My boyfriend & i of about 5 months fight non stop every night for like the past month. We have been fighting about his exs & about stupid stuff. Such as hes trying to be friends with them even though i don't want him to talk to girls. I feel like hes going to go with them because there better.and lately he's been acting like he doesn't love me. Like he doesn't show it in the ways he used to. I just don't want this relationship to be over. I need advice how to get over this fighting. adn how i can trust him more.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Sunday February 3 2008, 9:46 am: if you don't start to trust him more he WILL end it. guys hate when girls are controlling. you should just trust him since he is your boyfriend, and if he has never done anything to hurt you. for example, if he has cheated on you, then i can see why youd have trust issues. but you didnt mention that, and so the only other reason you would have trust issues is because of your own self-esteem problems. like you said, you feel like he'll like other girls becuase theyre better. he is dating youuu becuase he likes you :)! anyways, if you keep on controlling him and choosing who he can be friends with, (maybe thats why he's acting like he doesn't love you), he will break up. i know i would if i were a guy.
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1love1life answered Sunday February 3 2008, 7:45 am: Hmm ill start off by saying there are 6 billion or more people on this earth so you cant expect him not to talk to any girl at all. If you feel like they are better then that is going to show through your actions. If i were you id say fuck them girls, he is with you not them so obviously to him you are better so you should feel that way too. And has this guy ever done any wrong to you? if not then you should trust him completely and if you dont then it sounds like you have a trust issue. If you want to stop this fighting then you have to tell this guy that him trying to be friends with his ex's is bothering you. If he is a reasonable guy then he will understand. Usually when couples fight alot thats not good. If i were you, the next time yall start fighting just take a breather and be like "why are we fighting" and go from there. You and Him are the only two people that can stop the fighting. And about the not acting like he doesnt love you, my boyfriend sometimes acts that way to but guys dont show their love 24/7 like us girls and you just have to know that he loves you and live with that. guys are complicated sometimes and if you want something to change your not going to get it unless you ask, because how are they suppose to know how you feel and stuff unless you tell them? [ 1love1life's advice column | Ask 1love1life A Question ]
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