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I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her.

well t depends on why you broke up. if its just because she's shallow, get over her. if she was just seeing if you cared, try and try again!

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i have an emergency question, im going to the pool in 45 minutes with my friend and im on my period. tampons are so uncomfortable for some reason, but my period is extremely light. i was wondering if i could get away with no tampon

yeah you can get away with no tampon.

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ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months,and we never go anywhere, and thats because of me, i just dont feel right around him but i like him and all, and im pretty sure he likes me more then i like him, and in the past couple of days, well ive been talking to this boy johnny, and hes absouloutly my type, and i told him i liked him and he said liked me back, he said he would wait till me and my boyfriend brake up, but i like my boyfriend to!, so i dont know what to do cause he likes me so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i like him and johnny, please help im stuck

i guess to put it simply, go with johnny! if you wanna know why, read the question or ask me.

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i like 2 people and im going out w/ 1 im not sure what to do so i can really use some help here thx

dont go with both of them...make a list of pros and cons and see which one makes you the most happy then go for that one.

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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

rate high

dont tell her your secrets again. actually you should say something that you dont mind the whole world knowing but tell her to keep it secret and see who finds out. that should get her.

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Hi.
I have acne and whenever I wash my face, it feels tight and starts to get dry and sometimes flakey. What's this mean? Also if it helps I just started using this face wash.

ohhh!! that means you are overwashing and need moisture! try curel lotion. it wont make you break out, trust me. or if you really hate it, see a derm, hell take you off the wash and put you on meds and topical creams. hope this helps!

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can anyone give me the sOng title that goes ..
im hanging by a moment here with you
..
anyone know it by any chance?

thank yah =) xoxo

"Hanging by a moment" by lifehouse!! great song!

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I'm in a horrible situation. I just left my boyfriend of 10 months the other day. The day after I dumped him I hung out with this guy, Austin, and my friend, Tarra. I had hung out with Austin earlier in the week at his Fourth of July party and had a lot of fun. Well, on the day we hung out we all went to the movies and he put his arm around me. I know, it was WAY too soon to be doing that expesically since I just got out of a 10 month relationship, but something just felt right about it. -- When my boyfriend and I hit about 7-8 months, we started to have problems. He used to call all the time and text all the time. He used to call to say I love you, but now he rarely ever said it when we got off the phone. It felt like to me he just totally stopped caring. All my friends believed that how he was treating me wasn't right. I do believe I was at the early stages of depression when I was sating him because I'd cry with no reason, and I'd cry all the time. I felt worthless and my boyfriend never knew how I felt. He treated me like I was worthless, he stopped trying to explain his feelings and what was going on in his life to me, but then comes Austin. I met him whenever my boyfriend and I were still dating, so I stayed my distance. He cares. Austin makes me feel needed and he acts like he cares for me, and he lets me know that. [Austin] (9:05:03 PM): i cant stop thinking about you... honestly ive never felt this way before. and im here to help not run away
[Austin] (9:05:11 PM): some guys cant handle that but i atleast want to try.
That's what he said, and our whole coversations seem to be this way. Well, somebody told my boyfriend about the whole arm thing. Austin is anything but a rebound guy. I don't know how to explain it, but my ex boyfriend hates me for what I did. I undersatnd I hurt him, but he doesn't believe he changed at all throughout the relationship and I say if he can't see a simple thing like that then it was time for me to look elsewhere. I feel that it took somebody else to treat me right to understand that I was being treated wrong.

What are your feelings on this situation.

oh wow this sounds way to much like what happened to me!! austin...it seems like you werent really together for the last 2-3 months anyway so it not like you are moving on the day you guys were over. i think you should date austin... he obviously wants to treat you right and this guy is crazy about you. just dont do it too soon. if your ex is jealous...hes the one that let it slip away. hope this helps and leave me some if you need anything else!

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does anyone know where i can work at the age of 14?

it depends on the state...you can babysit, ref soccer or bball games, teach music lessons, deliever newspapers, bag groceries, clean salons or work in fast food or caddy for golf.

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so i wanna be friends with benefits with this guyfriend..i have feelings for him but he just wants fun..anyways i want ideas on how to be dominant and act more like im in it for the fun also and not for feelings..have any?
any stories of being in my position maybe?
thanks

so you want him for more than just fun...but you want him to co me back for more?? well you could try doing something to please him...it varies so you should ask then tease him a ton. that should keep him commin.

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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do?

i dont think he loves you. just be like "ok..so??" and dont go out with him unless he like PROVES (u know what i mean?) that he really cares and stops making fun of you obviously!! hope this helps!

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i want to stop watching porn what should i do?

dont purchase it, block it from the tv, imagine it being your grandparents on the screen i dunno just tell yourself not to and avoid the tv for a while.

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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me

thats disgusting. dont let him do that to you! get your parents/teachers involved because you should not have to be scared that a peer is going to be touching you inappropriatly. tell him to stop and be compltetly serious, not like playin around and dont let him see any emotion either. if you like tart crying, he got what he wanted. pleassee tell someone tho! hope this works out for you!

