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ok i have worn uniforms for EIGHT YEARS and im sick of them. WHat can i do to bend the rules but not break them and dress up my uniform .OUr unifrom rules are pretty leniant. I rate high!!

me too! they suck BIG TIME! well get cool colored shoes like converses or custom nike shox. wear cute acessories like cool watches, chunky bracelets, pretty rings and all kids of things in your hair. you can wear groovy socks too or sweaters over your school shirt that are trendy (if your allowed, that is) have fun!

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hey im 13 and my girlfriend is 19 and we do everything together..go to the movies, mall, make out, and more! the only problem is that i think she might be seeing someone else...whenever she picks me up to go somewhere shes always late..what should i do?

-lover boy

i think you guys should break up and date ppl closer to your age. your realtionship is very odd...it could even be illegal so yeah.

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how do i make my guy appreciate me more, and make him realize how lucky he is to have me?

be hard to get, dont give him everything he wants, tell him about the guys that are dying to be with you. hope that helps!

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Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.

what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.

What are some sweet things I can do?

BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!

-thanks a million!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

-Kelsee-

hugging is NOT cheating!! i hug other guys all the time and my bf hugs all my friends. you bf is overeacting...tell him to chill out! tell him what you told us, he should understand and tell him you wont if he doesnt want you to. hope all goes well!

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ok well, i saw your advice column and i thought i would see if you could help me at all.

ok, my bf hasnt called me in 5 days and i really like him. he was sopose to go water sking with me today but he wouldnt pick up the phone this morning. and if we do talk on the phone he seems as if he doesnt want to talk to me and he says ok bye, in the middle of the conversation. so should i break up with him or should i ask him about it or should i just wait for him to break up with me? i need some help please.

well i had a bf case similar to that but he wouldnt be THAT rude. i think theres somthig hes not telling you...hes either surrounded by parents when hes on the phone, really busy and wont make time for you, limited phone privileges, not interested or just waiting to be dumped. next time hes ready to say "ok bye" be like "no, why do u want to leave?" then go from there and if the next time he doesnt change, dump him. hope this helps and thanks for asking!

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I'm a girl and I'm an intense gymnast. My whole body is basically muscle like I have the six pack and the wide shoulders and the v-back and stuff and all other girls my age (14) have curves. I was just wondering are guys attracted to muscle on girls at all?

guys have different tastes in girls just like girls have different tastes in guys. some girls like guys that look like jesse mccartney...i dont. i guess the muscle is better than a ton of fat everywhere so im sure guys would turn you down becuase of your build.

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can you masturbate during your period... && this is my first period ever in my whole life...there isnt alot of blood is that normal? what is it like when wou first get it? pleaseeeee hellppp

you can if you really want to and dont mind getting a bit messy and yes its normal!

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How do you give good advice? Should you include personal experiences or would that make things confusing. What are some good tips when you want to give somebody advice, like things you should make sure you do? I like to give advice and help people, but I'm not always sure how. I rate 5's for any answers - please help me out on this. Everyone should help so that anyone who reads can get better too. Thanks!

well first of all, answer their question! some people dont really read it through and totally miss your point. give them SAFE and PHYSICALLY POSSIBLE advice and answer questions you can actually relate to...if you dont know anything about it, dont answer with "umm i dont know u could google it???"

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I'm i'm a 14 year old girl, (15 at the end of september) i'm 5' 9 1/2" tall and i weigh 145 lbs. Now, i know i'm not unhealthy or anything... i mean i'm certainly not obese, but what's the best way to lose weight? i don't want to be anorexic or bulemic or anything (ew) i just want to slim down and tone muscle. I want to be slim, but not disgustingly skinny. I think i eat too much junk food but i love the sugar lol. Are fruits a better subsitute for cookies and ice cream? Also, i want to have defined curves. ( i dunno if losing weight makes it tough to have curves or something but meh) but i've got these, i assume, muscles under just below my hip that gives my pelvic region a kind of square-ish look. Somebody said this was because i do sports and i've just built muscle there and it can't be helped. Is that true? And i want my thighs slimmer, too.

o.o sorry that's so long. Any suggestions? Bottom line: how do i get my body to look the way i want?

