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Okay so I'm bulimic.
Please dont tell me that it will hurt me,
and to not do it.
Its my choice.
I take meds for my acid reflex (for the throat erosion caused by the stomach acid.), and im getting procelain venieers, and I brush my teeth after I do it every time (about 3x a day.)
Anyway is it easier to throw up if you let your food kinda dissolve in your stomach after you eat it. Like wait an hour or two then throw up.
I drink lots of water before I do it.
Helpful advice would be apperiated.
Thanks.
XCody*X (link)
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It doesn't matter when you throw up
the results remain the same.
Meds won't work on the acid reflux for long.
Soon it will all be eroded. Surgery may help
then, I'm not sure.
Soon all your teeth will rot out. Guess you can get an entire mouth full of porcelain.
When your stomach ruptures and you slowly start
bleeding to death, maybe you will get help.
This site is not a place for others to
give advice on how to slowly kill yourself.
You have been banned for giving such advice
many times yourself. I'm sorry there is nobody
in your life right now that has a clue what you are doing to yourself.
If you have any plans at all for a future,
you need to get help for this problem now.
Nobody will date, marry or hire a person
who looks like a skeleton. Get help for
this problem before its to late.
Go ahead and rate me low. I care enough not
to give a shit.
EDIT:
You have advised people in the past on how
to be bulimic. That is harmful advice, even if
you cannot see that it is.
As moderators we let your question through
in the hope that someone, sometime will get
through to you that you need help. Maybe
someone will read this that hasn't taken it
as far as you have and will stop. Your question
isn't bad if it helps you or someone else.
If someone tells you how to kill yourself,
which is what you are doing (even if you
don't think so) They will get banned for it.
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how did gary sinese in Forrest Gump look like he had no legs when he really does? im really confused. i mean the movie was made in 1994.. did they have that much technology to edit all that stuff? or maybe.. since they made forrest in all those old tapes of stuff, but still. (link)
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Computer magic! Michele got it right on the wheelchair scenes but many times he was shown
out of the chair. Those were done by removing
them on computer. :)
Here is more info if you want it.
http://www.sinisefans.org/gump/gumpfx.html
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Why do moderators sometimes change the rating you give to someone? I remember this one time, I got rated lowly, and they changed it higher. I mean, yeah I was happy. However isn't it kinda their opinion. I mean if someone wants to rate someone low, because they didn't like what they said, then shouldn't they beable to? I mean, if the advice that someone was given wasn't good, and the person did not find it helpful, then, shouldnt they be able to rate it lower? Shouldn't the person who asked the question, get to choose?
I mean I understand, if the person who asked the question rated everyone a one, because it wasn't what they wanted to hear, then yeah, I understand. But, what if, the person took a point off for misspell something incorrectly and didn't use proper english. What if they were rude? And took a point or whatever off?
The moderators shouldn't beable to make anything higher or lower. Inless, the person seriously deserves it. The moderators should also ask the person why they rated so low, or something like that. Before changing the rating without asking.
Am I missing something? Is there some other reason why they should beable to change it? (link)
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Not all ratings are raised higher.
The best way to get a lower rating to remain is to politely explain the reason you give a low rating.
We do read feedback.
Sometimes a person rates low on good advice just because it isn't what they want to hear. If a
13 year old wants to drink themselves into a stupor and asks how, those answering you are underage and drinking is not good for you, do not deserve a low rating. Their advice is good.
If a person rates correctly they leave feedback
saying why they rated. If a question was answered well, explain why you liked it. If it was bad advice, explain that too.
Never rate a 1 unless the person you are giving it to needs to be banned. 1 ratings should be followed by an abuse report. Always. :)
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okay so my parents got divorced like 2-3 years ago about. and my dad started dating this girl that is really nice and they have been going out for like a little more then a year maybe. so anyway my dad told me and siblings that she was pregnant! it came as a complete shock to all of us. they earn't even married. so anyway i don't really like talking about my feelings and stuff to anybody and i don't want people to like feel sorry for me or anything, so i don't no how to tell my friends. my best friend already know's because our moms are friends, but i don't know how to tell my other friends. you can definatley tell that she's pregnant now because she's on like month 7. i don't even no if i should tell some of my friends because alot of them don't even come over to my house and we just hang at the mall and stuff. so anyway, how do i break the news or should i even tell them? i no i have to tell my close friends but how? please hurry and thanks in advance! (link)
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The truth of it is that this is only a big deal to you. I don't mean that in a mean way, I just mean
this is a big event in your life, but to most friends who aren't real close it isn't going
to be a big deal.
