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okay, me and my boyfriend nick have been together roughly about 3 months. recently, we hadn't been spending much time together and have been fighting because he's doing football. well football here is a big deal, and he plays on JV and V. so he practices everyday, and then has 2 games a week. as you can tell, it's put alot of stress on our relationship. so we both agreed to have sort of a "break" until football is over, which is in like a month and a half, JV is done oct. 15th. well lastnight my bestfriend's boyfriend told my bestfriend who told me nick had been all over some girl at school. my bestfriend and her boyfriend both hate nick, so its hard. i try not to mention him around her. well i tried calling nick about it and he didnt answer my phone call, but he answered my bestfriends. so of course she wasn't very nice about it at all, so he got mad and hung up. so she called back and left an ugly voicemail, and then i called him and he answered. well he was very mad and starting calling her a bitch and stuff and she got mad and stole my phone and bitched at him, again. so needless to say it was terrible. i talked to him a little, and he still says we'll be together, but its making it hard with my bestfriend too. so i texted him and i told him that if he wanted us to go anywhere, he would call me back. well he called me back and when i picked it up he didnt say anything so i hung up. i dont really know what to do, i love this boy. he's amazing and yeah 3 months isn't very long, but we've gone through alot and my family loves him to death and his mom and step-dad love me. he says he loves me too but sometimes i doubt it? please help and let me know what i should do!!! (link)
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First you have to accept he wants to play football and adjust. You don't take a "break", thats just silly. You go to his games and support him. You hang out out on the weekends when there aren't any games. People do it everyday. The entire football team is not without girlfriends. If you cannot accept his wanting to play football then you need to break up completely. The relationship will not last, he will find someone who accepts him and all he does. So if you want him, accept him and make time to see each other. No breaks.
Second, you have to get your girlfriend to back off. A guy will only put up with interference for so long too. She doesn't have to like him, but she needs to keep her opinions to herself. She needs to leave him alone completely and stop causing problems. She can be concerned about your relationships, but she needs to back off and let you handle them. She is not your mom she is your friend. Screaming and yelling, calling and fighting with YOUR boyfriend is not an option.
So, if you want this relationship to work you need to call him up. Tell him you will support his playing football. Break over. Girlfriend on a leash! Sorry to be so blunt about it but, you need to wake up before its to late if you want this to work.
As for the other girl you spoke about, you are on a break. It may have happened. It will happen again if the break continues, because most girls LOVE football players. For this time, just forget it. You get off the break and it probably won't happen again. No need for it too. Guys like to have their ego stroked. Some other girl complements him on a play he made and hes going to love it. So forget this time. He technically did nothing wrong.
I hope to hear that all is well soon. :)
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i went on my friends facebook because i don't have one and shes friends with the guy that i like.. and he used to like me but now anymore.. and it said he changed it IS status or whatever to lonely. and so i wanted to know why and i texted him.. but now i regret it cause he stopped liking me cause he thought i was obsessed with him.. when im not i was just trying to be nice now so i don't know. I haven't seen him in a while but i still want to be friends with him.. so what should i do?? (link)
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I don't know why he quit liking you but its pretty obvious he hasn't gotten over it. If there is anything you can explain or apologize for in that situation, thats the place to start. If he just stopped liking you because he felt like it, there isn't much you can do.
As much as we'd like to, some people just don't want to be friends with us. If he thinks you are obsessed with him, you may just have to stay clear away from him. Let him be the one to make a move. In the mean time, if your friend is friends with him, let her explain to him you are not obsessed.
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When I was 3, I had really long hair with ringlets and I got my hands on scissors.. and cut all my ringlets off. So I basically lost all my curls. My hair still has a wave to it and for the past few years, I had cut my hair short. So now that my hair is hitting my boobs, my ends are curling up .. But the problem is, it's curling up into knots!
HELP?!
I don't like straightening my hair, it's too dry and I'm trying to give my hair a break.
But I really dont like combing out the mess because it makes me hair look really damaged and frizzy.
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Mine does the same. I don't like leave in conditioner, though its a good idea. Leaves my hair
looking oily because I have really thick hair.
I condition mine every other day or so. Weather I wash it or not. You could do it everyday as far as I know. I brush it with conditioner on it. Then again
after I dry my hair. Then I put it in a ponytail on top of my head. I usually do this before bedtime and it keeps it from tangling in the night. Next day I just shake it out and go. If I do it early I just leave it hang to dry. :)
I don't blow dry, or put anything in my hair. If you do just wash & condition more often.
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Hi im michaela and im 15 gonna be 16 at the end of october. Okay so theres this guy named joel that i really like. and hes a year older than me. So we've been hanging alot lately and one friday night i went over to his house and me, him and his friends hung out and watched a movie. well, we were on the top bunk and so we layed there for a little bit and cuddled i guess you could say lol. but then i actually got up the courage to kiss him. [this was my first kiss mind you] and when i first kissed him we started making out on and off. at the time i thougt it was good. but when i really thought about it, i dont think is was so good...=/ i just dont think it was as good as i thught itd be. but then im thinking, am i the bad kisser or is he?! im really confused. please help! (link)
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Could be smooching just isn't what you expected. :)
Anyway, you weren't in the best place for kissing.