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i use to cut alot but after i started goin out w/ this one guy i stopped for him. We broke up after 6 months and for this whole past year every time ive wanted to cut i've thought of him and would think about how much he would hate it if i started again. Well im still in love w/ him and i finally got the courage to call him and tell him. He told me that did love me and that really broke my heart and i've been wanting to cut really bad but i don't know what to do!someone plz help!!!!

thanx
-twiSted

please dont cut yourself!! it wont make things any better. you'll have a broken heart and a bloody wrist...the guy wont care and if you want him to pitty you, he wont!! show that you can be strong and you dont need him. you can live without the guy or cutting yourself. i bet tons of guys are out there just waiting for you to like them and they would wanna make you happy so you never even THINK of cuttin again. pleaseee i beg you..dont do it!! there are other ways to take out sadness and rage..try kickboxing! hope this helps!!

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Here's the problem I was in the school play last year, well actually half of it i quit cause it was so boring but that's the thing i want to be in the school plays but when we rehearse and do out lines i get bored and think of it as a total waste of time. We even have line tests and i get pretty nervouse in front of big crowds. Here's the other problem I love to sing as a matter of fact I am one of the best singers in my school. I like choir because i show off my voice but what i don't like is the teacher she is sooooooooooooo bossy and weird. I came 15 min. late to class like i always do and she stares at me and my frends like shes gonna cast a spell on us or something. It's scaaaaaaaary. She also makes a wear a long black skirt and long white blouse for our concert thingy. We have bad songs to i mean last year we had to do a hawaiian dance and sing hawaiian it was total emberassment. what should i do please help
i rate 5's for any logical answer
thanx

lmao!! wow that blows. i also happen to have a case similar to yours. i sang with the childrens choir so we would sing really stupid songs && yeah the director still hates me and wont let me show off. if you really hate it that much, join a different choir.for the school play, it doesnt sound like the thing you wanna do...you seem, in a word, miserable so just dont do it. if you wanna sing and act and stuff like that, do school talent shows or "american idol" type things in your home town! hope this helps you decide!

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I have 101 books and i have a bookshelf thats attached to my wall my mom says i should take off 70 of them or something but the problem is where do i put my books i need some help. i don't have any boxes and i can't get any what should i do and my closet is full. please help me
thanx

well you can donate ones that you have already read or outgrown or pass them down to a sibling. if you simply cannot part with them, find a place in your room where you can stack them or line them up against a wall. you could get one of those storage bins for your closet or under your bed to put them in...some are only like $5 so invest in that to save the books!! hope this helps!

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ok theres another guy i like named drew and he also nos i like him but all my 8th grade friends say since hes popular hes like all the other popular guys.... HE WANTS A PEICE OF UR ASS ((thats what my friends say)) but he seems really nice

another?? is there someone else or am i totally off?? ok popular guys always seem nice and sweet and what not but i do agree with your friends, he does want a piece of your ass!! look for a guy you have similar interests with or isnt known as "popular" or as a "player". relationships like that a) dont last long b) cause tons of unecesary drama, trust me. stay groovy!!

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ok im 13 and i have only had 2 bfs and they both only lasted for like 2 days they say im really pretty but then y dont they still wanna go out the one i really liked said he wasnt comfortable around me and he had his friend break up with me for him!! and now that he broke up with me i try to talk to him but he never listens!!

you are WAY to mature to be in a relationship with these guys. yeah theyre cute but thats super lame that they got a friend to break up with you for them. just wait for the right guy to come along...not just whoever. it obviously wasnt meant to be...youll find someone else, trust me. only 2 bfs is a lot for some people and its not a race who can have the most, its who lasts the longest. move on, these guys suck!! lmao, hope this helps!

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Why should people become Christains? Like what iss the purpose in it?

well honestly, im a christian and i dont give a damn if the rest of the world doesnt wanna become christian. seriosusly, its a personal thing and from an "outsiders" point of view, it must not be very appealing! some people thing that if the whole world is christian everyone will live happy and get along and do marvelous things for each other in utopia when in reality youd have to massacre a million people to get half the world to do that. ok i hope this answers your question...oh and good thought too. ill rolly end up adding some more later cuz im gonna be thinking about it for a while.

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OK so i met this guy online like 5 yrs ago. We have gotten to close and we both love each other SO much. He lives in florida but plans to move closer to me by next summer.i really want to be w/ him but im really scared i don't know if its right. Should i tell him to go ahead and move here or tell him to wait or something?

THANX
-twiSted

well is he planning to like move in with you?? or is he moving to a town 45 minutes away where you can avoid him if you hate him?? if someone is movng somewhere you cant really stop them from it...thats rude and they have the freedom to do whatever they want. if you dont wanna meet him right away then dont tell him exactly where you live or meet him anywhere. oh and im sorrie if i totally misread your question...im trying to figure it out as i go!

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