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Q: Ok, Well, my hamster Cocoa is acting very sick latley. I love him so much and would do and thing for him. He seems to be shaking almost and sneezing/sqeaking and i think he might even be trying to cough! He is now forming this crust around his nose and just a lil around his nose. I'm so worried about him, does any one know what sickness this could be or how i should handle this?

Take him to the vet my guinea pig coughs cuz she is either choking on water or food.. or just being her normal self.. retarted.. He may just be getting the sniffles or something just keep watching him and if it gets worse take him to the vet and btw cocoa is a cute name!!-trix

Q: I waz talkin on da phone with him...& i wuz about to he off....& he said ok iloveyou i paused 4 a min. & i didn`t want to hurt him so i said it back...but i totally didn`t mean it....i take iloveyou very serious!thats not the first time he has said that wut should i do?
~Joyful~

Just tell him you didnt mean what you said and you just got scarred out of the reaction-trix

Q: I have been unable to put a picture on my advice collumn. I had one ready and all, but then it said that it was wrong, even though it was the right size and all. Can someone tell me wats wrong with it?

Well re-try and size it down a bit-trix

Q: how do you like...ummm...make out with someone? cause my boyfriend wants to nd i do to but i dont know how....help!

Well you cant really teach someone that sort of thing you just sort of know i wasnt sure how to my first time so i was scarred but i just went with the flow and it went fine so just do that-trix

Q: hey i have decided to use tampns b/c i am hate pads. and when i used tampons i mean it went fine for a while and then when i tryed to take one out it was like stuck and it had a piece of skin the was preventing it from getting out. i was wondering has this happened to ne other girls ?

Nope not me it could be the wrong size to and just relax-trix

Q: well my frend.. she likes my boii frend.. but she got uss toghether.. and now she wants to breakuss up!! and even tho my boiifrend sed that hell love me 4 ever and that he wont cut me cuz of her.. im still afraid what shood i do/?? 4give my frend.. or hate her for ever
*i rate*
Xoo.HEL:P ME!!

I wouldnt call her a friend if i were you if she was trying to steal him i would talk to him about it and see what he thinks about it all and talk to her about it and see whats up and tell her to go get her on guy just dont end a friendship over a guy though so just make yourself get the point across-trix

Q: write me about em...
ugahottie321 on AIM and Advicenators

I really love the 2nd one!! and the 3rd one i am sure about everyone can relate to-trix

Q: another poem yall

I look in the mirror
But what do I see
The person I look at
Isn’t the real me
No one knows
What I want to see
Someone that loves
Some one that hates
Someone who isn’t just the someone
That everyone thinks is me

another

Who is louder our hearts or our minds
When it comes time to decide what do we find
We listen closely but it is hard to tell
Almost as if they are two little bells
But which one masks the other
It is so hard to hear
Why should we even bother
It will only cause a tear

another

I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right

one more

I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right

I like all them I got drifted on the 3rd one towards the ending but i got back on track. But the 4th one is the same as the 3rd one just to let you know-trix

Q: I've been playing the drums for about 4 months, and I want to learn a song. Does anyone know a good/easy rock song I can learn? Thanks

www.tabcrawler.com its a good site and has almost anything-trix

Q: I've decided to start using tampons because I get my period every two or three weeks and it lasts for a week and I dont wanna sit home for a whole week for most of the summer and do nothing. Well the other day I got my period so I used a tampon and when I took it out, it hurt. Is this normal? This question is to the girls so please help me out!

Well you probably just yanked it or something without even thinking about it.. if it continues .. just be slower try not to worry about it -trix

Q: Hello. I'm Angie. For a few months now, I've been trying to decide whether or not I want to move with my father. I obviously live with my mom, then. And I've finally came down to my decision and I do in fact want to live with him. My mommy has known for awhile now that I've been thinking of moving with him... she doesn't mind it. My dad knows I've been wanting to too and he doesn't mind it one bit, so I'm finally going to talk to him about moving in this weekend when I visit him, but I don't know how to break it to my mom that I want to move with him.... What should I say?

