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Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.
what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.
What are some sweet things I can do?
BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!
-thanks a million!
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-Kelsee-
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well i think you should definatly should tell your boyfriend that the hug meant nothing. also you should let him know that u had a bad feeling after you hugged this guy and you would never date him. also you should just remind your b.f how much you love him and how much you care about him and that no other guy could come between u two :-) hope i helped -x0x Jen
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ok well i would talk to your boyfriend and tell him that it didnt mean anything. that it wuz just a simple hug for a friend.also tell him how you felt afterwards.if he knows that you felt horrible after just hugging another guy then he can probably see that you would never cheat on him or anything.and i think he definetly overreacted a lot but i wouldnt tell him that.
hope i helped XoXo
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ok kelsee, Maybe you hugged the other guy cuz u were being nice! Or maybe you felt bad for him for some reason! If I were you I would explain to my bf how much i loved him and how i would never in a million years cheat on him settup a date or sumthing and you pay! And then ask him sumtime on the date if he still trusts you!tell me if it works out!
~Allie Cat~
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If you have a boyfriend, its ok to hug but not to kiss other guys. Hugs are usually because you need a comfort or just saying hi. In my opinion, he overreacted a lot. Hope I helped!
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It's not against the rules to hug another guy unless oyu have feelings for them.. i hug my guy friends all the time and my boyfriend doesn't care because he's knows how much i care for him. Tell your guy you're sorry and he should understand. Try taking him out somewhere and pay for it all. Do things everyday that let him know that he is the only guy that you really care about. hope that helped! <3
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If you felt bad about it and regret it, then you should really explain it to your boyfriend...he will prob understand*
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hunn, hugging is not bad!!! hugging is jus like a handshake only nicer and friendlier i mean its not like you love the guy cus of it... you need to talk to you boyfriend cus he obviously has jealousy issues!!!
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Okay... first of all you HUGGED him. What in the hell is wrong with a hug? I hug people all the damn time! I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months, he doesn't give a damn if I hug another guy! It's not like you had sex with him or anything!!!! No offence, but you're boyfriend is a JACKASS if he's getting pissed off at you that you hugged a guy. It's a freaking hug, it means NOTHING. I hug guys, I hug girls. That doesn't mean I'm a lesbian because I hug girls! You have a VERY guilty conscience if you're feeling that way after HUGGING a person. If you kissed him, yes I could totally understand you feeling that way. But sweetie... you HUGGED him for the love of God. Tell me, what is wrong with a hug? That's not cheating! It's fine that you felt BAD... I don't understand why the hell you WOULD feel bad. And you're boyfriend is stupid as hell if he's going to not trust you anymore for hugging someone. What, is he going to forbid you to hug people anymore? Can you not hug your grandma anymore because he's going to be afraid that the hug MEANS SOMETHING????
Here's what you can do: Tell your boyfriend he is an insecure little boy for getting pissed off that you hugged a guy. That's retarded.
Hun, he still loves you!!!!!! God damn it's a freaking hug!! I don't understand what's wrong with a hug! What, were you like rubbing your hands up and down his ass or something? Did he grab your ass or your boobs? If he did THEN I'd feel guilty! But if it's an innocent little hug you'd give to grammy, what the hell are you worrying about? Here look ::Emily(that's me)hugs Kelsee:: What's your boyfriend gonna do now? Hunt me down because I hugged you? Please, he can cry me a fucking river (excuse my language).
He needs to get over it. It was a hug. Not sex.
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OK I'm not trying to be mean AT ALL or anything but I think you and your bf may be over reacting a little. It was just a hug right??? I hug all my guys friends when I have a bf because it's not a big deal it's just a friendly hug. Just tell him you love him to death and the hug meant nothing at all because you guys are just friends :) and you can tell your bf that you wouldnt even dream of going out with that guy ever so don't even worry about it. If this sounded mean I'm not trying to be and I'm sorry lol if you have any questions feel free to leave one in my inbox!
good luck hun!
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i don't think your bf should be too worried since you talked about it with him. hugs aren't really too much, like it wasn't a kiss er anything. if you guys really do love each other you'll get through it. maybe the guy you hugged could talk to your bf juss incase. really though, i wouldn't worry too much about it, and juss talk to your bf and tell him how you feel, and listen to how he feels.
good luck!
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I think that if ur boyfriend can't handle you jus playn around goofing off w/ another guy...then you shud prolly take a break and let him kool down or dump him. Sum sweet things you can do is write a letter, send a card, candies, or jus buy him sumtin that he is rele wanting. That'd b nice 2 him, then afer you give it 2 him, you shud appologize. Hope my advice helps u! Thnx 4 the questions! Feel free 2 write bak netim u need help, k?
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Umm okay, hugging another guy is not cheating. Kissing and things like that are, but hugging isnt. Tell him it didnt mean anything and it was only a hug. He shouldn't get POed about that. You can get him a card or something saying your sorry. That's all i can think of. It really isnt a big deal.
♥ nicole
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Wow! Why is your boyfriend even freaking out about this? Hugging is not cheating on someone, at all. I can see if you kissed someone, but you didn't. All you did was hug a guy that wasn't your boyfriend. This isn't a really big deal, not a big deal at all. Don't get all worked up about this sweetie, hugs are nothing. Just tell your boyfriend that you love him a lot, tell him how much you care about him and how lucky you are to have him in your life. Just explain your feelings towards him. I'm sure everything will be okay. Try to calm down a bit.
♥ Krissy
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hugging is NOT cheating!! i hug other guys all the time and my bf hugs all my friends. you bf is overeacting...tell him to chill out! tell him what you told us, he should understand and tell him you wont if he doesnt want you to. hope all goes well! <3
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