So it isn't like you are breaking some difficult
news to them. Just mention it if you feel like it.
It isn't going to change how they feel about you
at all. :)
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Ok, according to my midwife, I am in labor. But my cervix wont open, and my water wont break. I am in so much pain that I have been in tears for 4 days. I want to find a way to self induce. Some people have said have sex, but since she has dropped I am scared that will hurt her. Someone else said castor oil but I dont know where to get that....has anyone got any ideas on how to make her break my water? And please dont say "She will come when she is ready" (link)
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Castor oil is very dangerous to use. PLEASE do not
use it.
Talk to your midwife and make sure it is OK and then
walk. If you are dilated but just not enough yet
walk. Not alone, have someone walk with you.
Orgasms late in pregnancy can cause labor. You don't
really have to have sex to try that one. :)
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ok i just found out that my 17 year old friend is in love with me and im 13...i asked him if he knew about the age difference and he said that he didnt care....any advice? (link)
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OK time for a reality check. You will do what you want of course but you really need to know this.
If you were older, the age difference would mean nothing. Since you are young though, it matters a lot legally.
Once he turns 18, if he does anything sexual
at all with you, he is looking at the possibility
of being jailed for statutory rape. That is having
sex with someone who is not of age. You can
even be willing, but if parents find out..it means
big trouble.
The lowest age is 16. That would mean you are asking an 18 year old to wait at least 3 years
for sex. Is it possible to do that? Yes it is.
but with the mind set of todays youth, not real
likely.
So my advice would have to be...think about it
and discuss it with him and maybe even your
parents before you get involved.
Your heart will be broken big time if parents suddenly decide they don't want you dating an 18 year old. If something should happen and he got
thrown in jail, you would be heartbroken.
Here is the link to the age of consent chart.
It will tell you how old you have to be to have
a relationship without the guy doing jail time.
http://www.coolnurse.com/consent.htm
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i got my license in the beggining of june, im a really good driver too. anyways, today i was driving into a parking lot and i hit the persons truck on my right! not much damage to his car but a scratch with a dent, my moms car unfortunetly was damage in the front right headlight. i was freaking out. i was with my friend and sister. my first reaction was to see if i should inside the store and tell someone or drive off. there were quite a few people around, and im not quite sure if they got my moms license plates numbers. i drive her car sometimes and im not registered under her insurance. i drove off and went to my friends house. i seriously felt guilty and called my mom and told her after an hour it happend. she told me i should have stayed there till they came out and gave them my license or i should have went inside the store and asked people. what was i suppose to do this was my first accident.. so many people have told me not to worry about it cause its in private property. and that most likely noone wrote the plates down. i told my mom everything and about the damages. but im so scared.. what will happen to me or my mom if the police were contacted? (link)
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You already know you shouldn't have left. The
law is that you should make a reasonable attempt
to find the owner of the vehicle. If that fails
you should leave a note.
Here is what it says on the findlaw website.
"If a driver collides with an unattended vehicle or other stationary property, most states mandate that he or she make a reasonable effort to identify the property owner and alert them as to what happened by, for example:
* Taking down the vehicle's license number if a parked car is damaged, or
* Leaving a written notice at the scene (with the driver's identifying information) if other property is damaged."
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Yeah I just got photoshop and I want to start editing photos what are some good tutorials? (link)
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There are a lot of them. Here is the search
I used so you can pick through them and find
ones you will like.
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Recently, I've been going into chat rooms posing as a 13 year old girl. So far, I've attracted 10 or more guys over 18, that have talked sexually and suggested meeting up with this girl who they think is a 13 year old.
After watching a lot of Dateline NBC's: To Catch A Predator, I have become really interested in this, and even set up my own website on it where I track and log the potential sexual predators.
I'd really like to get these people in some sort of trouble, but I'm not sure who to send the chat logs to. I'm afraid if I send them somewhere, people won't take them serious since I am 16 years old, and probably not "trained" to handle these people...blah blah blah.
Do you think it's okay that I'm doing this if I'm 16?
And do you know any sexual predator catching sites/organizations that would let someone under 18 help out? (link)
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I think you need to check what you are doing with local law enforcement. You have no way of catching these people on your own. It may also be considered entrapment in some states. Check the laws in your area.
It is a good thought, but potentially dangerous
for you to be doing. One of these guys catch on
and you may not be safe if they feel they are
abuot to be caught.
