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Q: mii bf has two friends and i had asked him to go to canobiie lake ((amusment park)) with me on sundaii and then his two friends tell me his b-daii party is sundaii and that he cant go.. and they said he has known about it cuz they throw him a huge party everii year.. i donno what to do.. whii would he lie and what should i do...
lOvE,
xAmiiEx

P.S: if im his gf shouldn't i be invited..?

well maybe you arent friends with his friend.. or maybe something like that and its possible it could have slipped his mind-trix

Q: My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say?

Tell her.. you made a mistake so tell her and i bet she will be mad but thats the outcome-trix

Q: I have this off + on boyfriend. We always fight & he's kinda one of those 'players' you know. I trust him & everything, but I cant help but worry. He has like 2 different personalities. The 1 where he tells me he loves me + he'll never cheat, etc. + the 1 where he doesn't talk to me for days + talks to other girls(i guess to get me mad?) I don't know if he's gonna cheat on me + he gets mad at me for the smallest things. When I'm with him though, its wonderful. He tells me things that make me wanna stay with him forever & it feels good. When we talk online or on the phone, thats when the fighting starts. Its like he's playing lil boy games with me. Should I cross him off totally or not give up just yet?

I would break up with him.-trix

Q: I have gone through a 14 hour babysitting course at Baylor Hospital, I am certified at the heimlech maneuver and CPR. I think that I am fully qualified to babysit, and my parents say thatt i can. The problem is, I have only had one real job! No one asks me because I am short for my age, therefore I look young but I am very mature. How do I get babysitting jobs?
Signed,
Helpless

Fliers in local stores or something like that-trix

Q: k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it?

no not if he has a gf.. but you should talk to him-trix

Q: ok im going out with this guy that i was TOTALLY in love with for a while i digged him so much and i was completly HEAD OVER HEELS for him but now i just dont like him anymore...we never talk and its not working out. its so hard though because hes been my BEST friend since 5th grade and now im in 9th im SO scared if i break up with him itll ruin our friendship thats so strong...what should i do?!?1 :(

I would tell him.. he will understand-trix

Q: On the last day of school, these mean popular girls came up to me and started to pick a fight just for the fun of it. I got a little emotionable. Now next year I dont want that to happen again. What should i do to avoid that?

~*AhHhHhH*~

Just be friendly and dont bring up the past and dont stare at them and talk about them-trix

Q: ok my parents dislike my brother just b/c they dont like his girlfriends parents and they think his girlfriend will b a bad influence on him and sumtimes when im on the computer i hear them talking to eachother and there like saying bad things about him and i feel like really bad b/c i for 1. i dont like hearing bad stuff about my bro b/c he is my own flesh and blood 2. is b/c i feel like im caught in the middle of them b/c my bro tells me stuff about my parents and then my parents talk about him!
help i need help on how to bare this situation!
and when i do tell my parents about this situation there like stay out of this and im like ok but... there like no stay out its none of ur business and im like i HAVE MY OWN RIGHT TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS! and my bro says the same thing to me! and i try to help and all but they seem to not want it and the never take it into consideration...
help!

signed..
stuck in the middle:(

Just tell them both to not invovle you cuz you dont want to be stuck in the middle-trix

Q: my 2 friends like this guy that i just started to like. should i tell them that i like him too?

of course.. would you like them to hide it from you?-trix

Q: everyone is talkin about being a moderator and i do not no what it is !! cuz i might wanna be one or sumthin ! IM me AIM my s.n is d 0 r k y me x3

please i wanna kno really bad

- RaChEl

You cant just be like hey i want to be one.. you have to earn it you get to rate the questions weather they are bad ok or good-trix

Q: Ok one of my closest friends always crys at school. She makes a BIG deal about everything. And when one of her ex - friends dumps her she'll hate them for the rest of her life. Is she overly sensitive or is she doing it for attention. Please help.

~*AhHhHhH*~

Tell her-trix

Q: okay me n my boyfriend have been together since .. november 13 andhe went to this party tonight and the last party he went to he let a girl flash him and stuff so should i be worried if he sed he was sorry ??

I would be worried but its about trust but seems to me as if he broke it the last time.. why didnt u go to this party.. seems fishy to me-trix

Q: ok well u no how they have bases on yer personal life like homebase is having sex well whats 1st 2nd and 3rd base??

I've always told people that everybody has there own opinions but i think 1st is kiss and 2nd is making out and 3rd is everything b4 sex and homerun is sex-trix

Q: I have a very busy schedule...and i dont have time to go to a gym...so does anyone have advice on what I can do to help me lose weight? or at least to get in great shape and to have a nice firm body?

Work out before you go to bed and walk more places rather then getting a ride-trix

Q: i think i might like this boy and we always talk about like sexual stuff together kidding around and i think im starting to like him but how do i tell if he really likes me..please help
signed
- blind dove

Tell him when you are talking like that but make sure he knows your as serious as the next person he will be more flirty and less jokingly about it-trix

Q: hey! Ok umm...in subprofile...some people have in their pro {your profile has been viewed _ times..and it has the number that person has viewed ur profyle...how do u get that in thurr?

Omg this is self-explanatory.. by having people view your profile and it goes in there automatically-trix

Q: Okay, I just turned 16 a month ago and I have found myself to be interested in this girl who lives down my street. The problem is she is 14 (two grades below me), she goes to a different school, and her older brother is in the grade above me. On top of that her older brother used to be my best friend, and I know the family from back when I was his best friend. We are both afraid to do anything above being friends because of this situation we are in. Any suggestions?

Well give it a shot.. see what happans and if it doesnt work out then you will both no why and everything will be back to normal-trix

Q: ok almost all the time my parents get on my nerves i dono if its hormones or wat but like my mom will yell at me just for not like putting my clothes away and i think the reason is b/c her dad did the same thing to them like ya know verbal abuse but my mom isnt verbally abusing me its just a lil bit like that and im just kinda like u dont have to yell and shes like YES I DO! and then when i try to talk back to her my dad sticks up for my mom and so i cant say wat i want to.:( and then like the next day there all like so how was ur day today and im like leave me alone and then there like y hunnie y and im like b/c u said i was acting bitchy yesterday and shes like go to ur room! and im like ok...

i need sum advice please help me!

signed,
*sigh*

Its just that you are probably at that age where you have your spurts of liking them and what not.. its normal dont worry we will all grow out of that stage.. it sounded to me like you were reading a mini story of my life so its happans dont worry-trix

Q: well ok ive never had sex before....and every guy i have ever dated always wants to have sex...ive gottin fingered before 3 times but like im scared to have sex...does it hurt really bad yer first time? like i dont know im kinda scared and i want to do it i just dont know what should i do?

Yes i am sure it does but dont do it if your not ready to cuz you'll regret it i am sure-trix

Q: well theres this boy that i really really like and i have for a long time....alomst a year now and we dated for about a week and i dont exactly remember why we broke up...but anyways i think im in love with him he is like my best friend we hang out alot and hes kinda like a friend with benifits cuz we kiss and everything...well now he has a girlfriend and shes one of my good friends and i know they will go out for a long tim but i rally love him and i cant tell him and i dont know what to do :( help plez

Well i would just leave them to alone because you should have spoken up sooner.. but they i am sure wont last forever-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"