so i wanna be friends with benefits with this guyfriend..i have feelings for him but he just wants fun..anyways i want ideas on how to be dominant and act more like im in it for the fun also and not for feelings..have any?
any stories of being in my position maybe?
thanks
xhillary answered Friday July 8 2005, 12:55 am: if you really have feelings for him, why pretend that you <b>don't</b>? tell the guy that you <b>do</b> have feelings for him. and he might actually feel the same way. i just don't understand what the point of messing around with someone is- when in the end, <b>you're</b> the only one that's going to get hurt. i mean, honestly. think about it; you like him, he just wants to have fun. when he doesn't want to have fun with <b>you</b> anymore, and you're left in the dust; hurt. stop trying to pretend you don't have feelings, it's not going to help. he just wants to use you. that's going to make you feel good? that's going to make you feel needed? [ xhillary's advice column | Ask xhillary A Question ]
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