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does this seem right?
ok so my friend cheated on her boyfriend and is trying to hide it obviously. we were hanging out with a bunch of people and the guy i really like was there. she likes him too. (even though she has a boyfriend) another friend was saying how she cheated on her boyfriend with some guy we meet in the city one night. so she tried to cover it up by saying that i had sex with him, in front of everyone at the party, not her. now the guy i like thinks i'm a slut and a bad friend for leaving my friend to go have sex with the guy we met at the city. and its all because she doesn't want this guy to think she's a cheater. do you think this is a little f*cked up or is it just me? what should i do?
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this isn't right. i think you are a great friend for trying to help your friend out but she shouldn't have let you take the blame like this. i think you should come clean, she's the one that got herself into this mess and she shouldn't expect you to clean up after her (bad metaphor but i think you understand it)
im sorry that you are in this situation, i think you should tell your friend that you aren't going to cover for her anymore and that you should tell the guy that you like the truth. you dont want to ruin your reputation because of something bad your friend is doing.
hope this helps.
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You should tell her straight up that it wasn't cool.
There is probably nothing you can do about the guy you like - she probably wont confess her lie to him, and even if she did, he would probably just be more confused about it.
Best to just let your friend know what she did was NOT okay. It wouldn't have been okay even if you didn't both like this boy. Claiming you had sex with him was a shitty thing for her to do in front of anyone at all. She owes you a big apology.
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Wow , alright first off , if this is the way your FRIEND is treating you , leave her now. You can not let a girl like this ruin your life. If you do not like it , leave her. If you really like this guy , go for him. I think he should believe you though , if he does or does not know you either way , he should have asked you first instead of listening to some girl talking for you. If a guy like that seems to believe stuff like that , he is too gullible , and when a guy is gullible , it never turns out good. I suggest if you really like him go and talk to him about it , or if you do not like him then go leave it alone , and do not let your friend walk over you like that , that is not right at all. You have a voice so use it instead of her speaking for you and lying to everyone , especially her boyfriend. I feel sorry for her boyfriend , he is probabaly all in love with her while she is covering up a lie that will hurt him , I do not think you should leave it alone unless you want to see him hurt , and if if you friend get's mad that's her fault because she should not have done that in the first place. Also , if she tells you that your not a friend for doing that , you should say think again , or think twice before you act. That is not right. My advice to you is that is just rude , stubborn , selfish , and destructive. I think you should really go either talk to that guy , or your friend , or even your parents or other family or friends. You need to step up and show her who is boss. It is like you are her bait she can use you for covering something up , I understand if she did something a little less bad , but that do not let her walk over you like that.
Good luck girl : )
- Score back your man , don't let some lying chick take him away from you.
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