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there is a girl. she doesnt know how i feel about her, i think. she's been helping me boost my self confidence. i want to show her i appreciate it. i just dont know what to do.
help.

aww thats sweet! well im usually the girl in the situation so uh, dont go over board in what you give or tell her, it can be a bit overwhelming. hug her when you see her, get her something that reminds you of a joke or somthing silly, not like jewelry or anything. my guy friend gave me a "best friends" key chain for my birthday && i thought it was very sweet of him. hope this helps you!!

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Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.

oh goodness. tell him that if he cares about you he'll trust you! if he keeps being (for lack of better word) possesive, you will feel the need to cheat on him. maybe next time you hang out with your friend, have you boyfriend come and see that no, your not cheating on him, you guys sit there and do whatever you do when you hang out. he needs to chill out. hope this helps!

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i have old books and i was wondering instead of donating them can i bring to the library to sell them? or should i bring to a bookstore to sell them?

libraries only take donations as far as i know. sell them to a used bookstore like half price books. i think platos closet takes popular teen books too. another thing you could do is donate them to goodwill and get a tax deduction. (i dunno if libraries do that or not). if all else fails, have a garage sale or sell them to classmates. hope this helps!

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my birthday is coming up soon.
i want to rent a limo.
but the only problem is . .
i dont know where it would take us!
does anyone have any ideas of places to go? thanks!

oh that sounds fun!! id say a nice resturant or some place like dave & busters... a movie would be fun too. have everyone dress up really nice and go see a show or shop til you drop. be creative && i hope you have a fun birthday!!

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i always call my bf. He nerver calls me! whats up with him?

oh i had a phonephobic bf once. i think you should ask if you dont already know for sure that hes shy. he might have limited access to the phone also. hope this helps!

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ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!!

okkkk your going to hate me for this, but i say niether. (shock) yeah so the first girl is obviously in for a total attitude change because shes had love spoon fed to her for the passed 8 years. so then you run off and meet up with this girl when your still debating the first girl and your extreme vunerable (rebound!) and she gives you attention you need to survive as a human. so therefore, you love what she does for you because its been 3 months since you got any tlc from your gf...not picking up the phone...oh i feel the love. the other girl is actually working to steal your heart away and what happens when you get with her...it will end up dying down. so them shell call you excessively because other than swim you never see her. then youll get sick of it and see her for what your friends and family see her for and end up in a similar situation, cept there will only be one heart to break. so there. niether. thats my vote. stay single for a while...you might actually like it better. single and ready to mingle and have a clear conscience. later dude.

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I lost my class ring about a week ago BUT i never take it off and it doesn't slip either. I don't remember taking it off at all and ive looked every where. N/E advice on how i could find it?!?! yeah i know such a silly question!

THANKS
-twiSted

oh that happened to me not too long ago! check pockets in clothing...thats where i found mine!!

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which out of all of these broadway shows are the best and which one should i get tickets to??

-avenue Q
-hairspray
-wicked

if i got to pick, id say wicked! i love the music from it!

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ok i'm 16 f and me adn my girlfriend( yes i'm a lesbo) want to do something special for our 2 month anniversy.is there anything that we could do. the crazyer, the better!

well im straight...you could try pleasing her in a way you would wanna be pleased...be creative.

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In a week will be my first day of a new school, so i want my skin to look good. I have a severe acne problem, its all over my face. the dermatoogist gave me retin-a micro and benzaclin and a sulfur wash but its just not working. i rele want clear skin or atleast clear enough toput make up over it by when school starts. any tips or natural remedes?

it takes a while to show significant results. just stay posative and keep doing what he told you and youll be ok. if it doesnt, then go back and theyll put you on some sort of hormonal treatment for it.

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I need a LIL help well this year im a senior and I need I good senior prank. We have some inmiend but I think that we could do better. you see We want to have a chane of pranks.
Help I will rate you.
Chelly

clog all the toilets and duct tape all the stalls, tee pee the whole bathroom and let sucadas and other flies/bugs/animals loose in there. hope this helps!

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i have the thickest hair in the world- and it's extremely dry, and it's all one length, and it reaches to the middle of my back, i wanna get it cut really bad- nothing too short- but i dont know what yet. any suggestions? also- i dont know what to do about my hair being so dry. ive tried all kinds of moisturizing this and that- but nothing seems to work. PLEASE HELP!

well for the dry part...i think getting it cut to about a bit past shoulder lenght should help a bit. try garnier fructice 3 minute masque too. i think it will work for you. you can do it naturally and let your hair get greasy for 2-3 days so the natural oils will keep hair healthy and dont wash more than once a day. hope this helps!

