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i L0VE HiM T0 DEATH! ♥

HE'S 7 YEARS 0LDER THAN ME TH0UGH.

HE JUST TURNED 21.

S0 YES, i AM 14. N0, I'M N0T JAiL BAiT.

i'M H0MESCH00LED, iTS ACTUALLY PRETTY C00L.

i HAVE 0VER 20 PiERCiNGS.

i WAS RECENTLY DiAGN0SED WiTH DYSLEXiA. WHiCH JUST MEANS i READ STUFF BACKW0RDS.

i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

ACTUALLY T00 MUCH..

iN THE PAST FEW M0NTHS i HAVE F0UND 0UT i HAVE LiTTLE T0 N0 ST0MACH ACiD, AND i CAN N0T EAT S0LiD F00D ANYM0RE. WHiCH CAME FR0M BEiNG ANAREXiC/BELiMiC.

S0 i'M PRETTY MUCH 0N AN ALL LiQUiD DiET F0R THE NEXT TW0 YEARS.

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[ADDED: JAN 9, 06. I'VE BEEN SICK WITH STREP FOR OVER 3 WEEKS, AND GOT HOSPITALIZED LAST WENDSDAY. I HAVE NO IDEA WHEN I'M GONNA BE ABLE TO GET ONLINE AGAIN, CAUSE MY LAPTOP IS DYING FAST. SO PRAY THAT I GET WELL SOON.]


{JAN 23, 06. HEY. I JUST GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL MONDAY. I HAD A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND STUFF. ANYWAYS, I'M BETTER NOW. SO I'M BACK!}

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Who sings that new song "Temperature"? Its a rapper of some sort I think but I dont know who...

Its by Sean Paul. Which has been said like 5 times, but I wanted to join the croud! :D

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for school we have to bring in lyrics to a song we like..and it HAS to be one that we actually like because we are going to be doing stuff with it but it has to be school appropriate..meaning no swearing,no "i wanna screw my hoes with all m money up in herr"

Ok, well the first song I thought of when I read your question was When I'm Gone by Eminem.

Get the lyrics at azlyrics.com

But yeah, awesome some.

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I want to join the flag twirlers team. Sorry, i cant remembe exactly what it is called, but i know that it starts with a "c."
I just wanted to know if they were considered like unpopular, or are they more like cheerleaders?
Also, is it hard to be a flag twirler?

Hev

Its called Color Guard.

When I was in school, (I've been homeschooled since Jan.) they were kinda like cheerleaders.

Its very hard to be in color guard, I was my freshman year, and it was hell. Long hard practices, and they flags weigh a couple pounds. And the guns are pretty hard also. But with a lot of hard work and practice you can get it done! :D

Hope I helped!

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i am going to be redoing my room this summer and i cant seem to find any furniture i like online...

im looking for a few things in particular-

-a dark walnut stain bar stool (round seat, not padded)
-a dark walnut corner desk/desk
-a dark walnut bookshelf
-a dark walnut armoir that is longer than it is tall.

sites and stores are appreciated, thank you!

I ordered all the stuff for my room from pbteen.com

Go there, they have everything. They are sure to have what you are looking for!

:D

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okay well i am going onto my parents plan this weekend. and i am going through sprint. i really want a razr phone but they do not sell them at the sprint store so this is what i was thinking. (i have no knowledge on this whatsoever). okay well i was just going to add a line onto their plan and with that i can get one of the free phones. well if i got a free phone would i be able to switch the sim card out of that phone and possibly like buy a razr off of ebay with no sim card in it and put the sim card from my free phone into the razr phone? would the sims card only work on sprint phones or how would that work? i know one of my friends got a new razr phone and she put her sim card from her old phone into her new razr. but she had cingular. thanks in advance. and i am getting my phone this weekend so please hurry.

From my experience with this. You can switch SIM cards. Just make sure you have the SIM code. It has worked for me. So, hopefully it will for you! :D But yeah, all SIM cards are the same and will work in any phone!

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The other day i saw a commercial for this curling shampoo, im not quite sure what brand or anything it is, i was wondering if anyone knows what i am talking about and if they have ever used it? because i have pretty straight hair and i want my hair wavy, but not curly curly.
thanks

The commercial you saw was probably for Wash & Curl. It doesn't work. Me, my sister and loads of my friends have tryed it. But I have heard about something from John Frieda that works. Haven't tryed it though. But whatever you do, don't waste your money on Wash & Curl. Its a lie.

:D

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Okay, so I'm a natural blonde. but i want to dye my hair brown because i have really dark eye brows basically. and people said it would look good brown, and i also think it would look good, so i want to give it a try, but first i want to know. what if it doesnt look good. how can i get the brown out of my hair. and have my natural color back.
somoene told me if you wash your hair with tide it will go back to your natural hair color.
i need majorr help.

First off, don't wash your hair with Tide. Or you won't have any hair cause my friend did it.

