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Question Posted Sunday August 14 2005, 7:55 pm

hey im 13 and my girlfriend is 19 and we do everything together..go to the movies, mall, make out, and more! the only problem is that i think she might be seeing someone else...whenever she picks me up to go somewhere shes always late..what should i do?

-lover boy


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Alexandria answered Monday August 15 2005, 10:40 pm:
just ask her sitdown and talk to her! Tell her you love her! my dad cheated on my mom she felt like he was cheating on her it took him a while to admit it but h did! P.S. How late? If you feel so strongley about it tell her!

~Allie Cat~

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Larson9954 answered Monday August 15 2005, 6:06 pm:
Talk to her about it if she denys it dont push it..ask around like her friends and stuff if they think shes sneakin around and if she is shes obviously not worth it

*LaUrEn*

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BeMyPrInCe22 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 11:56 pm:
i think its better if you guys break up cuz i mean shes a little old for you and no offence but she prolly is cheating on you do to the age difference. but ask her first and i have dates and i take like an extra 15 min to get ready soo im late when i met my bfs or w/e. well i hope i helped

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shutupnkissme98 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:41 pm:
daaaaaaaaamn 13-19 thts like....6 years!! jeez.

ok neways....

unless shes ever done sumthing to lose your trust i think you should trust her. but talk to her about it and let her know how much you care about her.

hope i helped XoXo

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devilspawn_666 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:37 pm:
Umm.. first of all, a 19 year old girl has no business dating a 13 year old boy. That's just disgusting on so many levals. She probably is seeing someone else. Being late doesn't necessarily mean she's cheating, maybe she just takes awhile to get ready. She's 6 years older than you are.. There's nothing you really have to offer her, other than companionship. It's not like you can afford to do all the things that a real boyfriend can. End this ridiculous thing right now before you wind up getting hurt.

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confusedbabii answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:25 pm:
okay, honestly i think she's wayy too old for you but it's your decision. and i'm not taking her side, but as a girl, i know that girls are naturally late alot of the time. no offense, but it's a girl thing. but if you're still suspicious, ask her about it. i can't say whether she'll answer honestly but that's pretty much your only hope to find out. hope i helped!

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GraspingToControl answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:18 pm:
maybe shes being fashionably late. or maybe she got caught up getting ready to look beautiful for you. just call her and ask her why shes late. or listen in the backround..

hope i helped.

Amber

btw .. why do you have a 19 yearold girlfriend?

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xomegaroni answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:05 pm:
talk to her about it. tell her that you're curious on why she's late. she'll explain it to you. if she doesn't, then maybe she is seeing someone else.

good luck!

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rockstarxlove answered Sunday August 14 2005, 8:57 pm:
Well that may be the case because you are a lot younger than her. I think the best and only solution is to talk to her about it. Ask her why she is always late and see if she lies about it. You might want to just break up with her if you even think this is happening.

♥ nicole

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MCRfreak8 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 8:55 pm:
First of all, that is illegal 2 b dating sum1 that is ovr 18 and you're younger than 14. So don't get caught. Second thing...she cud possibly b seein sum1 else cuz she is a lady now. She doesn't have 2 have her parents or older sibling 2 drive her sumwhere. So she cud b cheatn on u (but I hope she isn't!) You shud sit her down next time and ask 2 go out 2 dinner or sumtin and ask her wut's goin on, and things r feeling kinda weird around u. Mayb that will help, hope it does!

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LoveNJstyle answered Sunday August 14 2005, 8:45 pm:
i think you guys should break up and date ppl closer to your age. your realtionship is very odd...it could even be illegal so yeah. <3

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MummuM answered Sunday August 14 2005, 8:43 pm:
I think you should talk to her about this. You'll never know for sure until you actually ask her about it. One day when you guys are together, maybe you could just bring it up. Tell her that you find it weird that she's always late when she comes to pick you up. You have this gut feeling that she might be seeing someone else. Just explain to her why you feel this way. You have to ask her about it, that's the only way you'll know for sure.
&hearts; Krissy

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t0xicParadiSe answered Sunday August 14 2005, 8:41 pm:
this might not be what you would like to hear but since you are only 13 and she is 19
i say dump her chances are she is seeing some one else some one her own age

good luck if you need anything else drop one in my inbox &hearts;

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