He had friends around, parents could have walked in...makes for nervousness. So I wouldn't judge by
that days kissing. See what its like next time.
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does anyone know where he is currently living? (link)
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According to MSNBC after some time globe trotting
he is currently living in Las Vegas, Nevada. :)
Article:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17370987/
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ok so i really want to lose 16 pounds by november 11th. i set a goal for myself, but it seems like i can only stick to it for two weeks, then i start eating bad again.
what are some stuff i can do to make me lose the pounds that i dotn want anymore? and what kinds of food should i eat, and not eat?
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Hear is a search with lots of diet plans. Find one that contains things you like and think you can stick with. :)
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ok so my face is soo shiny.. i use powder but it wears off fast.. is there any kind of facial cleanser or something i can get to help with my big pores and shiny face? i have bare minerals and its spose to make your face look great.. it does but my face is sooo shiny! does anyone that have bare minerals use prime time by the same company to help with shininess and does it work? help! (link)
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Took some doing but finally found you some sites.
Take a look and see if anything is helpful. I'm sure you will find something. :)
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My BFF bought me this really nice picture of Daniel Radcliffe on one of her vacations. It looks weird with out his autograph on it. I really want to mail it to his fan mail place (ya I know it won't really be HIS signature) but I can't find the adress. I've googled it and I've gotten a bunch of different adresses. Does anyone know the right adress? This picture is really important to me and I don't want to send it to the wrong one. I know that it can take years for this to get back home to me. Is there anyway to spead up that process?
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I wouldn't send it to any of them. Because there are so many you have a good chance of sending it to the wrong place. Most places that are ligit probably won't take it anyway. It would most likely get thrown away. Better to buy one from a reputable place.
Just enjoy the picture. Your friend must have known you liked him. Sending it off somewhere for an upgrade might hurt her feelings. :)
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my boyfriends birthday is coming up;
also that is the day of our one year anniversary.
so i got him:
an Italian wallet probably around 120$
i got him a starbucks card in it and
a picture of us in it too.
and im getting him an engraved key chain b.c he is turning 16.
and im taking him out to dinner.
do you think he will like it?
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I think any 16 year old guy would love it. :)
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This is gonna be long, sorry!!!
Theres this guy. Let's call him Jim. He's been one of my best friends since i was about 3. It's because his dad used to work with my mom. his parents are from england and have heavy british accents. however, Jim doesnt. I used to sleep over at his house, i almost used to live there. his sister, (lets call her Polly) now lives in London. Jim goes to London to visit his grandparents every summer. Oh, did I mention that i am in looove with anything british? I want to go to London so badly and a british accent is one of the hottest things i have ever heard. Jim is kind of short and i am really super tall. idc about that though... anyways, i dont see him a lot anymore because we go to different schools. Also his dad doesnt work with my mom any more. i think i have a crush on him... i only see him every tuesday when i go to church school. i want to look really good when i go, and i get all nervous when i get around him. but somehow i still think of him as my best buddy jim. im not sure if it actually is a crush. actually it seems that he has a crush on me! i was talking to him and my other friend Darren one tuesday and Jim commented that my voice was hoarse (i had a throatache that day). and Darren was teasing Jim saying, "Yeah, Jim, i bet you dream about her voice!" Jim was blushing and telling Darren to shut up. I was laughing and blushing a little too. So im not sure if i see him as a potential boyfriend or just a friend.... thanks for reading all of that and thanks for your answers in advance!!! (link)
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Sounds like a crush to me. You just have to find out if you like him for himself or just because he's British!
Since he doesn't have an accent and you still like him, chances are good you like him for himself. See what happens. Sounds like he might like you too. :)
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I have not had my period for about 2 months now...and i have had un protected sex twice which ya i know is really dumb... if i am seeing spotting does that mean that i am not pregnant?? (link)
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Here is a list of pregnancy symptoms. You could be pregnant. Take a pregnancy test or go to planned parenthood or your local health department for a more accurate test.
http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm
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i go to a boarding school and my roommate is from korea.
ALL of her friends are from korea and they're my friends too- but the problem is- i never understand what the hell they're saying because they ALWAYS SPEAK KOREAN. and it offends me because it makes me feel excluded. she always brings them into our room too!
i want to kill myself it's that bad.
so what should i do? i can't just ask her to stop speaking her native language! (link)
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Just tell them all. Really. Say listen guys, we are all friends. You seem to be forgetting I can't speak Korean! I feel like you are ignoring me and its really kind of rude. So until you teach me some Korean, could you speak English so I can be in on the conversation! Keep it light, not said in anger or anything.
I doubt they are doing it intentionally, just bring it to their attention. :)
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hi..me an my gf have been haveing sex when my penis goes up i put the condom on and it jus goes down again i really want to hav sex but it just goes down is there any way i can make it stay up an i dont wana use those pills that make it stay up..is there any oher way??..thanks (link)
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I actually found a lot of info about this problem.