Maybe you should start off using a semi-permant (washes out) color, to see if you like it. And if you do then go permanant!

Or, if you want to use permanant, they make stuff that will take the color out. But you will never be able to get your true natural color back unless you let your hair grow out then cut it. I've dyed my hair over 20 times (all different colors) so trust me, I know.

Good Luck! :D

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I'm looking for suggestions about a good summer cologne for men. Nothing to "flowery", rather a nice masculine scent.

Thanks!

I L0VE Curve Crush on a guy! Its so sexy. I even bought it for my brother! (which is wierd, for me.)

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When I sign on to your screen name on a cell phone, does that cost money or will they only charge you if you send IM's? And does it cost money if people IM me but I don't open the IM (like a text message)?

Somebody said it cost 10 cencts per IM, but it doesn't. I'm using it right now, and you know how much it cost to send and recieve IMs? Well thats the same for AIM.

If you don't read the IM, and just delete it then they don't charge.

But it also depends on the type of phone you have. I have a Motorola C139 and it doesn't even use a minute per IM. My twin sister has a TracFone and it works the same way!

:D

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I have alot of black heads on my nose, and a bunch of pimples on my forehead and my temples. They aren't like big and red, just alot of bumps. I've used dozens of acne medicines (Noxzmea, Clean and Clear, Clearasail just to name a few) and nothings ever gotten rid of them. My mom doesn't have the money for ProActive, or the dermatologist, so what are some ways to get rid of my acne once and for all!

I can totally relate. Wal-Mart sells omething in a white box called AcneFree. Its only $4 and it works miracles! Personally, I think it works better than ProActive. So, I suggest that.

This sounds wierd but, if you put duct tape on your nose (where the blackheads are) and leave it on for a couple of minutes, then pull it off, it gets the blackheads out. Oh, and it doesn't hurt to pull it off, cause you don't have to rip it off. Just take it off gently. :D

Hope I helped! :D

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Okay, this is kind of gross, but I mean, I really need help, and fast. You see, we've had a long history of breast cancer in my family, and my aunt died of it 2 years ago.

Well, I was taking a shower today, and I got out to dry myself off. I noticed that my chest hurt really bad, and I looked down, and saw this huge lump on the side of my nipple. I felt it and it felt like this huge ball underneath my skin. It hurts realy, really bad. I know that your breasts already hurt if you touch 'em, but this was just like excrusiating pain.

So I have a few questions.
1. Can you get breast cancer at 14 years old? (I just turned 14 on may 30th.)
2. Does anyone else have this?
3. If not, should I get it checked out?
4. If I do need to get it checked out, how should I tell my Mom?

I'm like, really scared. I hope its nothing, but I don't know who to ask. My Mom's not here, and when she does get here, she'll have 3 friends with her. Please help me ASAP!

1. I'm 13 and have had breast cancer for a year, so yes, it is possible.

2. Me, and thousands of other people. But I'm also diagnosed with cancer. So..yeah

3.

4. Just tell her, "Mom, my breast hurts really, really bad."

Since your mom will have friends wih her, you probably shouldn't tell her then. Wait until you are alone, like in the car, or shopping. Just tell her what you told us. Its not that hard once you start talking.

If you need somebody to talk to, I'm here, and can answer most of your questions. My email is mother_trucker_8592@yahoo.com I also have AIM, my screen name is Ashleigh Br00ke (those are zeros by the way)

I hope nothing is wronge. God Bless.

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ok, i go to swimteam during the summer, but i started my period. what tricks can i do-besides a tampon-to prevent blood from coming out? i've tried panty liners already...

I know how you feel. I heard that when you're in water that nothing comes out. Kinda like in the shower or bathtub. So, I'm pretty sure nothing will happen. But, if you are really worried about it then just use a tampon, thats really the only thing that will work. There is no tricks...unfortunatly.

You could get the pill were you only have 4 periods a year, but personally I think thats kinda dumb.

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Hey. I need some advice. really. I honestly dont know what to do. Here is my story of A friendship mysteriously gone with the wind.

I am bestfriends with a girl named sam and amanda. Alecia is also my friend.

One morning while i was getting ready for school sam had come over and said "Annie we need to talk somthing happened between me and amanda"
I said Okay. Sam usually goes to amandas class room before school because her mom is a teacher. Amanda had told sam that she felt "there friendship was slipping away and that sam shouldnt come early in the morning to her classroom anymore." I was a little confused but i blew it off. I figured i'd talk to amanda. So the next day Me and Sam sat down at our regular table with Alecia, Amanda, Ellen, Kayla, and Falicia. When we were done eating we walked out (just me and Sam). We walked by a corner and Alecia and "the gang" (amanda ellen kayla kandace and falicia). The gang walked off and alecia talked to me and sam. she said "Hi um we were all wondering why you guys were sitting at the table." i said "What?" alecia said "didnt sam tell you?" (i played dumb and said,) "no what did sam need to tell me" and alecia told me about the whole amanda situation and that "She did not want to be friends" I said "well if thats what amanda wants then i think i should talk to her, it doesnt seem like her to do that" and alecia says "Well amanda isnt rude like that so she told me to tell you" then everyone walks over and i say "Amanda whats going on?" Amanda says, "I just dont like the way you guys act around eachother [me and sam]" alecia says "Yeah sam i dont want to be friends with someone who always acts stupid and you guys talk about sick things" amanda says, "Yea sam you never used to act this way and neither did you annie" and the convo goes on and on. Well anyways. Ever since Sam and I have become really good bestfriends amanda has gotten really jelous. I honestly dont give a rats tail about alecia because shes really cold hearted and im not sure i liked her in the first place. But what do you think? I might call her but i dont know. HELP please!

