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A friendship mysteriously gone with the wind. please read i
Hey. I need some advice. really. I honestly dont know what to do. Here is my story of A friendship mysteriously gone with the wind.
I am bestfriends with a girl named sam and amanda. Alecia is also my friend.
One morning while i was getting ready for school sam had come over and said "Annie we need to talk somthing happened between me and amanda"
I said Okay. Sam usually goes to amandas class room before school because her mom is a teacher. Amanda had told sam that she felt "there friendship was slipping away and that sam shouldnt come early in the morning to her classroom anymore." I was a little confused but i blew it off. I figured i'd talk to amanda. So the next day Me and Sam sat down at our regular table with Alecia, Amanda, Ellen, Kayla, and Falicia. When we were done eating we walked out (just me and Sam). We walked by a corner and Alecia and "the gang" (amanda ellen kayla kandace and falicia). The gang walked off and alecia talked to me and sam. she said "Hi um we were all wondering why you guys were sitting at the table." i said "What?" alecia said "didnt sam tell you?" (i played dumb and said,) "no what did sam need to tell me" and alecia told me about the whole amanda situation and that "She did not want to be friends" I said "well if thats what amanda wants then i think i should talk to her, it doesnt seem like her to do that" and alecia says "Well amanda isnt rude like that so she told me to tell you" then everyone walks over and i say "Amanda whats going on?" Amanda says, "I just dont like the way you guys act around eachother [me and sam]" alecia says "Yeah sam i dont want to be friends with someone who always acts stupid and you guys talk about sick things" amanda says, "Yea sam you never used to act this way and neither did you annie" and the convo goes on and on. Well anyways. Ever since Sam and I have become really good bestfriends amanda has gotten really jelous. I honestly dont give a rats tail about alecia because shes really cold hearted and im not sure i liked her in the first place. But what do you think? I might call her but i dont know. HELP please!
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I dont think you should call her because she was being rude and mean to you. You dont want her to win the fight and feel good about herself getting back her friend Annie ( you. ) You want her to feel like she left two really great friends. ANd its good that Amanda is jelous, now she knows she lost the fight. If amandas a good friend she'll come to you guys herself.
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I agree with what other people are saying. I know it hurts to hear it because obviously you thought a lot about her as a friend. But yeah, if she was a real, true friend then she wouldn't have done that. Do I make sense? ...I don't think so. :/
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Well, I think it's great that you and Sam took all of this time to only get closer as friends instead of stirring things up with the rest of your gang.
As for now, keep that friendship with her going. Amanda is the one who decided that you both weren't her friends so if she's too unhappy without you both, she can come to you guys and say something about it. Not you.
I'm not sure what it is that made her decide to do this, but at this point it probably shouldn't matter. Maybe the truth is that she has always been jealous of the friendship you and Sam have had. But I think if she truly discovers that you both were an important role in her life, then she'll come around and say something or make someone else tell you like last time.
-TheTeenGirl
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Just keep doing what your doing, hanging out with Sam. It'll piss Amanda off. She's just trying to make excuses to make herself feel good by putting you guys down because she's jelous! Forget them, branch out and make newer better friends. She sounds like a bad friend. Forget her. I wouldn't talk to any of them, cept for Sam because Amanda should be calling you up apologizing to you! You deffinately didn't do anything wrong and their not worth your time. I'm really sorry!!Hope things get better for you!
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