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Guy & his gf
So, I'm wondering about this guy...
He's 19 and he has a girlfriend, who I assume to be 19, too. She seems like a great person with a bubbly personality and a kind heart =)
Well, I was talking to him yesterday and he was saying stuff about her appearance. To outline her for you: she's about 5' 8" and she's got some extra luggage with like C/D cup breasts. Well, he was saying that she was on the borderline with her breastes as in her breasts are on the borderline of being to big? Like he doesn't like girls with big breasts and prefers small ones...I know it's really awkward for me to be even talking about thins.
But yeah. He was saying that he'd like for her to lose a little weight and that her breasts are on the borderline. And he was saying how Mine were the perfect size & how he wishes she could have my body and blah blah. Well, I told he that he sho7ld like her for her and her personality, not her appearance and he said that I was right and dropped the subject.
I don't know. What do you think about this guy? He's a really sweet, wonderful guy. I can tell you that. He's been here for me last year when I was a complete disaster emotionally & talked me out of suicide several times. But I don't know. What do you think of him? Like does he seem like "shallow" since he considered her appearance to be not really suitable for him? Ahhh. I don['t know. Just any type of reply would hlep =)
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Guy's are visual creatures and all, but I think it is pretty shallow of him to be discussing this with you and comparing her to you.
It is pretty shallow that her appearance isn't suitable for him. If that is what is important to him, then he needs to be fair to her and let her move on with her life with someone who actually cares about her unconditionally.
I agree with YG that he may be buttering you up a little there...
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Sounds to me as if he may have been using
flattery to try and put the moves on you. :)
He does sound a little shallow and rude to me.
I really think he was feeling you out to see
what you'd say.
Keep your eyes open with this guy. He may
try and take advantage of the fact that you
like him and he has helped you. Don't fall
for it.
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Hi. This may not be the answer you want to hear but... he does seems quite shallow. Judging from how he is now, he'll always find a flaw in others.
He might be sweet and wonderful but he isn't a very good boyfriend, to be talking about your breasts.
That's what I think.
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