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co-ed
hey sup? alright well my friends and i r planning this co-ed sleepover thing and im 14 so like were not going to have sex or anything and my mom said earlier this year i could have one as long as the parents were there keeping an eye on everyone. and this one wed b camping out and guys in one tent and girls in another. and theres gonna b a lot of ppl and i really dont want to miss out on it, but then i asked her again today if it was okay and she said no way. i told her she said it was fine earlier this year but she said she never said it. how can i convince her nothing is going to happen and to just ket me go?! please help i give 5's!
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Ok, this is going to be a hard sell to any parent, but lets try to break this down in a way that will make your mom more comfortable. First, let your mother meet everyone you intend to invite to the party. Anyone that she doesnt like may need to take one for the team, but if she becomes to inflexible, you have to remind her that she MAY NOT CHOOSE your friends for you. Second, make sure that all the parents that can be involved, are involved. Your mom may serve as head of the guard, if it will suit her better. The more parents, the more at ease she is likely to feel. Third, make sure that the guys' and girls' tents are a respectable distance apart. Talking maybe twenty feet, if it is possible, that is twenty feet from the start of one tent to the start of another. Fourth, be as responsible as humanly possible until it is time for the party, one slip can sink the entire plan, finished and agreed on or not. And fifth, remind her that this is a learning experience for you and your friends. This is not a trip so that you kids can get it on. All that being said, some parents are so inflexible that it is a wonder they havent broken from tension. Letting your mother be active in this event will show her that you are committed to being a good little girl, and capable of earning her trust. If she doesn't allow it, then she may have flexablity issues, and may need to seek therapy, unless you have done something that proves you are untrustable. Anyway, good luck with the party. Email me if you need further help.
Best Wishes, Jordan-jordan.j.hunter@okstate.edu
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You need to act as responsibly as possible first of all. Make sure that you're showing her that you make good decisions and you can handle some responsibility.
Give her the phone numbers or e-mail addresses of the parents that are going on the trip. That way, she can talk to them and make sure that you will be well supervised. Maybe after talking to them she will feel a little more comfortable with you going. Just make sure she knows that you are responsible, and aren't going to cave into any peer pressure. Hopefully it works! Have fun camping!
<b>♥</b> Melissa
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well tell your mom that you would never wanna have sex in public! eww! and that there will be supervision. you could have your mom talked to the hosts parents and see if she can camp out with you guys in another tent obviously. hope it works out for you! <3
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well.. i say you just tell you mom the truth parents are gonna be there and you will have people watching over you and tell her that exactly girls in one tent and guys in another so no harm nothing bad is gonna happen you guys are fourteen. and you are smart enough to kno not to have sex or anything like that and tell your mom that she should have sum trust in you because you are older now and more understanding
*ariana*
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