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i'm a really jelous person i wont lie but i've learned not to be but its coming back i saw my exes girl walk by the day and i rammed in to her on purpose and i kinda feel bad for doing it but not really and i really dont like her becuase i'm still in love with the guy.... then i'm really jelous at this girl becuase i have twins as friends and we are best friends but theres this girl victoria and shes in the group now and i feel left out because the twins dont ask me nowere no more and i think i am a pretty good friend what do i do??? i dont want to be the one left out and i want to know how not to be jelous..... any advice??????????? (link)
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Twin story.
There is a difference between being possesive, being jeallous and being left out.
The only bad thing is to be possesive, I am not saying you are or something.
But if you are feeling left out then it is sadness you feel not jealousy.It is totally normal to feel this way if you are not asked to participate.
Just talk it out with your friends and I hope it turns out well for you.That thing happens all the time, it happened to me as well.I was left out, and on top of that, I didn t actually like the new members of my group.
It didn t work out well and I have new best friends for myself now.My only regret is trying to fit in, and trying hard to like some people.That dont mean that people shouldn t try though, right?
As for your ex story, that was wrong of you.You should never show signs of jelousy.Really really wrong, nobody likes jealous.Its flattering in the beginning, but you get tired of a jealous girlfriend.Besides, its just wrong to hurt people.
And she didn t do anything wrong.
Dont worry people come and go in your life.Your life is a book, and people are its chapters.Some smaller some bigger, but there is always a new chapter till your last breath.Dont let it get to you.There are people out there who are willing to make you happy,go find them and dont look back.
Nostalgia is the worst feeling ever.Keep everybody close, dont send nobody away.Dont pick up a fight with the twins, fighting never leads somewhere.Especially between girls.
You are still young and you will lears to adopt that "I am not good enough for you?Fine, go get yourself a new friend." philosophy.
Sending people out of your life will always be sad, people just get used to it and it doesn t hurt as much.Thats the life that we live, in 2008.
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i can be really wet yet my nipples arent hard! can someone please tell me why and if this is normal. and how to get them hard?? thanks! :) (link)
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Ice is one option.
Letting boys help is another option.Not just one boy, but many boys, maybe even at the same time.
Keep in mind that if you are into kinky shit salt and ice together cause 3rd degree burns.Or 1st degree...dont know wich one, but I know its the bad degree.
Of course there is no need to rub them hard and fast.Maybe you should try soft and slow...or soft and fast, hard and slow...all of them work together.If you masturbated, you d know more about it.
Also do you happen to know that dirt that cats use to pee and poop on?Those little stones?
Yeah, this ones have something called catnip, and cats get freaked out by that thing.Its their drug.
If you apply this on your body and breast, your hornyness will reach a hole new level.You might even go on a raping spree.Guarentee your nipples will be hard for 2 hours.
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is it wrong to not eat pizza crusts? (link)
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lol, no not at all. I like pizza crust, but some people dont. They think there to bland for there tastes
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17/f and not sexually active. i keep down there really clean. i know discharge is natural, but after coming off my latest period it has smelled funky for a couple days. it is a little white/clear liquid that smells kinda like meat and cheese. it can't be a yeast infection b/c it doesn't itch! what could this be? what should i do? please don't say ask a doctor, i'm trying to ask a doctor right now (link)
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Well hun,
I just wanted to let you know, that it might still be a yeast infection. They don't always have to itch, and can still have a funny smell.
I'd suggest that u go to your local drug store and get a test. They have some that don't always test just for yeast infections. They have different colors that will show what infection you have.
I really hope i helped.
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I haven't hung out with my friend one on one in a really really long time. she finally says one day dude we haven't hung out in a really long time i miss you! it's like she finds time for everyone else but me.
i want to hang out with her, but should i even give her a chance considering she's been blowing me off so much? i'm not a high matinence friend it just seems like she never has time for me and always uses me when she's bored or other people are busy.
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I think that you should just give her time. If you try to push hanging out with her, it could make her angry. You should just let her tell you when she wants to hang out.
Some girls get freaked out by hanging out with one person to much. They start to think they look desperate or clingy. Maybe thats why she's afraid to hang out with you.
