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The Boy I love..is now gone
ok..last year I went out with a guy for like 2 months. I was in love! Really..I was...the whole year we went off and on. Like...sometimes he liked me I liked him. Then he ended up moving. At first I really could care less because he treated me like crap. And now..I`m crying so hard. I miss him so much, I would do anything for our relationship to work. I really love this guy. Help.13/f
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you probably don't want me to say it, but if you feel this passionatly about him, it isn't love. when the passion fizzles is when the love starts. and if he moved, and he treated you like crap, i don't think you know him well enough to love him. and even if you really do, think about it. does he deserve it? i was in a relationship like that once, where i was in love with a guy who treated me like crap and another time with a guy who ignored me while we were going out. try to find someone who deserves your love a little more than this guy.
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Me and my boyfriend live away from each other, too. Try sending emails, aim, phone, or mail. Anything for you two to stay connected until you might see each other again. I live in Georgia and my bf lives in Lousiana and I'm about to move to Virginia so think about how far away that is and yes I miss him a lot but talking to him makes it soo much better. Soo try one of those ideas . Hope I helped ! - Heather
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Well, I think that you really do care for him. Maybe you could have a long distance relationship. Send each toher pictures.
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your a pussy, just move on.
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when i was 14 this guy i reeeally liked and had a relationship with moved away..and it took awhile but things got better..so dont dwell on what cant be fixed..hes gone :( i know it sux but hes gone now and its time to start to move on. your 13..i know you dont think so but there will be lots more guys in your love life, so get ready for the ride because its great and it sux too at times.
for now, go out with friends, meet new people, LIVE IT UP! these are the best years of your life, dont spend your summer being sad..spend it having an awesome time with friends! yeah your gonna think about him and miss him..but im telling you take it from me it gets easier as time goes on...things always work out ...so for now remember the good times and try and have as much fun as possible!
ihope i helped you out?
-melissa-
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You're 13? It will never work, I've "felt" the same feelings you have and im 15 next week and none of my relationships have worked out. Long distance at that young of an age wont work either. As of now, you're caught up in the moment, let things settle down, you'll meet other guys. If you have your heart so set on having him, then follow your heart do what you think is right because a bunch of random people on a website will never help you in the same way.
<3Angel
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You are mourning a "whatif"
Like whatif you two worked out all your problems and fell madly in love and got marriend and had three kids and a dog and cat and cottage...
Yuck. Stop doing this to yourself. You said he didn't treat you well. That wasn't going to change, and there were obviously reasons that it didn't work out.
Cry it out and move on.
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Why am i answering my own question?!
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