Q: hey well my prob is...well i think im starting to like my bestfriend's ex. like she's told me that she wouldnt care who he went out with but she still would want to know whats going on with him and all. she doesnt know i like him or anything i want her to know but i dont know how id tell her. and like I have a boyfrend and i dont wanna break up with him. her ex seems to be flirting back with me and all he has a g/f but shes kinda cheating on him and he doesnt know. i wouldnt know if he would wanna go out with me, i have a boyfriend that i love till death and i dont know how to get rid of the feeling that i like my bestfriend's ex. so yeah what do i do

Q: when i was in 4th grade my dad came to my school and told me he was leaving forever. My dad is a very abusive person and threatend a lot of stuff on my family. Its been 5 years and hes back. My mom is afraid she wont meet any guys again. So my dad is living at my house and he yells at me a lot when my moms not home. Im scared of him bcuz he might still be abusive. My mom doesnt understand and i dotn know what to do. i get in a fight with him every day. Please help.

Q: A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.

Q: I'm 15 years old & I have an over protective mom. She makes sure my shirt doesn't show my chest at all and my pants do not show any of my underwear. She barely even lets me out with my friends! I mean, its summer and I wanna stay out late with my friends alot. Its not like I have to study or get up early for school! I just want to have a little more freedom since I'm getting older and have always been responsible and never got into too much trouble. What should I do?

Q: well im having a few trust issues lately....ever since my bestfriend and me went out and broke up i havent been able to trust anyone....he told me he'd always be there for me and stuff and then breaks up with me and totaly ditches me as a friend all together and now me and him have absolutly no contact....not only that but thanks to him im having other relationship issues...i cant trust anyone and everone knows that all relationships are based on trust....i dont know what to do part of me says take a chance and get hurt whats there to lose. I've found the perfect guy but im scared to trust him...what do i do?
Sincerly
Confused in Love
Nikki
13-f-Tx

Q: Me.Boy.my BFF. U do the math. I really like this boy but he likes my bestest bud, but she likes a boy who likes me! Y cant we all just get what we want.? How can I get the boy I like to like me so my bff can have the boy she likes too and everyone is happy?

Q: ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?!

Q: i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy.

Q: ok i LOVE my boyfriend and all but i dont know if he loves me back b/c everytime i say i love u on the internet hes like ya luv ya and im like ok... ( i think that) and i always wonder if he likes me or not.
please i could use yalls help on to see if my boyfriend likes me or not like tell sum things like how u can tell that ur boyfriend loves u,
please and thank u!
luv yall... yall help so effin much!
sweetheart00

Q: I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me!

Q: Okay Today I went off on my friends because I thought they were going to say "you are copying us" because they do this and i wanted to so i said i have wanted to do this since i was in 4th grade and i am not copying you. so now they are mad at me and i really wish that they werent. they think i copy them and that I do not know how to deal with people and that i am stupid well at least right now that they are mad at me....

Q: what if they dont like him tho then what im screwed! i dunno wat to do nemore plz help!

Q: I've bee talking to this guy for a while and he's so awesome. I'm starting to really like him too, but he has a girlfriend and they'v been together for like 2 years. I'm not trying to get between them though...but I really like him. He told me that he doesn't like me more than a friend, but he keeps saying how hott and sexy I am...What do I do...?

Q: MY GREATEST ENEMY

My closest friend has become my greatest enemy.
She betrayed me by lying to my face.
By trying to get me to believe a lie.
By trying to get into the middle of my relationship and then lying about it.
Instead of her listening and trying to help me with my problems.
All she did in return was use everything to get revenge on me.
For some thing that wasn’t even true.
She has become my greatest enemy.
She will no longer be there for me.
She will no longer be able to talk to me.
She will no longer be a friend to me.
She has become my greatest enemy.

Q: ok i met this boy nick like in the middle of the skool year...and i hated him soo much...he was going out with my friend....and i dont know i just hated him...then one day i went skating and he was there and i started liking him...well a week later he asked me out and we were goin out for like a month then we broke up...we were on and off all year...well then a month before skool let out he moved....it was the hardest day of my life saying goodbye to him....he was my first love ever and thats the truth.....well now he still calls me and everything and we r still friends and he wants to go back out and i love him sooo much and wanna say yah but i cant cuz ill never c him cuz he moved what should i do~!?

Q: i like this guy alec alot.. ive went out with him in december, and then i dumped him for another guy. and then i liked him till about the end of may/ beg of june. (but he didnt know that, until i told him) and so i told him that.. and then we went out for like 5 days. and then he said i hurt him all the way back in dec. and that he doesnt wanna get hurt again, but i still like him =/ but he doesnt know that. and im afarid too tell him.. so should i tell him? or forget about him =/ cause i really dont know what to do. I miss him and i want to be with him really bad, but i do not know how to tell him. like i tried to be with other guys, but then i end up liking him again. and want to be with him.

thanks

Q: how do i get my mom to let me wear a padded bra? like a push up one?

Q: I thought you would be the person to let me know that it is ok to be able to trust people , to let them know how you feel.

I thought you could show me how it feels to have someone who really cares about me.

I thought I could depend on you to always be there for me.

I thought you really cared about me.

I thought you really wanted to be with me.

I never thought you would be the person to hurt me.

I never had a thought you and I would never be together.

I always thought you were going to be there when I need you.

I never thought any one could hurt me as bad as you did.

I would have dreams of me and you being together till death did us part.

I never thought you would cheat on me like you did with other gurlz

I never thought u could ever lie to me.

I never thought the worse could happen between us but the worse has yet to come.

Q: When i go back to school i wanna have that different look. Ive got a great style and I always get compliments but I wanna put an impact on this world. So tell me things like good hairdo's (cause i can sometimes run out of them) cute fashions and stores and anything to make me different then the year before, you know? I mean tell me your take on the latest shoes, clothes, stores, hair styles, hair cuts I mean ANYTHING. Thanks......... give me good juicy answers pls! And if some of the things are a little expensive I can handle that ;-)

Q: my best friend..
i went out with my boy friend for 9 months and now my best friend wants to go out with him and she talks about him 24/7 its not even funny should i not be friends with her please help and answer my question fast!!!

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