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I'm fifteen, female.
I get whistled at, hooted at from trucks, minorly harassed A LOT. It's harmless, and a little of it I have no problem with, but it gets annoying.
It's reeeeeeeally hot most of the time (I'm writing from Mexico, and I usually live in Southern California), so just covering up isn't an option, and it doesn't seem to help. I tried it one day when it was cool outside and got just as much unwanted attention as usual.
I've tried being a bit aggressive, but I don't know these people and most of the time they just laugh. Also, it doesn't stop it from happening the next time, which is all I really care about.
So, how can I stop guys from doing this? Is there anything I can wear that's nice and cool but utterly unflattering? (link)
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so your complaining because you are too hot? i know girls that would kill for that kind of attention, but i guess the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. anyways you could make yourself ugly if you really want. chop off most of your hair, where a minimizer bra. loose shorts that dont show off your but. slouch when you walk. i dunno what else
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i don't like myself. is that normal? like are there other people out there who don't like themselves either? i dunno, i just am having a really tough time and i'm liking myself less and less and less. please help me. i just feel so out there and wierd. (link)
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nobody really likes themselves all that much. not weird at all.
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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!! (link)
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so you jsut met this guy and your thinking of breaking up with your bf of nine months? not to mention your friend might not like the idea of you going out with her brother. so yeah stay with the bf.
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hey. how long does the pleasure last when ur having sex? i hope it lasts longer then masterbating cuz the pleasure only lasts lyk 15 seconds when i masturbate. i rate high! (link)
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well if your doing it with some one you love, the emotional conenction, coupled with how close your bodies are will bring alot of plessure. the actual orgasmic plessure last longer but not by much.
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Well let me say i am over 21 i have a real problem my boyfriend and i are together for three yrs i was married before this for fourteen yrs and now i live with my boyfriend we have never had sexual intercourse in 3 yrs. i am so bitchy because of it i have done everything to try to get him interested in sex. i have talked to him i have emailed him and once i even was gonna hook up with this guy in the area but he found out about it. and put an end to it. i do all the house work and more i wait on him basically hand and foot. nothing seems to work i am basically killing myself around the house to please him. but i do have to admit for the past few months i have been really bitchy. i do not wanna end this relationship although i do not know why except i have spent alot of money and time in this relationship for it to end. i have tried being nice i have tried everything i am at my wits end over this i no sex is not everything maybe that is what i am holding on to. in a way i feel he is driving me to another man's bed and if that is what he wants i will be happy to oblige. i dont think this is what he wants cause i no he is gonna dump me if he finds out i would love just to have sex for an entire day i think it would do alot for myself. yes if u have not guessed already i have a high sex drive and it is like a drug addict being cut off only worse like 5000 times worse we sleep in the same bed he tells me he loves me and i do love him. i have talked to drs like i said i have done everything. he lays cuddled up to me in the bed. which is hard. i cry alot over this. i have asked him what turns him on when i ask him there is no reply. i would be willing to do just about anything please help no i am not gonna go to a sex therapist cause he wont go but basically anything else (link)
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when your in bed together try masturbating, firstly it will quell your drive a little bit, second off moaning turns a guy on. he might be insecure about his ability to please women so compliment him alot and look really happy after you kiss.
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Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable .. (link)
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do you live in alabama? cuz if you do thats normal. anyways this isnt normal but it is a psychological condition to be attracted to relatives. i suggest telling him to get help, that is assuming you are sure that you arent mistaken about it being hitting on you. is it your uncle from your moms side or dads? because tahts the one you should be talking to. but yeah other than that not much you can do other than avoid him
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Hi, OKay I skipped my period for 3 months and then started again. But I am really heavy compared to my normal. Is that normal? (link)
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ive heard from several of my friends that taking the birth control pill helps make your period regular. you have nothing to worry about unless your like 30 but im guessing that isnt the case
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My parents just told me they might be getting a divorce. I'm devistated. If they got a divorce, nothing would ever be the same again. Help! (link)
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well jsut becasue they dont love each other anymore doesnt mean they dont love you. there really isnt much you can do about it. but on the slightly shallow broght side you get double the presents per holiday. yeah ok this probably isnt something to joke about. really things will change but unless one of them is moving really far away you will still have both of your parents
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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think? (link)
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oral usualy comes before sex, but anyways i think you should let him. btw even though he said you arent obliged to give it back to him, he is hoping that you will. dont worry he probly wont expect you to kiss him afterwards.