Here is my search so you can find out what you might do in your situation.
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i was having a convo with my mate the other day about contenants and all races of the world.theres caucasians black people and asians .i know that indians live in asia but would you call there race asian as appose to where they live.in other words,if an indian person was born in america or somewhere what would you call them in reference to there appearance? (link)
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American Indians are usually classified as Native Americans. Though all are American Indians they may be from many different tribes.
Since I am really not sure what you are asking and
don't want to leave you hanging, I have included
a page from the census bureau on how to enter your race. It may help answer some of your questions.
This is for the United States. Hope it helps. :)
http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/race/racefactcb.html
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I always seem to like someone, and I hate it. I also seem to hate it when guysu like me too. Don't know what is wrong with me. Help?
I just don't like commitment. (link)
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There is nothing wrong with liking someone!
I don't know why you would hate it when a guy
likes you back. Probably the commitment thing.
Don't want him to like you to much!
You have to get it in your head that being young,
total commitment isn't necessary. You can date
more than one person. That is actually what teens
are supposed to do. Seems one date these days and
people are considered an item. But, a date is to
see if you like someone. It isn't supposed to mean
you are an item!
If you want to commit in a relationship, some of these articles might be helpful.
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Ok so last night i went to a volleyball game for my school with a whole bunch of people. Well, This guy Kevin came to and he started talking to me alot and told him to sit with him and hed always ask me to go with him to get food and drinks and stuff. And we were flirting like the whole time just messing around and he was like touching me a lot. Does this mean anything? i kinda like him now. (link)
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Sure, He enjoyed your company. I think he probably likes you. :)
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okay so i slept over my bffs house, and her brother and i dated back in 8th & 7th grade. now we're in 11 & 10 and i still find him attractive and over the summer i got a little tipsy with him and his best friend and i guess we got a little friendly with our hands. especially him.
thats the other thing, his best friend is my hookup buddy. like i've gone to his house many times and madeout with him and other things. [never sex.]
now last night my friend fell asleep so i hung out wtih him in his bed. like it was cute, cuddling. we madeout too, and it was perfect.
i just don't know if it meant anything to him because he has tons of girls as friends and hes very flirty but so am i. and plus i don't know how his best friend feels about this. (link)
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To be blunt about it, if you want a boyfriend you
are going to have to stop the hooking up with people
just for the sake of doing it.
Guys talk. You are going to get plenty of guys who want nothing more than to just mess with you without commitment. They won't want to date you because you
are hooking up with someone else. Believe it or not,
most boyfriends want to think they are special to a girl too.
So honestly, if you want a relationship wait for a
guy who wants to be your boyfriend. :)
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All of my friends know what area of work they are interested in(medicine, education etc,) but I have no idea! Im in honors Chemistry and im passing all my classes. But there arnt any classes that i LOVE. help
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You can go to college and just take classes of things you're interested in. You do not have to
know what you want to do or be for a year or two.
One of the best ways to find something interesting
would be to get a college catalog and just read about the different classes and careers to be had in there. Classes taken in high school really don't help much in deciding a career. :)
Good luck.
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basically i'm trying to lose some pounds but i keep not doing it i mean i really want to lose a few pounds but i jsut cant seem to do it and i keep thinking about just puking after every meal i eat and what not and i know i shouldnt do that and it's bad but i still keeping thinking about it and i tried it once but i couldnt go through with it what am i supposed to do and dont tell me to talk to somebody i just want advice ok (link)
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Getting started and sticking with it are the hardest things to do. If you want to lose the weight, keep it off, and look good, you have to do it right.
Just barfing every time you eat becomes a habit.
It will get to the point where you are skin and bones and ugly, but you won't be able to stop. It
becomes the normal thing for your body to do.
Your teeth will rot, your hair may fall out, you
could rupture your stomach, erode your esophagus,
plus any other number of health problems.
So, if you want to lose weight to look better,
you don't want anything to do with that. Skin and
bones with black rotted teeth is not attractive!
Start slow. Eat three meals a day, no skipping, and do something. You don't have to eat anything special, just don't eat a large amount. Try to
cut down on candy, soda and fatty things. Eat salads before meals, light on the dressing. They have a lot of good flavored yogurts out there, eat one of those instead of candy or chips.
Remember to always eat! I have had that problem and it will cause you to gain weight too. It slows your metabolism and you need that to lose weight.
Your body thinks it is starving so anything you eat packs on the pounds. So eat all three meals.
For exercise, it doesn't have to be anything unpleasant. Put on the tunes and dance in your room. Walk the mall. Walk with a friend or parent
around your neighborhood. Go to the school and
walk the track after hours with a friend or parent. Use your imagination.
Good luck! :)
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im just really curious about extensions because im supposed to be getting them for homecomingg.
1. do they fall out?
2. sewn or glue in?
3. is there a certain shampoo I should use?
thanks in advanceeeee. (link)
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Here is a good search. Should find everything you
need and more. :)
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