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Jelousy
i'm a really jelous person i wont lie but i've learned not to be but its coming back i saw my exes girl walk by the day and i rammed in to her on purpose and i kinda feel bad for doing it but not really and i really dont like her becuase i'm still in love with the guy.... then i'm really jelous at this girl becuase i have twins as friends and we are best friends but theres this girl victoria and shes in the group now and i feel left out because the twins dont ask me nowere no more and i think i am a pretty good friend what do i do??? i dont want to be the one left out and i want to know how not to be jelous..... any advice???????????
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Twin story.
There is a difference between being possesive, being jeallous and being left out.
The only bad thing is to be possesive, I am not saying you are or something.
But if you are feeling left out then it is sadness you feel not jealousy.It is totally normal to feel this way if you are not asked to participate.
Just talk it out with your friends and I hope it turns out well for you.That thing happens all the time, it happened to me as well.I was left out, and on top of that, I didn t actually like the new members of my group.
It didn t work out well and I have new best friends for myself now.My only regret is trying to fit in, and trying hard to like some people.That dont mean that people shouldn t try though, right?
As for your ex story, that was wrong of you.You should never show signs of jelousy.Really really wrong, nobody likes jealous.Its flattering in the beginning, but you get tired of a jealous girlfriend.Besides, its just wrong to hurt people.
And she didn t do anything wrong.
Dont worry people come and go in your life.Your life is a book, and people are its chapters.Some smaller some bigger, but there is always a new chapter till your last breath.Dont let it get to you.There are people out there who are willing to make you happy,go find them and dont look back.
Nostalgia is the worst feeling ever.Keep everybody close, dont send nobody away.Dont pick up a fight with the twins, fighting never leads somewhere.Especially between girls.
You are still young and you will lears to adopt that "I am not good enough for you?Fine, go get yourself a new friend." philosophy.
Sending people out of your life will always be sad, people just get used to it and it doesn t hurt as much.Thats the life that we live, in 2008.
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