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sorry this is kinda personal but is it normal for one of your nipples to be a lil swollen/puffy than the other? sorry but i was just really concerned and ill rate you high if you can help me and give me advice

yeah i think it could be a growing thing and it should go away in a matter of time. look at beinggirl.com for more info!

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ok im growing out my hair and i want it to flip out like will it do it on its own or what do i need to do? please help me in a TIME to look hot.

get it layered... that way it will flip out. or it you blowdry it, use a roundbrush to flip it out.

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I met this guy on the internet and he's coming to pick me up in an hour or so. EVerything seems all right and my intuition tells me its a go but everyone always says to be careful so I thought I'd ask. Don't be too hasty to answer cuz I'm really for going.

do somthing in a public place...careful in the car please! we've all heard the horror stories so careful, carry pepper spray and use your elbows. have fun!

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Hi, I bite my nails ,I want to stop biting my nails but I can't stop it It's my habit biting nails please help me how can I stop to bite my nails. thank you

ok i used to a lonnnggg time ago and that nail polish stuff is AWFUL! it makes your whole hand taste gross so when you put something in your mouth you want to gag! get your nails done...when you pay a lot to get them done, you wont want to mess them up will you? bite something else or think of all that dirt and filth that you are putting into your mouth by biting your nails. hope this helps!

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this is stupid but i'll give 5's. if you want to get motovated to do something like work out everyday or practice for a sport everyday does anyone have any ways that they get motovated for something like that? thanks in advanced

well peoply find motivation in different things... to impress someone, to get someone to like them, to fit into old clothes,etc. find motivation in your unsatisfying body or try to beat someone. whatever works for you!

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What are some good bands to listen to for a person who's favorite bands is the white stripes? They are my favorite and im looking for bands similar.

i love the white stripes' 7nation army!! i like a lot of music tho.. aerosmith, metallica, 3 doors down (my fav), the killers, breaking benjamin... just to name a few. just look for songs you like.

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Over the summer I really splurged on sugars and sweets. Im average weight but I can see my summer splurging is coming back in my stomach and my thighs. I'm goin to stop drinking soda and eating sugars and hopefully find time to exercise. But I always think "Oh this wont hurt" or "Ill start tomorow" What can I do to remind myself to stay away from soda's and sugars and excersise everyday ? I'll rate high!!

just think of hoz bad that pop is for you. im an anti-pop advocate and really that stuff is so bad it should be a drug. (ok so i exaggerated a bit) write it down...let your unsatisfying body be your motivation. anytime you see a candy bar tell yourself how many inches on the waist/butt/hips that is. hope that helps!!

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is there ANY possible way yu can go swimming w/o a tampon. Like, any way. please help, i'll rate high

getting into the pool will stop it. if your light, go right ahead! i know a lot of people that have, just have someone near you that u trust when your not actually in the water or have a towel around you. just go for it!

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All of a sudden this morning, my nokia 3205 cellphone screen went BLUE (eventually went black) and I can't see ANYTHING. I can still make and recieve calls, but the menu and display are gone. How can I fix this.

well you could try taking it to where you bought it and have them fix it or if its under some kind of guarentee have them send it back to get fixed. nokia doesnt always completely fix things, when my moms phone died they told her it was water damage. it was in her purse all the time. so yeah just lettin you knowww. hope this helps!

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Ok so I have this HUGE crush on this guy. But hes realllllllllllly shy. And doesnt talk at all! He already knows that I like him because my friends have been telling him for like 4 days. When they asked him if he liked me he said He didnt know and would have to think about it. Im shy too. Just not as shy as him. N I prefer the guy to ask me out AND start the conversation. Theres a dance on friday..How do I tell if he likes me or is jus being nice?

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hahaha i liked a shy guy once. it didnt work out. if he doesnt ask you out, dont try to push him into it. you can tell that he likes you if he convinently bumps into you, blushes or just about any change in behavior. hope that helps!

