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Question Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 10:45 pm

I haven't hung out with my friend one on one in a really really long time. she finally says one day dude we haven't hung out in a really long time i miss you! it's like she finds time for everyone else but me.

i want to hang out with her, but should i even give her a chance considering she's been blowing me off so much? i'm not a high matinence friend it just seems like she never has time for me and always uses me when she's bored or other people are busy.

HELP!


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orphans answered Wednesday February 6 2008, 3:31 pm:
I think that you should just give her time. If you try to push hanging out with her, it could make her angry. You should just let her tell you when she wants to hang out.

Some girls get freaked out by hanging out with one person to much. They start to think they look desperate or clingy. Maybe thats why she's afraid to hang out with you.

Or maybe she thinks that you like her or something, (assuming that your a guy) She might not feel the same way, or she might like you a little bit, but doesn't want to act on it.

If you just wait, and let her come to you, things will work out. But if you push it, she will find reasons to get mad at you.

Hope i helped, feel free to send me a message if you have anymore quistions

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triquetra answered Wednesday February 6 2008, 7:14 am:
If you don't then you could be ruining a friendship which could benefit you in the future. I haven't hung out with my friends in a long time and i never think of abandoning it just becasue we haven't seen each other in a while.
Give her another chance and make it plain that you would like to see each other more often than what you used to.

I hope this helped,
triquetra

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TheAnnie answered Wednesday February 6 2008, 12:29 am:
i would definitly give her another chance..if you don't you might end a really good friendship in the processs

do something easy like go to a movie or even just go for ice cream.

maybe it onl seems this way to you...

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 11:23 pm:
I'd give her another chance to make things right. Not on her terms at her convenience, though- at yours. Pick a day that you feel would be best to do something together, invite her to join you in some sort of activity, and if she blows you off that time, THEN wash your hands of the whole mess.

A person who is only a friend when it is convenient for them is not a friend to begin with.

ygs-29/f

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