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is this right?!?!
OK so i met this guy online like 5 yrs ago. We have gotten to close and we both love each other SO much. He lives in florida but plans to move closer to me by next summer.i really want to be w/ him but im really scared i don't know if its right. Should i tell him to go ahead and move here or tell him to wait or something?
THANX
-twiSted
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well is he planning to like move in with you?? or is he moving to a town 45 minutes away where you can avoid him if you hate him?? if someone is movng somewhere you cant really stop them from it...thats rude and they have the freedom to do whatever they want. if you dont wanna meet him right away then dont tell him exactly where you live or meet him anywhere. oh and im sorrie if i totally misread your question...im trying to figure it out as i go! <3
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There have been lots of questions about online relationships. If you want to see my opinion, check out this answer I've written to another question:
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Look what this chick did online without thinking:
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And even if you don't listen to me, at least please listen to this: be SAFE! If you plan on meeting up with him face to face NEVER go alone and DO NOT keep the relationship as a secret.
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that doesn't sound too good. why dont' you tell him that you want to plan a trip and meet up with him before he moves just incase because you don't want anything bad for either of you.
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i've had friends who did the online thing and it just doesnt work out..they all end up a lot happier with a guy from their school..the online thing gets dangerous sometimes and there is all kinds of weird stories out there..he might not be like that but myy opininon is to just wait for someone from your school to come along into your love life..its just what i think though..if you decide to have him move by you go for it but just be careful
-melissa-
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How are you going to know if he's right or wrong for you if you don't take the chance? Tell him to move closer to you when he can. But also leave him think about this for awhile; since it's such a huge step. But, wait! Have you ever seen this guy in person before? Or is he someone you just met off the internet and you have no clue who he is? If so, your answer lays on these two questions I've just asked. If you did see him and you truly do love him and both you and him want to be together, go for it and try to work things out. If you never seen this guy in your life, I'd think about it a little longer. He might be totally different online then he is in person.
♥ Krissy
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