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Um i like my bestfriend's ex...
hey well my prob is...well i think im starting to like my bestfriend's ex. like she's told me that she wouldnt care who he went out with but she still would want to know whats going on with him and all. she doesnt know i like him or anything i want her to know but i dont know how id tell her. and like I have a boyfrend and i dont wanna break up with him. her ex seems to be flirting back with me and all he has a g/f but shes kinda cheating on him and he doesnt know. i wouldnt know if he would wanna go out with me, i have a boyfriend that i love till death and i dont know how to get rid of the feeling that i like my bestfriend's ex. so yeah what do i do
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its things like these that i guess you have to think about wuts more important and the guy you like kinda sounds like one of those guys that look really gud and is very sweet but thers still a little part of him thats kinda "screwed"!!! tell ur friend and maybe sumhow the both of u can help each other get over him! :-P
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Wait till you and your bf and him and his girlfriend break up and then take it from there and i would tell your bestfriend whats going on to before she finds out on her own because i know people hate finding things out like that but try to avoid him for now and see what goes from there-trix
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if i were you, i wouldn't go out with your friends ex. it's not a good idea and it could hurt your relationship with your friend. even end it. so when this guy flirts with you, try not to flirt back because it's just gonna make him think you like him. stay with your boyfriend. if you love him that much, there's no reason to leave him. -Jessica
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kinda the same problem here.
my best friend went out with this gy who was 15<two years older than us> they went out twice and when he asked her out for the thrid time, i got kinda jealous. maybe it was because i liked him or because she could have a boyfriend and i didnt. so you need to find out if you like him ore just want a boyfriend before you do anything else.
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TiffanyCroft
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In relationships you always have like once and a while feelings for other people. If you like your boyfriend a lot just stay with him, sooner or later you should get over the other guy. And just tell your friend straight up be like hey dont be mad at me but I kinda have feelings for your ex. Just be honest. Good luck
-holly-
hope i helped
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Well,who says you have to break up with your boyfriend? Can't you just go out with this guy once and be honest to both of them that you're seeing the other? You're not married. Give both of them an equal chance.
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this same thing happened to me even tho i dont think its rite to like ur friends ex's! u cant help how u feel! i wouldnt tell anybody expecially ur best friend! i kno she said she dont care who he goes out wit...but she will if she finds out it is u! jus keep it to urself and yall jus stay friends! mayb after {if} BOTH of yall r single then mayb yall could give it a try! BUT before u do that u do need to talk it over wit ur friend! dont hurry it...mayb give her a little more time! altho i would like to see u happy and u would b happy wit this boy...but it looks like ur happy wit ur boyfriend rite now! so for his sake...keep ur feelings to urself..for now! tell me how it goes! good luck! -angie
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Well i don't think that you should hang out wit your bestfriend's x-boyfriend no more cuz you never know she may still have feelings for this guy n that would not be good if she found out..i think that you need to talk to that guy and need to talk to your bestfriend..you have a boyfriend that you love n he prolly loves you back just as much..that's all you need. I know it's hard to get over him, but hey it's worth a try.
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this does happen alot. so don't feel like you are the only one. i think that you should tell your friend that you have feelings for him. she probably still has feelings for him even tho she
says she doesn't. but you can't help who you like. and i think that you should think about how much your boyfriend means to you and if
you are willing to loose him. it will probably just past. ur just twitter-paited. so good
luck. i hope that i helped you.
girdy_goo15
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well first of all..you should tell your friend about your feelings for her ex. just say "hey i dunno where they came from but i have feelings for your ex..and i know you wanted to kno stuff thats going on with him so yea..i knew i had to tell you ..i just hope we can still be friends and i hope we get this worked out" not only will telling her this help your friendship out cuz yall can be honest wtih each other but it will also help you to have sumone to talk bout it with..and maybe she can help you get over your feelings you have for her ex. talking to sumone always helps. and if you love your boyfriend alot then these little feelings you have for the other guy will go away sooner then you kon..its prolly just a lil stage or sumthing..it'll go away soon..especially if you love your boyfriend. well i hope i helped...im here if u need ne thing...love always..ally!
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