Or maybe she thinks that you like her or something, (assuming that your a guy) She might not feel the same way, or she might like you a little bit, but doesn't want to act on it.
If you just wait, and let her come to you, things will work out. But if you push it, she will find reasons to get mad at you.
Hope i helped, feel free to send me a message if you have anymore quistions
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OK this may not make sense to all of you, and if so, I'm sorry :P
Well the thing is..I feel more comfortable hanging around with guys than girls. I have an equal amount of guy and girl friends and I'm NOT a tomboy.
An ordinary girl.
But I donno, it's like with guys I'm more relaxed and more outgoing.
But then again, at the same time I have quite low self esteem.
Is there anything wrong with me? The way I feel more relaxed around guys, why is that?
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Wow, i know how you feel. The majority of my friends are guys, and i LOVE hanging out with them. You shouldn't feel weird about it. Everyone has there preferences, and you just find guys to be more fun then girls. Remember, girls are mean in a scary bitchy way, at least guys will tell you what is on there mind. So don't feel weird about hanging out with guys only. You probably do it just because there more fun and know how to have a good time.
Also about your self esteem. Self esteem isn't somthing that u can raise in a day. It could take a long time to make you feel better about yourself. But being with people who like you, and are your friends will make u feel more comfortable in your own skin. when your with people who enjoy being with you, that makes you feel better about yourself.
I really hope i helped, feel free to send me a private message if you have any quistions.
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Hi.i kinda masturbauted before and the sperm was kinda a yellowish color..is there something wrong with me?..because usually its a whiteish color : /
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Perfectly normal. Semen is normally whitish and can have a tint of yellow. If it starts turning red, you have a problem.
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Hi, my nipples are cracked. Whats wrong? (link)
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They are probably dry so add some moisture like lotion. It's probably just your hormones. No worries. A little lotion and voila!
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i would like it if guys would answer thiss :D
okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months (we are both 14) and all we have done is makeout and he has put his hand up my shirt but not inside my bra. we both started talking about going a little farther and we are both okay with it. but the problem is some things would be kind of awkward since we are like best friends. so don't say like "talk to him while giving him a hand job" because that is incredibly awkward and we are both silly and can't really be sexual like that..it's just weird. come on, were 14! haha. but we don't want to go to fast...soo it like just feeling his dick from outside his clothes weird? like do guys like that? because i don't really want to go in his pants for a while..kinda of gross. and guys don't get embarrased if they have a boner, right? what's some other "sexual" things that i could do besides going in his pants? thanks a lot!
oh yeh, do guys like TOTALLY shaved pussies or just a little hair? only for like fingering, feeling, etc. not eating out
THANKS IN ADVANCE! i'm totally clueless =/
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Yeah, take it slow. Guys will like a boner probably because well...it feels good! He might be shy at first, but its just showing affection so don't think its awkward. Feeling his dick from outside of the clothes are fine if you and your boyfriend are fine with that. He probably is fine and you probably will feel comfortbale that way. Take your time--you don't have to rush into giving him a handjob. Guys might like shaved but it's impossible to get all the hair so don't make a big deal about it. Guys are hairy down their also.
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Well im a very sensitive person . just the littlest , tinyest things can set off my emotions and make me cry , being yelled at , someone say a certain thing to me , just anything . No im not an emo im 99% happy most of the time , its just the smallest things hurt my feelings . How do i control this or , like " not care " so much ? (link)
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I was just like you when I was a child. I could tear up for little things. I was a happy kid and not many things I encountered were insults. People were nice to me. As I got older, I encountered this with insults from dumb boys and mean girls. I cried at little things if one insulted me. I wasn't use to it, that's why. In 6th grade, I was a little stronger, but still a little teary. Nowadays, I'm stronger but somet hings I will tear up.
The answer to this is time..sounds lame, but its true! Like my story, each year I got stronger and stronger, being able to substain those insults or things that set emotinons to make one cry. Learn from your past. Then you will not tear up so easily of little things. Hoped I helped...at least a little.
