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I don't like my friends.
My friends and I are really close. Like we can tell each other everything and be comfortable changing in front of each other. So I say we had a very good relationship. We are still close like that. But now whenever I open my mouth they always have to argue with me. I've had enough and it really just ruins my night. They tend to gang up on me when this happens. I will admit that we are a more 'popular' group in school. I have one friend that I actually like and she doesn't really like our group of friend's either. Sure, sometimes she does get on my nerves to but she never ever gangs up on me. Her and I are very different aside from our music tastes. Which she is the only friend I have that likes 'screamo/ hardcore' music too. And since music is a big part of my life we go to concerts together and it's fun. I'd love to make different friends but I honestly don't think I can. I have been through a lot with them but it just sucks now that we just started high school. I know friends come and go but I don't see myself with any other friends. Sorry this is jumbled I don't really know what to say.
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Well , when you gang up on someone , those aren't your friends. I think you should stick to this girl more and not isolate her with you , just hang out with her more , she seems that she can really be a good friend to you with not having to deal with so much drama and not ganging up on you , that is a good friend. Also , you guys like the same music and you guys go to concerts and stuff. That's great news. My advice to you is stick with this girl more and just kind of move away from the others ,don't let them get to you. Your real friends will love you no matter what.
Good luck girl : )
- Don't let them gang up on you , stand up for yourself.
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Upon entering high school people say that's when they discover who true friends are. If your friends are arguing with you and ganging up on you on certain subjects, maybe you should confront them and tell them it hurts your feelings. If you are as close as you say you are to them, they should take it to heart and try to lighten up a bit. But if they continue to argue with you, maybe they aren't the true friends you thought they were.
Furthermore, it never hurts to make new friends, and there's no reason you can't. Since you said you only have one friend that likes the same music as you, try to find more people in your school or around your area that are interested in it too. Maybe you guys can create your own group of friends based on music, and you can all go to the concerts together.
Besides that, in high school your classes are more widely spread apart, it should be easy for you to make new friends. More movement throughout the day, and you see more different people from your school. Try to make new friends in classes, and work with someone you don't usually pair up with on group assignments. Just be friendly and happy toward every new person you talk to, and you'll have some new friends in no time.
Just make sure "Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other's gold" (its a song my mom used to sing to me when I was little, haha) I hope this advice helps, and everything gets better with your current group of friends. But good luck on making some new ones too!
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