Just say you would like to try moving in with your father to see if you like the changes or not and see what is it like over there-trix

Q: ok..i have a boyfriend right now but theres this kid that really likes me and it gets really annoying cause hes always saying how much he likes me and even though i have a boyfriend he still asks me out and stuff and it makes me feel really bad what do i do?! help!!

i would tell him to piss off or something like that..and tell him ill only be your friend.. becaues theres no way ill be dumping my bf just to go with you that may sound kind of rude but you need to let him know that and hopefully that will get the point to him because he needs to know when its okay to hit on you and when its not and right now its not-trix

Q: hey yall i was jus wondering ... i write alota poems anyways just write me bak on if u like em or not btw im Ugahottie321 both on AIM and on Advicenators so talk to me sum timme!

Try not to start with Im scared of.. cuz it just gets blah.. It could use a lil work but with more help the poem will be fine. I do like the part of Im scared to reach out because its the truth. and the last line "scared of everything even me"-trix

Q: Ok well I am still very much in love with my ex. July 8th we would have been together for a year. We broke up in Febuary. He was my first love and the first person I have ever had sex with. We were suppose to go to prom and everything, but he said that we fight to much. He said that he would always love me no matter what. Then a couple weeks after we broke up he decided he wanted to take someone else to prom and just treated me like shit. We talked about it and he said he loved me but he just wanted to be fiends for now that later on we might get back together. That was in april and I have not talked to him since then. How do i get through to him and get him back??? 16/F

Well i would start to get in touch with him first and not jump to conclusions because over so many months people can change its been 3 months now and he could be in a serious relationship so dont ruin that for him if you do love him but you should just try to move on..or if you have already tried that..then give him a call and just ask him what he has been up to-trix

Q: i hjave this friend that i love very much but the things she talks about somtimes i dont beleve are truthful..i know if i confront her then she'll get mad and not want to talk to me and say i think shes a liar so whats the point but i dont like being lied to..what should i do?

i need help!

Just tell her you dont want to hear about it and maybe another time.. just tell her how you hate sooooo much lies!!-trix

Q: okay there is this guy and we are really good friends! He comes over and stuff and we just hang out and have the BEST times! We can talk to each other about anything! We have such a good friendship! I was thinking about him the other day...i might like him! I think it might be wierd though, and he hasnt given me any signs about him feeling that way... i don't think so at least. But i don't know if i should give him hints as to taking it to a higher level, and if i should then how should i do it?? HELP ME PLEASE!

I would be careful about it all cuz you wouldnt want to risk loosing such a good friendship between you 2 but i would just try to find out if he likes you one time i did i just sort of left it alone cuz i didnt want to jinx anything and if he found out that his best friend (which was me) liked him he might be wierded out or something so i just left it alone-trix

Q: hey one of my bestest friends has this HUGE crush on this totally hot guy. and he is like so perfect for me. lol. well like he knows that my friend loves him and all and like we had heard rumors that he liked her too. but i dont think he does. ne way i am in love with this guy. and i really want him but i dont want to have a compatition with my best friend. but i just love this guy, and i WANT HIM!!!

This sounds selfish to me i would just let your best friend have a chance with this guy because friends first you know? Unless your best friend knows that you like him then i would talk it out but i wouldnt get in a fight over it before you guys know the facts-trix

Q: my friend atdance brags all the time. she say how good she is and shows off all the time. if i get complimented and she doesn't, she tells ME i'm a show off... what can i do to tell her to stop??

Tell her what you do and that you get called a show off for it and tell her what she does and tell her she NEEDS to get called a show off-trix

Q: I was wondering if anyone knew of a place I could get golf lessons. I live in Grapevine, TX.
Thankz!

http://www.thomasgolf.com/free-golf-swing-lesson-video.shtml .. go there-trix

Q: Alright, I'm a Christian and last night me and my friend were talking about her dad bieng in the hospital and I told her that I would pray for him, and she said "whats the use in praying since God allready has your life planned out for you"...that totally made sence to me, I mean what is praying going to change. I believe in praying for your sins...but now I'm stuck on this one. What do you guys think?
-Zero

Well that isnt true.. Alright maybe what it takes is just for god to make him better is for your prayers.. and if you dont pray it would just take longer for him to get back to being healthy but pray no matter what because it always helps i do for my uncle and my 2nd dad and it helps its slow progress but it helps-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"