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I want some female friends, however when they see me(am not dat bad @ looks either) i dont find any enthusiasm in them which really puts me off to start of a converstation, how do i cope with it? is it right to talk about sex with them after couple of converstations (link)
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well as a girl, let me just say that were not too hard to talk to. i have more guy friends then girls because i like them better, but i dont like them to talk about sex. if your rela good friends, then you can do sex jokes that can be funny but nothing like shes sexy ima go jack off to her right now.
anyways, bascialy everyyy single dayy some girl asks, "help! i don't know how to talk to boyss!" so trust me, if you sound confident, then thtas good and youll be fine. if you are nervous and she can tell, youll make her feel awkward too.
a lot of guys do try to talk to me, but when they arent confient, i just nicely back away. and dont come on strong. like when im hit on, if theyre an ass about it im like ahhh stopp.
i hope that helps you a little bit and just have funn! if you need any more help then askk!
oh yeah ps conversation starters. if you don't know what to say just say so whatd you do this weekend... after than convo dies if it does, then you say so what are you doing nextt weekend. or you can always ask questions, and if she plays a sport, be like howd your basketball game go yesterday. stuff like thatt
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I have over 400 magazines, i collect EVERY tabloid, and have a subscription with seventeen. Plus i buy cosmopolitan, and cosmogirl. The problem is i don't know what to do with them all. My room isn't small but right now most of the are stacked on top of a stand and i'm scared it's going to break. I just don't know what to do with them all, and i don't want to get rid of them and don't think i'll ever stop collecting them.
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Just throw them out. Paper attracts bugs, so you probably have bugs living in your magazines.
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I've been hurt many times in relationships and I've lost trust in guys. I became one of those girls who led guys on and dropped them, made plans I didn't intend on keeping and said things I didn't mean. I did that even to guys I liked. Now I'm changing things but the weird thing is I'm realizing I'm really into this guy i screwed over manyyy times. He isn't the best guys, he smokes ALOT, skips class, and drinks but for some reason I keep falling for him. He was one of the guys I actually did like but I made plans and didn't follow through 5 different times so hes pretty much lost all trust in me. I don't really know what to do because I don't want to want him but I can't help it. Well he ended up being at this party I was at and we talked and I appologized and he was being really sweet and cute. He tried to hook up with me and I didn't because my friend was already mad at me cause she says I was dancing like a whore so that probably didn't help things, turning him down. Me and him are friends but part of me really wants more. Everyone says I can do better than him but theres something about him that I can't let go of. For some reason even though he isn't the best guy and he isn't very attractive i feel like I can trust him. I don't know if I should go for him and work my ass off to try and get him or I should just try and move on (which hasn't been working.) (link)
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honestly, you should change your ways, and turn over a new leaf, for good. if you like the guy a lot, go for it, and if you dont like his ways, then you could ask him to change, if he likes you the way you like him. Reassure him that you are truely commited this time, and that you really want to be with him. its all about trust, if he is not willing to accept you as a gf right away, then gain his trust by being his friend and showing him that you are NOT going to give up. You may change your mind, and you may not. But just be honest with you and him
GoOd LuCk!!!
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HEY!!
Our school dosent have a cheerleading squad so i wanted to start one.
We wouldn compete or anything, we would just go to our school's basketball and soccer and volleyball games and stuff.
Any advice on how t start them?
I talked to our school principal and she said it was fine as long as out outfits covered our knees... any ideas on how to do that and still make it cute?
Our school colors are orange and black
or navy and white
Thanx so so much!
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well,you can start by making banners and posters for the club, and get people (like your friends) and the futball players to all help you (and everyone else you are cheering for). If you have to have the skirts down to your knees, you can make no sleeve, and a little v neck top. not porno v neck, cute v neck. i dont think that will be a problem though, just make everything else look cute, like use glitter for your eyes, hair etc...get pom poms, get a teacher if you can to really get the whole club in order...this will make everyone listen to you more. also, try to get someone to teach your new squad how to cheer haha :-] and also, set up a practice schedule, game schedule, and have a tryouts date, and judging team with you.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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also set up a breakfast for the people trying out and have a fundraiser too for uniforms and stuff
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I want to get a job, find the right boy, eat healthy, drink only water and fruit juice, be nice to everyone, meet a friend online who i become like secretly BEST friends with and share everything with and possibly talk to on the phone and plan to meet someday when i grow up, get a better reputation, make my body the right size, study hard and get better grades, push myself to work hard, finish drivers ed so i can get my permit, be happy and peaceful and not stressed all the time, go to church, make friends, develop a BUNCH of talents. hmm help :) (link)
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**license not permit :) i shouldve gotten it along time ago!