-thanks-

well since you are already into sports, your healthy and that a GREAT start! eat 3 meals with good portions, maybe do extra situps, crunches, etc. dont try to get too slim. athletic build is ok!! dont eat all the junk food...if your hungry grab a low fat granola bar...they work wonders. as long as you thighs are toned (not like filled with cellulite and stuf) then theres not real reason to get them thinner. just stay posative and dont expect immidiate results.

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I haven't even had my period for a year and it comes like every two weeks and lasts like 5 days... it sucks! Is this normal?

Thanks!

yeah your first year is bound to be irregular to the point that its misery every 2 weeks. my friend had it everyday for a month once. [sighs] hope u feel ok!

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is it absolutely 100% neccessary for a woman to go to a gynocologist at some point in her life? and what do they do, exactly?

yeah i think it is actually. they check for regularity in periods, cancers, stds, unusual things that could happen to women from being sexually active to yeast infections.

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i have a 2 month old daughter she has had diareeah, vomitting, and a fever not lower than 101 for 12 days the er says its just a virus and to keep her on a fever reducer but they dont seem to be working and now her vomit is curtled and thick. any suggestions will help?? thanks

see a doctor PLEASE! she needs more than over the counter stuff and he fever is dangerous especially for a 2 month old.

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I was just wondering what kind of things women did with their pubic hair. For example, I don't want to wax or shave mine, I know there are creams you can use, but I don't really want to get rid of it all. Do people trim theirs? Do they use scissors? How short do you do it? I know everyone is different, but I would like some kind of idea anyway.

There isn't really anyone I can ask this without sounding stupid and I don't really want to google it, I can imagine the websites it will bring up!

Thanks for any help people can give me.

trim the edges so its still healthy but still looks ok. you can try a dipilatory with that or shave the bikini line then trim the other places. hope that helps!

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I dont know why but I have zits on my butt. What can I do to get rid of them.

this is gonna sound retarded but, dont shave so high on your leg. i used to do that for swim team and the suit rubbing against it didnt helps so try sporting some looser undies too. hope this helps!!

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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.

so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.

i rate 5 if it helps even a little.

well it could be a phase hes going through and hes wuestioning his sexuality because he hasnt been in either or both. gay guys can be nice, i know it and i can see how that happened. be his friend and tel him how much he means to you...that will get him. they like kindness and if you give him lots of it he might come around and like you and give up the gay scene. hope that helps!

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ok well i had my period.. 2nd time now.. and i dont know.. like how many times a day should i change my pad/ tampond?? or like my mom never had the talk with me so idk what to expect

every 4-6 hours...basically when it starts to stink real bad, it needs to go. for tampons, if you can see the blood on the string...theres a sign that its gotta go. hope this helps!

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How do I use a tampon? Do I always have to wear a pad or can I wear a tampon?

well when you buy a box of them, there are step by step instructions on how to do it. if you need more info let me know!

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okay, i know this is pretty weird, but i read on this health site that if you take your height from when you were 2, and double it.. it`s your adult height. does anyone know if this is a true fact and if anyone has their height from when they were two and you are fully grown .. can you let me know =] thankss!!

no its not because for boys it was at 3 years old and it can vary...i did that and it said i was gonna be 5 foot and im 5'3 and not fully grown. so then i guess that no, its not true.

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Hey

no you wont get shots unless your missing something and since your already there he'll give it to you. i think it only goes for family doctors tho. i got my booster shot the day i got my physical cuz i needed it in the next 3 months so he took advantage of the fact that i was alreay there. for shots...im a whimp and really it not that bad if you distract yourself and relax...i was texting my friend when they gave me the shot. so yeah i doubt youll get a shot but if you do end up with it, dont freak out, its OK i promise!

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ya well for night i know ur supposed to wear pads but i have the dinky to go ones.. n i used my sisters but i dont want her ot know and now she like has none.. so i dont have any to wear at night and my mom is outta town with my dad (not like im goin to ask him) n i cant ask my sisters! what should i do!!!!!

i rate 5's

NO GAY ASS ANSWERS PLEASE!

oh and i have my period right now and idk what to do!!! about the pad thing

if your sister has her period, why cant you ask her? if shes not on it, im sure she'll let you use some of hers. really, unless your sister absolutly hates your guts, im sure she would help you out. you could always go to the mall or somewhere with a coin operated machine in the bathroom and buy like 5 to get you through it. hope this helps && good luck!!

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