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PLEASE HELP! ok so i began a birth control pill about two years ago...within three months i ballooned 15 pounds bigger (my breasts swelled, my stomach swelled it was not fun) i went off it and i havent had my period since! i also now have recently gotten a problem where all of a sudden i feel like ive sat in something but really some kind of watery liquid has gushed all over my underwear...its like water but its A LOT i dont know where it comes from!!! Anyways, so now i have decided i need to start taking a Birth control pill again so i can have kids someday...i have been taking this new pill for a week and already my face has COMPLETELY breaking out (never had a problem with acne) and i am an emotional WRECK (again, not usually a problem) PLEASE HELP!!!!!
1. please dont answer this question with "you need to give the pill time to work" because OBVIOUSLY it had worked to the point where it ruined my body
2. my geinocologist is a complete idiot and is disregarding my whole problem because clearly she does not care! someone please, even if you might think you know what is going on it would help!!
thank you so much! (link)
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If your doctor does not take your problem
seriously, find another doctor. But do see
a doctor.
It is very rare for birth control pills to
cause symptoms like you describe. So you
need to see someone about this.
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well, im really scared.
and i dont want my mom too know that ive had sex.
but im going too the gynocologist tomarow,
and im scared that they will tell her.
because she also goes too him.
so you know, she might ask him.
and i dont know if he will tell her or not.
she will think so different of me if she found out,
and i dont want her trust for me too fade.
i just dont know what too do..
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She can ask but he shouldn't tell her.
He won't know you've had sex unless you tell him anyway. A broken hymen doesn't necessarily mean you've had sex. :)
However, Having worked for a doctor, I have to tell you it is a great opportunity to have questions
answered. Discuss birth control, all that good stuff.
The doctor should reassure you when he or
she asks questions, that it is between the two of you. If not, make sure the doc knows you want
anything said kept between the two of you. You
will be reassured. :)
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well, im only thirteen years old.
and me and my boyfriend have been going out for only a month and two weeks.
so, we had sex last night.
i mean, i know i dont love him.
and i really didnt want too loose it at this age.
but once it starts happening you cant really say i dont want too do this..
am i slut for doing this ? (link)
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No. A slut will do it with anybody and everybody!
You are right that you are a bit young for sex.
The risks are just to high for pregnancy and STDs.
I do want to give you a website so you will have it for reference in the future. It tells you about sex and a lot of other things about your body.
Keep it handy because you want to be responsible about it if you decide to keep having sex. OK?
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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Hi, I'm looking to lose about 30 pounds. My mom wants to order me Nutrisystem, but is it really worth the money?
Couldn't I do the same thing with Lean Cuisine meals, or some other way cheaper diet brand? Or is Nutrisystem really helpful?
Also, how long would it take to lose around 30 pounds on Nutrisystem? Thank youuuu! (link)
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I have done Nutrisystem 2 times. Each time I lost
50 lbs, though I can't remember how long it took.
Didn't seem very long. The first time I did gain it back after a while.
The second time I was very serious and have not gained it back.
It is costly and I just couldn't keep paying
that much. However, I lost enough weight that
losing myself afterwards was much easier. I
was able to be more active etc.
So it is a very good program. Seems like all you
do is eat! You will not be hungry at all. If I
could swing it, I would go back on it in a
heartbeat.
Your food is in portions. You just add salads
and veggies. It even has snacks. The food is
very good too.
If mom is willing to let you try it, even a month
of eating that way will help you know how much
of what you should eat. Add exercise, which
they also recommend and you will lose 30 lbs
in no time. Just remember, when you stop the diet
you have to keep practicing what you learned.
And that is what it is really, a good learning tool. :)
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My best friend talks to this guy online from a town near ours (she met him after she started talking to him online). In short, he's horrible for her.
Why? Well, he does drugs, for one (he has pictures of him doing drugs on his MySpace, too). Not only that, he's told my friend that doing drugs isn't harmful (she knows it IS harmful) and that she should try them. He says that he uses drugs to deal with his mother's death. He's also older, so that makes me question his intentions.
She tells me that she won't go out with him, but since another guy she talked to got a girlfriend, I think she's changed her mind. He sends her cute texts and everything, and I think that's making her blind to all of his faults.
In a nutshell, I care about my friend and I KNOW she deserves better. What should I do?
Thanks in advance to all who read this and answer. (link)
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First of all try and make her understand that
those who do heavy duty drugs and try to get
others involved in drugs are losers. There is
no excuse good enough to make this right.
Point out that if this guy can't deal with real
life without drugs then she is in for trouble.