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ok i was reading another question about ouji boards (or however you spell it) and i was wondering, where could you get one, and how much would they cost, or what?
thanx! (link)
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Actualy you can get them at Target for 20 bucks. Good luck, I hope I helped.
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For my birthday in about 3 weeks my mom & her sister ( my aunt) are bringing me and two of my friends to the city for my birthday. I've been there a couple times and absolutly love it. I need some ideas of places to go, (no plays or comedy acts please, we dont have time even though id love to) But if you're from the city or go there often and know good places to eat or visit ,please share them with me. Resteraunts, Stores?
I'm already deffinetly planning on going to Sephora, Lacoste, TRL store, Times Square
Please give me the name & address if you can.
Maybe a website too?
Thank you.
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Shopping1-Sure these stores are extremely expensive but hey, it's always fun to look!!
-Gucci
-Louis Vuitton
-Prada
-Coach
-Chanel
-Vera Wang
-Dolce & Gabana
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high fashion like the kinds i see in teenvogue. i dont get it.. i love fashion but i cant afford like friggen 150 dollars for jeans, or 60 bucks for a shirt. why are they so expensive? its unnecesary since the materials used to make them shouldn't be that pricey. i mean i bet the designers would sell more if they'd lower their prices to reasonable.. and from 120 to 60 dollars isnt THAT reasonable. where are some cool stores i can go shop at that arent as pricey? i wanna get some new spring-ish clothes. i hear florals & other bright colors will be in, according to teenvogue? and i dont wanna hear from this advice about like following my own idea because i do, but from magazines i find ideas for clothing i never thought of but i still like. btw, 14/f. :) thanks. (link)
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honestly, cloths are so expensive because most of the brands and designers think they are the sh*t haha. seriously, they all think that by raising theyr prices, they are becoming the new "juicy couture." if you know what i mean. seriously, dont go for anything that is "in" if you dont like it, because then everyone is wearing the same thing, you can find really cute cheap styles of your own that only you will have. TJ Max is a lifesaver, and even like Khols and target could have some pretty cute things. just find cloths you like, dont thnk about where they are from.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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if i wanted to make a web show how would i? (link)
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well, if i were you, i would start out on youtube...tell all of your friends about it, and make advertisements. come up with a permanent name, like: Mywebshow, and then make episodes for it... like: Mywebshow episode2, or Mywebshow episode 2, paris hilton vs britney spears. That kind of thing. Also, you need access to a camera, a person to film, if you want, and some cool ideas. it would also help if you had a scenery, like in your basement, have like a couch that you always sit on. You would also probably need a tripod, or something too keep the camera steady. GoOd LuCk!!!
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if it all works out, and you decide to go with it, then tell me the link! :-] let me know how it all works out for you!
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My boyfriend & i of about 5 months fight non stop every night for like the past month. We have been fighting about his exs & about stupid stuff. Such as hes trying to be friends with them even though i don't want him to talk to girls. I feel like hes going to go with them because there better.and lately he's been acting like he doesn't love me. Like he doesn't show it in the ways he used to. I just don't want this relationship to be over. I need advice how to get over this fighting. adn how i can trust him more.
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if you don't start to trust him more he WILL end it. guys hate when girls are controlling. you should just trust him since he is your boyfriend, and if he has never done anything to hurt you. for example, if he has cheated on you, then i can see why youd have trust issues. but you didnt mention that, and so the only other reason you would have trust issues is because of your own self-esteem problems. like you said, you feel like he'll like other girls becuase theyre better. he is dating youuu becuase he likes you :)! anyways, if you keep on controlling him and choosing who he can be friends with, (maybe thats why he's acting like he doesn't love you), he will break up. i know i would if i were a guy.
good luck!
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