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what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense (link)
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i used to have frizzy hair i find that childrens shampoo works pratty well to soften it up. i use loreal kids.
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well I'm 14 and I just had a baby and I don't know what I should do like should I keep braist feeding or sumthing I'm so confused I'm only going in 9th grade and it's really hard for me to take care of my baby when my parents aren't around I love my little girl so much her names Zoé but the father doesn't love her or want anything to do with her what should I do I need help?? (link)
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its guys like that that give my gender a bad name. i couldnt immagine leaving my girlfriend after getting her pregnant. studies have shown that the longer a child is breast fed (within reason) the smarter they grow up to be. where are your parents? are you living somewhere by yourself? you really should try finishing high school, the job aspects for a high school drop out arent exactly promising. do you have any family that would be willing to help? i really wish i could help you more if you have anything else you want to ask and if you can give me more details on what i asked drop a question in my box id be happy to help.
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I liked a guy and told him and he said that he didnt like me back... so i got over it and i kinda like someone exactly like it!! And now me and him have gotten to be awesome friends and i am sorda having feelings for him again!! And i dont want to tell him because i dont want to ruin the friendship!! I mean i have dropped hints but i dont think he knows!! What do i do?? (link)
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dont tell him how you feel, it will ruin the friendship. personal experiance here, asking a friend out once is ok but a second time will make it really really uncomfortable.
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i'm on my sister's advice name, but im a guy and i have really hairy arm pits. is it weird to um...shampoo it? does anyone else do this? thnx (link)
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i shampoo mine its fine.
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hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop? (link)
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ok this has gone waaay beyond talking to her if shes cutting you and burning you. you need to call the police like now. i want you to pick up the phone and dial the cops. at any moment she could snap and seriously hurt you.
cops asap.
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th3re iis a bOii ii liike. .ALOTT. but he has a girlfriiend that he dOesnt really like anyways. he flirts with me sOmetimes by like hitting me and hOldiin me. but he is like that with other gurls tOo. and he dOesnt even knO i like him. what shOuld i dO. Or tell me what you think.
thAnkyOu!!
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you should not hit on guys with girlfriends. its wrong on many levels. even if you do get him the girl will probably try to beat you up or spread romors about you. now if he breaks up with her feel free to go for it but till then hold off.
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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." That day I came home and started crying. I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
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emotions are not logical you cannot control them, ive been played and i have trouble getting over her to this day (been about 3 years) the liking doesnt really fully go away, it jsut sort of fades into the background like white noise and you learn to sort of ignore it.
while a guy can change his ways, its rare so chances are he sees you as a conquest.
i wouldnt recomend trying to make it work out. as they say theres plenty of fish in the sea, and you gotta find one that isnt going to flap its tail in your face.
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ok I think I'm fat but no1 else does..are they lying to make me feel better or am I just not fat? I'm 4'8 and I weigh 76 pounds (link)
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all girls think they are fat, its genetic. you arent fat and youre friends are telling you the truth
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Is there anything bad for you in Diet Sodas? I know they say regular sodas are bad for you because they have so much sugar, but since diet sodas have none, does that mean they're fine for you? Is it okay if you have one or more a day? Or is there other bad stuff for you in there? (link)
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the sweetner used in diet drinks is suspected to cause cancer. there is also something in them called phenolalanine and there are people with a disorder called phenolketoneurea (amongst otehr things it turns your pee black) well these people cannot digest phenolalanine and it will build up in their brain causing it to die. now for a normal person a large amount of phenolalanine is still bad but you would need to drink like a 12 pack a day for it to really affect you. still the cancer risk is enough, would you rather be a couple pounds heavier or die is the reall question when choosing sodas.
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every once in a while (but not too much) I go to some sort of fancy dinner and I always get so confused when the first course comes with my silverware. Which fork do I start with? Usually I just use what the person next to me uses, but what if they're waiting for me to use a fork first? it could become very very confusing. (link)
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start from the outside and work your way in. for reference the salad fork is usualy cold.
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i'm kinda depressed cuz i'm not captain of my sports team senior year and i think i would've been really good at it and i was just hoping somebody else could relate to me or boost my spirits a little :) thanks (link)
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dont throw around the word depressed, it is an actual medical condition that ruins peoples lives. everyone is mad when they dont get the position they wanted, i was pissed off at the drama teacher when i didnt get a part in the schoo play. disappointments are a part of life you arent going to get everything you want. this is a good age to learn stuff like this.
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