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okay, me and my boyfriend nick have been together roughly about 3 months. recently, we hadn't been spending much time together and have been fighting because he's doing football. well football here is a big deal, and he plays on JV and V. so he practices everyday, and then has 2 games a week. as you can tell, it's put alot of stress on our relationship. so we both agreed to have sort of a "break" until football is over, which is in like a month and a half, JV is done oct. 15th. well lastnight my bestfriend's boyfriend told my bestfriend who told me nick had been all over some girl at school. my bestfriend and her boyfriend both hate nick, so its hard. i try not to mention him around her. well i tried calling nick about it and he didnt answer my phone call, but he answered my bestfriends. so of course she wasn't very nice about it at all, so he got mad and hung up. so she called back and left an ugly voicemail, and then i called him and he answered. well he was very mad and starting calling her a bitch and stuff and she got mad and stole my phone and bitched at him, again. so needless to say it was terrible. i talked to him a little, and he still says we'll be together, but its making it hard with my bestfriend too. so i texted him and i told him that if he wanted us to go anywhere, he would call me back. well he called me back and when i picked it up he didnt say anything so i hung up. i dont really know what to do, i love this boy. he's amazing and yeah 3 months isn't very long, but we've gone through alot and my family loves him to death and his mom and step-dad love me. he says he loves me too but sometimes i doubt it? please help and let me know what i should do!!!
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First you have to accept he wants to play football and adjust. You don't take a "break", thats just silly. You go to his games and support him. You hang out out on the weekends when there aren't any games. People do it everyday. The entire football team is not without girlfriends. If you cannot accept his wanting to play football then you need to break up completely. The relationship will not last, he will find someone who accepts him and all he does. So if you want him, accept him and make time to see each other. No breaks.
Second, you have to get your girlfriend to back off. A guy will only put up with interference for so long too. She doesn't have to like him, but she needs to keep her opinions to herself. She needs to leave him alone completely and stop causing problems. She can be concerned about your relationships, but she needs to back off and let you handle them. She is not your mom she is your friend. Screaming and yelling, calling and fighting with YOUR boyfriend is not an option.
So, if you want this relationship to work you need to call him up. Tell him you will support his playing football. Break over. Girlfriend on a leash! Sorry to be so blunt about it but, you need to wake up before its to late if you want this to work.
As for the other girl you spoke about, you are on a break. It may have happened. It will happen again if the break continues, because most girls LOVE football players. For this time, just forget it. You get off the break and it probably won't happen again. No need for it too. Guys like to have their ego stroked. Some other girl complements him on a play he made and hes going to love it. So forget this time. He technically did nothing wrong.
I hope to hear that all is well soon. :)
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You have to find out if it's true what they are telling you about what Nick is doing,because your best friend could be lying because you said how she,her boyfriend hate him,ask Nick if it's true,take the reaction he gets in notice because that could help you see whether he's lying about it or not.
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