People who use them to escape reality will never
love anyone as much as they do their drug. Takes
a real hard core user to put pictures of it on
a web site. If this is okay to him what other
illegal acts are ok?
If this is just a passing crush and doesn't turn
into a big deal she will be ok.
IF she ever decides she is going to date this
guy, you go to her mother, show her the website and stop it before it even starts. She will be mad, she may not want to be friends anymore.
If she starts dating this guy, you won't see much of her anymore either. If he gets her into drugs, that is the only friend she will want to be with.
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Ok I have been datting my boyfriend for almost 9 months.Let call him 'bob'. Well bob is best friends with my best friend lets call my best friend 'stacy' so 'bob' is best friends with stacy and stacy is also my best friend. But it seems like to me they hang out more than me and him do. And it really upsets me.. beucase it makes me think that bob is doing stuff behind my back with stacy and whenever they are around eachother and they call me.. he acts completly diffrentt, and it makes me so.. mad. I dont know what to do or think.. is he doing stuff behind my back.. should I tell him how I fell ( which I have tried and it just starts a fight) what do I do? what do I say? please help me.
Thank's
Much Love XoXoX (link)
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Everyone has given you good advice already.
I just want to add something. :)
How did they act BEFORE you started dating him?
Were they friends then or has this just happened
since you started dating?
Because if they were friends before, you may
just be reading to much into their behavior.
Probably just a little jealous. If he had wanted
to date her he would have asked her to be his girlfriend instead of you.
I do think you should talk to Stacy. Let her
know what your feeling and even ask why they
treat you differently when they are together.
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how can i get the smokey eye look with eye shadow/mascara/eye liner. what colors do i use?how do i put it on so it looks perfect? (link)
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Here is a good step by step website.
http://kevynaucoin.com/lessons/?vanessa
There are others out there, so if you want to
look at more just click on search.
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why do white people love wayne brady? (link)
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Simply because he is funny.
I personally don't judge
people by the color of their
skin. I just see funny.
Richard pryor, Eddie Murphy,
Bill Cosby, and my fav Chris
Rock, Could be green for all
I care.
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I just got paintshop and im nto sure how to use it any webstites that give advice and i've seen picture like its all black and white and just the clothes will be coloured anyone know how to do that ?
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Here is a tutorial for PSP, it also has a very
detailed help section right on it. Just click
Help on your program. :)
http://www.baycongroup.com/paint_shop_pro/tutorials.htm
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I download fonts at www.dafont.com but when I want to use them, I always have to open up a folder and find a font that I want to use. Is there a way just to get the font on the list of fonts right when I'm on the program so I don't have to always search for it and open up all these folders? (link)
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Here is a tutorial link that will show you how to install fonts into your windows font folder. It has one for zip files or one for using the extraction wizard.
Please note that if you are a big font collector,
adding them to windows folder will slow your computer way down or even cause it to crash.
You can add some but not hundreds. I don't
have a good number for you that would be safe.
So, as much trouble as it is. Using a folder is the safest way if you collect a lot of fonts.
Here is the link.
http://www.fonts.com/AboutFonts/Help/_XP_Zip_or_Wizard.htm
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So, I'm wondering about this guy...
He's 19 and he has a girlfriend, who I assume to be 19, too. She seems like a great person with a bubbly personality and a kind heart =)
Well, I was talking to him yesterday and he was saying stuff about her appearance. To outline her for you: she's about 5' 8" and she's got some extra luggage with like C/D cup breasts. Well, he was saying that she was on the borderline with her breastes as in her breasts are on the borderline of being to big? Like he doesn't like girls with big breasts and prefers small ones...I know it's really awkward for me to be even talking about thins.
But yeah. He was saying that he'd like for her to lose a little weight and that her breasts are on the borderline. And he was saying how Mine were the perfect size & how he wishes she could have my body and blah blah. Well, I told he that he sho7ld like her for her and her personality, not her appearance and he said that I was right and dropped the subject.
I don't know. What do you think about this guy? He's a really sweet, wonderful guy. I can tell you that. He's been here for me last year when I was a complete disaster emotionally & talked me out of suicide several times. But I don't know. What do you think of him? Like does he seem like "shallow" since he considered her appearance to be not really suitable for him? Ahhh. I don['t know. Just any type of reply would hlep =) (link)
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Sounds to me as if he may have been using
flattery to try and put the moves on you. :)
He does sound a little shallow and rude to me.
I really think he was feeling you out to see
what you'd say.
Keep your eyes open with this guy. He may
try and take advantage of the fact that you
like him and he has helped you. Don't fall
for it.
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