ok i LOVE my boyfriend and all but i dont know if he loves me back b/c everytime i say i love u on the internet hes like ya luv ya and im like ok... ( i think that) and i always wonder if he likes me or not.
please i could use yalls help on to see if my boyfriend likes me or not like tell sum things like how u can tell that ur boyfriend loves u,
please and thank u!
luv yall... yall help so effin much!
sweetheart00 <3
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:23 pm: Well he may just feel pressured when you say.. just dont say it for awhile and hopefully when times passes he may ask how come you dont say i love you anymore? and just be like well i wasnt sure if you loved me or not so i stopped and i felt like i was maybe pressuring you to say it.. or he may say it on his own which is better so just wait it out and things should be okay-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
angita answered Thursday July 22 2004, 3:07 pm: im pretty sure if he tells u he does then he does.. sumtimes my bf doesnt act lyk he does n he says it lyk w.e n ive been wit him 4 2 yrs.. n if he shows u he loves u tats alot better than lettin u noe.. i think u should simply tell him how u feel. hes ur bf n he should understand!
sum tyms i play a lil game wit ma bf.. its alot of fun n he goes along wit it.. tell him i luv u.. then he'll say it bak.. then say it again but happiern wen its his turn he has to say it happier n u keep goin but 4 a lil bit.. itll make u laugh n it makes me feel better.. but dont wry he prob luvs u a whole lot he just doesnt noe how to sho it! gud luk xoxo angie [ angita's advice column | Ask angita A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 5:37 am: the all time good way to tell is ask him what color your eyes are. but i think that you should
just ask him what's wrong. tell him how you feel
and just be honest. good luck
*~~~shana~~~* [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:50 pm: I have sort of the same problem but on the phone. He doesn't sound like he means it on the phone when he says it back. I guess there is really no way of telling but there are things you can do..
Does he non-stop talk to you
Is he flirting with other girls
are your convs. about real things or just about perverted playful things
if you can hold out a conv. and i mean a real conv. not a playful sick one then chances are that hes prob. into you becuz hes most likely not using you. And maybe he takes I love you seriously and hes not ready to say it yet. I say don't worry about it.. if you love and trust your guy enough then you be pretty confident that even if he doesn't LOVE you .. all of his feelings are only towards you.
But here are some signs anyways
Hugs and kisses you alot
listens to you
confides in you
pays attention to you
Always there for you
He can trust you...
If all those are true then he prob. loves you. Not all guys are lovey dovey and not all of them say I love you.. but if it bothers you then talk to him. Tell him that Luv ya makes it sound like you 2 are just friends.. and if he says something like well i dont LOVE you .. don't take it offensively.. you just have yourself a sensitive guy ;)
SheaStadium answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:49 pm: Maybe ur bf isnt ready to say he loves u yet. Maybe he is affraid to ake a commitment. But dont brake up with him becuz of it just talk to him. If he really cares about you he will understand why ur askin! Good luck and rate me!
~Shea~ [ SheaStadium's advice column | Ask SheaStadium A Question ]
anonymous_lil_me answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:47 pm: i've had the same problem, too! he's probly just shy about it and ya know boys, they dont like to say i love you that much! if hes not usually shy, then talk to him about it. tell him your not sure if he feels the same cause he never says i love u back or first. if hes understanding, he'll start showing that he loves u and he'll say it. maybe he doesnt realize he's doing this! i would def. talk to him about it & if hes not understanding, you deserve someone better! hope i helped. xo [ anonymous_lil_me's advice column | Ask anonymous_lil_me A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:46 pm: Yea, I agree with the person who answered this (superstar10) because you can always tell if they're lieing or not by looking at there eyes. If they can't look at you when they're talking, they're lieing. Or, you could always talk to him about it. Just be like "I feel like you dont like me or love me at all because everytime I say I love you to you, you don't seem like you do. So, I just want to know if you like me and love me?" And then if he still does like you, then maybe he isn't ready to say I love you yet and tell him "If you're not ready to say I love you, then tell me when you are, because whenever you're ready I'll be ready too. Just talk to him about it. Good luck!
Sh0rtLiLme213 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:44 pm: maybe hes not ready to hear the 3 words i love you. or maybe he wants to hear it in person bcuz internet isnt a good way for expressing your feelings. Dont ask him bcuz he might become offended. Tell him in person and make sure you really mean it. [ Sh0rtLiLme213's advice column | Ask Sh0rtLiLme213 A Question ]
Dear_Anna answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:44 pm: Most guys arent too open, some atleast. He probably feels intimidated by your advances. Give him time. Say, ciao baby, talk to ye tomorrow, or something along those lines. Creep in slowly. He might come around. But dont creep in too fast. He might back off. [ Dear_Anna's advice column | Ask Dear_Anna A Question ]
superstar10 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:43 pm: well u could not say i luv u to him and then see if he says it first. or u could say i luv u on person and look into his eyes and see if he says it back but with meaning. that or u could ask him. i hope i helped...:) [ superstar10's advice column | Ask superstar10 A Question ]
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