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I want some female friends, however when they see me(am not dat bad @ looks either) i dont find any enthusiasm in them which really puts me off to start of a converstation, how do i cope with it? is it right to talk about sex with them after couple of converstations
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One thing I know is us girls love to talk especially to fairly attractive guys.All I can say is just be yourself. Try to find out what they like and enjoy. For example, if you hear them talking about wanting a new red car. You can go up and say something like "Hey, which color do you think this car would look better as, red or black?" Obviously you would know the answer, but it be a means of conversation. As far as the sex thing goes, I'd say not to talk about it first. Girls are attracted to gentlemen when looking for friends. If you get more comfortable with them, then I don't think it would be a problem.
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well as a girl, let me just say that were not too hard to talk to. i have more guy friends then girls because i like them better, but i dont like them to talk about sex. if your rela good friends, then you can do sex jokes that can be funny but nothing like shes sexy ima go jack off to her right now.
anyways, bascialy everyyy single dayy some girl asks, "help! i don't know how to talk to boyss!" so trust me, if you sound confident, then thtas good and youll be fine. if you are nervous and she can tell, youll make her feel awkward too.
a lot of guys do try to talk to me, but when they arent confient, i just nicely back away. and dont come on strong. like when im hit on, if theyre an ass about it im like ahhh stopp.
i hope that helps you a little bit and just have funn! if you need any more help then askk!
oh yeah ps conversation starters. if you don't know what to say just say so whatd you do this weekend... after than convo dies if it does, then you say so what are you doing nextt weekend. or you can always ask questions, and if she plays a sport, be like howd your basketball game go yesterday. stuff like thatt
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I found it hard to make friends at first, too. I was (and still am) a little shy. I found that just saying 'Hi', or 'Whats up' to girls that sit next to me in class did just the trick. The key is to communicate, even if it's just for a few minutes. Crack a joke, make fun of the teacher that you both dislike, ask her what time class gets out, ANYTHING. Pretty soon, you'll find that these girls will actually smile and say hi to you in the hallway. They might be a little intimidated or will think that you don't find them interesting.
Just talk to them.
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lol. this just depends on what type of girl your talking to..but generally it wouldnt be a good idea to talk about sex only after afew questions.
Try and make yourself seem more interesting n deep and maybe girls will be more enthusiastic to get to know you!Or maybe you should try talking to the girls you wouldnt usually talk to.
hope this helps. good luck
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