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bff or bf?


Question Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 3:49 pm

This is gonna be long, sorry!!!
Theres this guy. Let's call him Jim. He's been one of my best friends since i was about 3. It's because his dad used to work with my mom. his parents are from england and have heavy british accents. however, Jim doesnt. I used to sleep over at his house, i almost used to live there. his sister, (lets call her Polly) now lives in London. Jim goes to London to visit his grandparents every summer. Oh, did I mention that i am in looove with anything british? I want to go to London so badly and a british accent is one of the hottest things i have ever heard. Jim is kind of short and i am really super tall. idc about that though... anyways, i dont see him a lot anymore because we go to different schools. Also his dad doesnt work with my mom any more. i think i have a crush on him... i only see him every tuesday when i go to church school. i want to look really good when i go, and i get all nervous when i get around him. but somehow i still think of him as my best buddy jim. im not sure if it actually is a crush. actually it seems that he has a crush on me! i was talking to him and my other friend Darren one tuesday and Jim commented that my voice was hoarse (i had a throatache that day). and Darren was teasing Jim saying, "Yeah, Jim, i bet you dream about her voice!" Jim was blushing and telling Darren to shut up. I was laughing and blushing a little too. So im not sure if i see him as a potential boyfriend or just a friend.... thanks for reading all of that and thanks for your answers in advance!!! <3


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xgirlygurl answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 3:26 pm:
It does sound a bit like you have a crush
and probably he has one too (i dont know for sure tho cos i dont know him but from what you said)
And i dont think that you just like him for him being british as he doesnt have the accent
but i think if you were thinking of him as just a friend then you wouldnt be thinking that you liked him
hope it helps xx
(and hope if you do like him somthing happens)

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karenR answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 12:41 pm:
Sounds like a crush to me. You just have to find out if you like him for himself or just because he's British!

Since he doesn't have an accent and you still like him, chances are good you like him for himself. See what happens. Sounds like he might like you too. :)

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gateway01 answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 7:08 am:
It sounds like a crush, if you pursue this guy it could develop into a serious relationship. I'd go for it and hope for the best, he sounds like a really cool guy. Since you've spent so much time over at his house then you probably know his parents really well which would be a bonus if you dated him. I found that the hardest part in dating my GF was getting her family to like me.
Hope I could help o^-^o

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