I agree with what other people are saying. I know it hurts to hear it because obviously you thought a lot about her as a friend. But yeah, if she was a real, true friend then she wouldn't have done that. Do I make sense? ...I don't think so. :/

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What does "black on black" mean?

Its when you have a black car with black interior.

[I know this car my neighbor owns a car dealorship and I asked him :D]

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I hate having to worry bout my period starting while I'm at a friends. I was wondering how can find out the date of when your period is supposed to start? also how do you know when your ovulating?

Go to www.beinggirl.com
They have a period predictor thingy, that tell you when you will have your next period, all you do is but in info about your last period and it does the rest! :D

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ok, im going to be straight forward with this...

i have an unusually large penis, 10 inches, and my girlfriend is afraid to have sex with me because of it. She has no issues with any other kind of sexual activities, but she does NOT want that thing in her. what do i do?

My boyfriend, same problem. ITS HUGE. So, I can pretty much tell you from her perspective what its like, but I'm not, cause...I'm not.

Anyways, just take it slow, only put a little in at a time until she is comfortable with it, then go all the way, then you can get into all the hardcore shit we all love. So, just take it slow.

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i REALLY want to shop at a&f and hollister and stores like that. it's not because everyone else does, it's because personally i like there clothes. my parents make me shop at wal mart and it's messing up my social life. i hate wal mart's clothes and shit and my friends ask me why i don't wear the good brands. and it's not like my family can't afford good clothes, because my dad's a multi millionaire. they just don't understand WHY i want to spend so much on clothes. i've made up my mind and don't tell me it doesn't matter what i wear because i'll give you a 1. i need to prove to my parents that shopping at the expensive stores is worth it. and i can't make any money on my own because if i do, my parents say I CANT spend it on a&f and hollister clothes. it's messing up my social life. i wont have friends ever again because i cant wear nice clothes. im done with wal mart so what can i say to my parents so they'll let me shop where i want ?!? i'm old enough to choose where i want to purchase my clothes, especially when my dad was over 1 million dollars.

anything good will get you a 5
i promise

I would like to start off by saying, I highly doubt your dad is a multi millionaire. Second, if your friends were real friends, then they wouldn't care what the fuck you wear!

ITS NOT ABOUT CLOTHES, ITS WHATS ON THE INSIDE. THE ACTUAL PERSON!

Its stupid. End of story.

You should be ashamed to be complaining about wearing Wal-Mart clothes, when some people don't even have clothes to wear!

How is shopping at expensive stores "worth it"? I mean really, what are you, some 13 year old with absolutly no self-confidence. Wait, you are. Otherwhise you wouldn't have said that your dad is a millionaire. Cause we know you're lieing. And you are so worried about your clothes.


MY ADVICE:
Clothes are everything. And if you want to spend your whole life worrying about what other people think about the clothes you wear, then you will spend your life, with no life.


-oh, and i know your gonna give me a low rating, but i don't care. what i said is the truth.

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I was thinking about getting limewire. Can you put these songs onto an mp3 player & if so how.

I got LimeWire long ago, and I love it! And yes, you can put songs onto your MP3. Its easy, once the song(s) are downloaded, simply put them onto your MP3 just like you would any other time. Thats what I do anyways.

Good Luck! :D

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okay.
im 13.
i just got my frist period this morning.
i dont wanna tell my mom! should i keep it low for a while? or no..?
i took some of my sis's pads.

I had the same problem. This is gonna sound really dumb, but heres what I did. I took my one of my sisters pads, left it in the wrapper, and wrote on it, "mom, guess what?" then sign your name. That way you don't have to actually tell her. Or just casually say the next time you and her go shopping, "mom, i need some pads" She will most likely not make a big deal about it. So, Good Luck! Its really a hard thing to talk about, I know how you feel.

Good Luck

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My friends sister, before she left, threw some bottles at us.
IT's called Primegra
I know you're supposed to put 2 drops under your tongue before 'sexual activity'
but on the back it says it's not garunteed to prevvent STDS.

sooo, what's it for?

Its to make you want to have sex, and to improve your sex life.

Always use a condom though! :D

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