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ok my parents dislike my brother just b/c they dont like his girlfriends parents and they think his girlfriend will b a bad influence on him and sumtimes when im on the computer i hear them talking to eachother and there like saying bad things about him and i feel like really bad b/c i for 1. i dont like hearing bad stuff about my bro b/c he is my own flesh and blood 2. is b/c i feel like im caught in the middle of them b/c my bro tells me stuff about my parents and then my parents talk about him!
help i need help on how to bare this situation!
and when i do tell my parents about this situation there like stay out of this and im like ok but... there like no stay out its none of ur business and im like i HAVE MY OWN RIGHT TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS! and my bro says the same thing to me! and i try to help and all but they seem to not want it and the never take it into consideration...
help!
signed..
stuck in the middle:(
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well i see ur really stuck in the middle but technically its none of ur business! and i noee u dont want to hear about it so if either of them go to u and tell u n e thing tell them tat its none of ur business as they say and that u dont want to hear about it.. or maybe just try to tell them how u feel but i really think u should stay out of it!
xoxo angie
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Ok I stole this from Dear Abby. Every time your brother or parents say something rude or mean about the other say "I thought you just said...." Eventually they hear themselves and get the hint. You can also trying to bring up another subject equally as boring and ignoring theirs. Hopefully they get the hint.
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Just tell them both to not invovle you cuz you dont want to be stuck in the middle-trix
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Well...I love how you're standing up for what you believe. That's always a good start. Maybe everytime you hear them talking about him...you should go to another room, or go get in the middle of it and change the subject. When your brother talks about it, tell him...I want nothing to do with this. You really need to get your parents in a calm mood and get them together with your brother and tell them in a mature way..I'm absolutly tired of hearing the nasty things all of you say about eachother. Make a point that they are all guilty...and that you're only pointing at all of them...not certain ones. Make sure you let them know in a mature way though...they'll pay more attention to you. I hope I helped...good luck sweetie. I'm always here btw...<3 have a good night!
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wow...you seem to be in a VERY hard posistion...if i was you since they always seem to cut you off with "stay out of it" while your talking you should write both your brother and your parents a letter about how you feel. in the letter tell them exactly the things you wrote in this question AND include more stuff if you want...im sure they will both read it nomatter what because its all in writing...they cant cut anything off. and that way they know how you feel about it, and im sure things will get better for you! good luck!
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