I've bee talking to this guy for a while and he's so awesome. I'm starting to really like him too, but he has a girlfriend and they'v been together for like 2 years. I'm not trying to get between them though...but I really like him. He told me that he doesn't like me more than a friend, but he keeps saying how hott and sexy I am...What do I do...?
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 3:12 pm: Well just cuz what he thinks you are doesnt mean he likes you.. you can think someone is hot without liking them.. I know I do but i love my bf we just think others are hot also.. so dont jump to conclusions.. let them be like you are-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:50 am: He's setting it up to where when his other relationship fucks up,you'll be right there waiting for him. Ideally,he'd like a threesome with both of you. I would. Again,I'll ask the question of why can't he just date both of you and be honest about dating the other? That's what I'd do. At our age,don't be serious in dating. You'll have your married life to rot in hell over. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
xHeartxOfxGoldx answered Thursday July 22 2004, 12:00 am: This guy is messing with your head .. and its not cool. hes obviously a pig if hes callin u hott n sexxy and he has a g/f. And hes like any other "typical" guy...they lead you on then break your heart. i say forget him in that sense...(((as a b/f))) and maybe just stay his friend. Or maybe not even that if he keeps saying those things to you.. becuz that could really screw w/your mind. Chances are hes already cheated on his g/f and if he is saying those things to you.. whos to say if you 2 were dating he wouldn't be sumwhere else saying those things to another girl.. I say get up n move on.. you can do better and you DESERVE BETTER!!:)
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Sh0rtLiLme213 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:50 pm: I think hes looking for some action if you know what i mean. Maybe his girlfriend isnt giving him what he wants. I bet thats why hes saying that, but i could be wrong. [ Sh0rtLiLme213's advice column | Ask Sh0rtLiLme213 A Question ]
anonymous_lil_me answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:32 pm: dont be the 'other' girl, cause ya know..who wants to be that? it just shows him that he can get ya anytime he wants & ya want him to work for you, right?! he def. likes you, if he's saying all those things to you. he probably just doesnt want to go further than the compliments since he has a gf. i guess be flirty and be yourself. soon he'll see how great you are & he'll respect you if you dont try to break them up! he'll come around :] hope i helped xo [ anonymous_lil_me's advice column | Ask anonymous_lil_me A Question ]
SheaStadium answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:13 pm: Maybe he really dus like u but at the same time he still likes his gf. Tell him how u feel and ask him how he feels. If it his gf is a good friend of urs, dont go for him cuz that wud be harsh. But other wise try talkin to him about it. Good luck!
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xOchErrytWistOx answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 11:08 pm: ok, first of all, this guy is in denial that he likes you. hes like leading you on. 2 years is a long time and hes probably bored of his girlfriend. if u like him, maybe u should just hookup with him. i am almost in the same position.. just hookup with him & then when the girlfriend finds out, they break up. if they dont break up, continue the hookup. why not?
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