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Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do?

well its wednesday... that gives you some time and hopefully end by then. if it doesnt then you have options: wear shorts and a bikini top and just dont get in. if your light by then, go all natural and jump in without protection. it will somehow stop while your in the water so dont worry about that. hope that helps!

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Any way i can get my average rating up? It's only a 4.85. How do I get decent ratings? I rate 5 for good answers.

just answer lots of questions. be nice about it. give them your opinion but dont yell at them, just tell them what you think they did wrong and try to help them out regardless of the rating. its not that bad of a rating tho but i can see why you would be concerned. hope that helps!

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How can I get 2 sizes smaller (in jeans) fast? I use these workouts that I found in the Seventeen magazine. You're supposed to get a hot body in 2 weeks. But is there anything that I can add to it? I don't really like running because I used to a lot and it didn't help.

well sometimes its like impossible no matter what you do because of your bone structure, know what i mean? do the workout, maybe do an extra rep of each or twice a day, eat good portioned, well balanced meals and drink tons of water and jog...dont run. it tones your legs. i do it all the time and it helps keep your same size or smaller. pick what you like, dont mind what you dont! goodluck!

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ok so this yr im a freshman & the 1st day i have to bring EVERYTHING! i mean biders books supplies, gywm clothes, gym shoes,,its ridiculous! whats the best way to get it all there without lookin lik a total nerd in front of my new school?!?!

wear your gym shoes...youll be doing a lot of walking so save yourself some room. i got a huge bookbag called the "allnighter" from columbia. make sure you take stuff out of the packaging, put in 2 pens instead of the packof 10 and whatever class you have first, carry that subjects things along with any pens and stuff you will need. everything else, put it the bookbag. hope that helps!

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hey sup? alright well my friends and i r planning this co-ed sleepover thing and im 14 so like were not going to have sex or anything and my mom said earlier this year i could have one as long as the parents were there keeping an eye on everyone. and this one wed b camping out and guys in one tent and girls in another. and theres gonna b a lot of ppl and i really dont want to miss out on it, but then i asked her again today if it was okay and she said no way. i told her she said it was fine earlier this year but she said she never said it. how can i convince her nothing is going to happen and to just ket me go?! please help i give 5's!

well tell your mom that you would never wanna have sex in public! eww! and that there will be supervision. you could have your mom talked to the hosts parents and see if she can camp out with you guys in another tent obviously. hope it works out for you!

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all my guy friends tell me guys like girls to take the first step with a guy. i like this one guy a lot. hes 19 im 17. so where would be best place to him out? and if i wanna hang out saturday night when should i call him?

call on wednesday or thursday and ask him to hang out someowhere on saturday. dont make it sound to formal tho. have fun!

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For a musical I am doing with a lot of dancing, I need to wear character heels. My parents are "opposed" for some reason against my character heels because they think it's a health problem for me, even though the heel is only one inch and the whole thing is built for dancing in. They want to buy me other shoes, but I need to wear my character heels! What can I do to convince them? They are CONVINCED that their way of thinking is right without listening to me, too.

if one of your friends has an extra pair and has the same shoe size, you can borrow theirs. im sure someone in the cast has some that could work. but thats only if you dont try reasoning with them first. break a leg, lol!

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that i tried it

ooo ok well i personally wouldnt tell them unless they asked/found out because it would land you in counseling. unless you want that, keep it yourself. hope that helps and please dont try it again!

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i tried to kill my self n now i regreat it shohuld i tell my parents?

that u regret it or that u tried? let me know n ill get back to you!

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me and my boyfriend been having sex for almost 5months( we been together for 9 months)and when we have sex im usually not on top..well the other night i was on top and i had to get off cause it hurt really bad. why is that? is there something wrong with me?. and i have another question after we are done i always get all tingley? why is that

girlygirls answer is good...that could be the problem. it could also being going in at the wrong angle, thats why girl on top isnt recommended for first timers.

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