my best friend..
i went out with my boy friend for 9 months and now my best friend wants to go out with him and she talks about him 24/7 its not even funny should i not be friends with her please help and answer my question fast!!!
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:58 pm: Well if its your x.. then it shouldnt matter unless you still have strong feelings for him and if you dont then ask him if he would go out with her-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
track_girl5 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:52 am: You shouldnt let a guy come between you and your best friend...a guy will be there for a little while and your friend will be there for way longer. I recommend that you talk to your friend about your feelings toward her dating your ex. thanks hope i helped! [ track_girl5's advice column | Ask track_girl5 A Question ]
xxprettyinpinkxx answered Thursday July 22 2004, 1:01 am: i personally dont think thats it rite to date someone that ur best friend dated but u didnt say that u had any feelings for him or that u wanted to date hime or anything! so jus let her date him n let her see how she likes it! if she dont then she dont...if she does then congradulate her! but u shouldnt quit bein friends wit her...best friends at that...when u can jus go find u a BETTER man! n that is what u need to do! good luck! -angie [ xxprettyinpinkxx's advice column | Ask xxprettyinpinkxx A Question ]
TheLovex8 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 12:12 am: omfg if my girl Zigga did that to me i'd be sooo pissed i'd go off on her but hey she has to choose in Ziggas case its Misses b 4 Mizztas and chicks b 4 dicks but if she really likes him she might let you go if you don't approve so follow your heart and a true best friend doesn't date your exs but then again another true best friend would share the same dick so do what you wich!! hope i helped you in cae you didn't get it let them be.. x0x0 Kay [ TheLovex8's advice column | Ask TheLovex8 A Question ]
browneyes175 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:15 pm: dont not be friends with her plz, jus tell her it bothers u n to stop, tell her how ur feelin when she does talk about him n front of u but dont stop bein friends with her over a guy, no guy is worth losing a friend over so jus talk to her about it and i hope it all works out. XoXoXo [ browneyes175's advice column | Ask browneyes175 A Question ]
xO0cAnDiCe answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:14 pm: ok i kno how u feel .. this happened to me nd my best friend .. and i lyked a kid nd we went out but then she liked him .. nd wouldnt stop talkin about him while i was tryin to get over him .. so i told her straight out how i felt .. so all u really need to do is tell ur friend how u feel b.c it helped me nd our friendship can't be more tighter .. hope i helped =) and good luck * write back to tell me how it went [ xO0cAnDiCe's advice column | Ask xO0cAnDiCe A Question ]
FernGully answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:11 pm: Guys aren't worth a friendship. Let her know it bothers you and if she cares about the friendship then she'll rethink things or at least how much she says about the guy. If she doesn't know it bothers you then you can't expect anything to change. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
Hotblonde123 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:07 pm: Of course you should be friends with her. But tell her how u feel. Tell her that u dont want her to talk about him and that u dont want her to go out with him. [ Hotblonde123's advice column | Ask Hotblonde123 A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:06 pm: you've gotta let her know how you feel about the situation. she should respect the way you feel. don't just dump her because of it.. dont jeopardize your relationship with your best friend over a guy! thats just not cool! Send me a message or IM me if you need help!!!!!!! i'll listen
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:05 pm: tell her its hurting you to look upon your past and that if she keeps jabbering about him its gunna kill you quickly. Express your feelings while still trying to maintain your relationship [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
Bethany answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:03 pm: tell her how u feel about the whole thing usally talking is the best way to solve things.. she should understand shes ur best friend and if she doesn't u have to think to urself are u really that good of friends.. i hope it helps... [ Bethany's advice column | Ask Bethany A Question ]
xogiggles37xo answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 10:03 pm: i think that you should tell her not just not be her friend or not. n if she has a problem with u having a problem then tell her w/e then dont talk 2 her thatz messed ^ she needz to respect the fact that u liked that guy n went out with him 4 nine monthz! [ xogiggles37xo's advice column | Ask xogiggles37xo A Question ]
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