. And she's always said that I need to ask her for birth control before I decided to have sex, which I didn't really listen too, so should I just tell her I'm going to start having sex? I don't really see any reason to inform her of my previous sexcapades haha.

So yeah, those are all my questions/concerns :) thank you!

15/f

i would say about 7 or 8. that way you will be up and be able to take it around then every day.
i do believe you should go to the gyno. you are suppose to go every 6 months but i would say once a year would be good also. (i dont go to the dentist every 6 months either).
another tip is that remember that some prescritions can affect birth control. if you are on an antibiotics then your birth control will stop working.
i would just tell you r mom you are interested in birth control and if she asks say that you plan to have sex really soon since that part is true.

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