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Does anybody know any good Icons sites on Xanga? thanks

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xXxX_rockin_sockin_icons_XxXx
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=IcOn_QuOtE_CuTi&nextdate=5%2f20%2f2005+18%3a24%3a24.973&direction=p
^those are some of my favorites. look in the blogrings theyre in and you'll see some others that are awesome!

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wat do u think about dating online?

well this is basically an all opinion question...i dont think its a good idea. i mean you could meet some really neat people and its ok to talk and stuff but if it comes to actually meeting them, it isnt safe. we've all heard the horror stories... better to not take that risk! hope this helps mold your view!

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whats the code for ohio is for lovers, by hawthorne heights... i wanna put it on my myspace... but i cant seem to find a code that works... i could use either the musicvideo one (prefered), or just the music is fine too... thanks!!

well you can try these sites...
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Music_Galore
HTTP://WWW.MYSPACE.COM/MUSICGALORE
HTTP://WWW.MUSICGALORE.NET

let me know if you need any more help!!

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Alright i have been dating this guy since July 3rd its the 26th today. first off i havnt seen him in 2 weeks and 1 days !!well i got grounded and i wasnt able to leave the house but yet my parents agreeed to allow him to come over. and every time i invtied him over its like no i cant i gotta go home and so and so answer everything and when i got ungrounded and he got grounded his mom said he could still come over and use the phone he hasnt called me once When i call him and he promise to call me back he doesnt. i really do love him i mean when i actully do get to see him we have so much fun together he holds me in his arms if im sad comforts me if i get hurt that kinda stuff and i dont no what to I RATE HIGH

give it a bit more time. tell him that you really want him to start calling and stuff and set up a date where your not grounded and can actually talk and have fun. if it still sucks than break it off and just be friends! hope a helped a bit!

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omgsh ok i like this guy and we both like each other( we talk everyday and we have told each other that we like eachother) and he has told me he loves me : ) aww i noe sweet!! so ok well we start high school in a month and we really wanna go out but see he doesnt want to go out over the summer , and when school starts i cant promise him that i will feel this strong about him!!! wat do u think i should do!?

ok well if you dont know if youll feel this stronly later, then why date him? if you really liked him, youd wait a month (thats not thattt long) when hes ready then take it from there. just wait...it wont kill you, i promise!, and it might teach you guys a few things. hope it all works out for you!!

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Alright I want whoever is reading this right now to kno that I am not anorexic or balemic and will never become either of those. My problem is that my friends and family say that I am really thin and that I am so lucky... you know all those encouraging things... I feel like I'm kind of chubby and that I put on weight Im 5"4 and I weigh 106 am i overweight? If so are there any healthy ways to lose weight quickly. I'll rate anyone who gives me a good answer very well
thank you

if that was overweight, i would be obese!! that is a good weight for you...possibly even UNDERweight. try a tae bo style thing to keep you healthy and active, it never hurt anyone to excersize.

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how much should i charge when i am babysitting?
i babysit 3 children ages, 9, 5, and 2 and i am 13 yrs old. i also babysit my cousins that are 4 and 1. how much i was thinking like 3$ an hr per kid but then i saw an episode of full house and DJ babysat and only charged 2.50 an hr and those shows are from like forever ago so now 3$ per hr per kid seems too low! help! i dont want to be rude to the kids parents and ask for too much *remember i am only 13*

well full house was a while back dear. now people start off at $5 per kid, definatly not 2.50-3 $. i know you dont wanna be rude but its a JOB and you deserve to be paid a desent amount. most parents dont ask how much you charge, they just give you a bit more than you expected, you know what i mean? just tell them, "i charge $7 an hour for 3 kids, if that is ok with you."

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OK, im confused. yesterday, i downloaded something. (it was video) so then when u trued opening it on windows media player, a message came up saying that i had to immidiatly restart m computer if i was seeing the message for the first time. what exactly was that? like, it automatically went to a screen with blue bckgrnd and yellow text.

i think that blue backgrnd was one of 2 things, windows freezing or media player trying to update and telling you to shut down so the changes would appear when you restart. hope this helps!

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