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are there any web-cameras out there that have more than 1.3 megapixels?

Are you talking about more than 1.3 megapixels for video or pictures?

I found a web cam on E-Bay that has 5.0 megapixels, right here: http://cgi.ebay.com/5-0-Megapixel-Driverless-LifeCam-Webcam-Digital-Camera_W0QQitemZ120142769304QQihZ002QQcategoryZ4616QQcmdZViewItem

If you need anymore help, just ask me. :)

Best Regards,
Mariah

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Does anyone know how I can buy a Ghost of The Robot CD - Mad Brilliant. The website says this CD is no longer available for purchase, but do you think there is some other way?

I'd try Amazon, it's actually cheaper than E-Bay, plus you are actually guaranteed to receive it quicker as well.

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my friend brought me back a sea shell from myrtle beach and its small and white but around the edges its really black and you can tell it wasn't originally that color so how do i make it sparkling white again without harming the shell? can i use bleach?

Here are some ways to clean sea shells:

Bury them about 18 inches below the ground in your backyard, so that animals don't dig them up and the rain doesn't wash them away. Leave them there for a couple of months, dig them back up, and all of the insects that live underground should of eaten all of the tissue inside of them, cleaning out the inside of the shell for you.

After that, soak the sea shells in a 50-50 solution of water and bleach. The length of time depends on the type of seashells and the quantity of seashells being cleaned. You must remove them after the "periostracum" is gone. The periostracum is the flaky, leathery covering that covers most live seashells.

If you need anymore help, just ask me. :)

Best Regards,
Mariah

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my friend has a guitar shes willing to lend me but now i need a site to show me the cord and stuff I can get abook but is there anything important i need to know??

I found some cool websites that teach you how to play the guitar, including chords and stuff like that.

http://guitar.about.com/library/weekly/aa071200e.htm
http://www.maximummusician.com/book1.htm
http://www.learnplayguitar.net/
http://www.guitarmadesimple.com/

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ok i hate my brothers best friend joe. i fight more with his friend then i do with my brother. joe knows i hate him i make it clear to him and he says im a emo bitch. IM NOT EMO. i...do cut and wear black daily. but im like half and half happy or sad. am i emo? i say im not. although im not sure. and hes always over! once we went bowling and i had 3 friends and my brother had him. joe says were all emo. well 2 of my friends like attacked him when he said it and i walked up. i fight with him atleast 3 times as much as with my own brother and joes so nice to parents. my brother and him are 15 and my friends are all 13 14 or 15 im 14 soon im 13 soon 14. my friends are all probly emo or goth or punk or skaters i guess since stereo types are everywhere now. and one of my guy friends is 15 hes ''emo'' acts just like me is always up to something and burns and bands. they got ina big fight. joes a pussy though. and i could even beat hime up. but im in enough trouble as it is hehe. what else can i do? im not even emotional at all.

I would just ignore him if I were you. I know it seems like a lot and it will be pretty hard at first, but if you don't get mad at him when he says something bad to you or you don't react, he won't have any funny gawking at your reaction, he'll get bored, and he'll stop.

Guys, and even girls, like that feed on your reaction whenever they gossip about you, insult you, .etc. If you ignore them, you're putting out their fire, and their friends will think that they're stupid because they're insulting you and you're not reacting to it, which will put out their fire for good. If they don't have a posse to back them up, they'll feel weak and they'll most likely stop.

Guys and girls like that say bad stuff about people because they feel insecure about themselves, they are bullied as well, or it gives them a burst of adrenaline when they see your reaction.

Try to calmly talk to them and tell them that you don't like what they're doing, and if they can stop. Don't get mad at them if they don't, just walk away and ignore them.

If he ever comes over to your house, just go into your room, lock the door, and read a book, or even invite a friend over yourself. A better idea would be to just leave the house whenever he is over to get some fresh air and let off some steam.

If you need anymore help, just ask. :)

Best Regards,
Mariah

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i just recently got close with my friend jake. i ALSO just broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. anyways, hes been there all through the break up and everything helping me out and making me feel better. we talk almost everyday, if not twice a day and we really do have an amazing friendship. about a week or two ago, we started talking about relationships (since we both recently got out of one) and we started comparing what we want in one and what we like/dislike. ever since then, we're even closer & i think im starting to like him. im really afraid to tell him though because i'm afraid it'll screw up what we have, and how close we are. i have one of my best friends talking to him trying to get a feel of who he's interested in, but i really want a straight out answer. i mean, if i dont tell him and he really does like me too, i could be missing out on something great you know? sorry its so long, but any advice you can give me would be great. thanks.!

Ask him how he feels about you, as in if he likes you as more than a friend. It doesn't hurt to ask, and you'll feel a lot better knowing the real answer once you do.

Put it this way, if you don't ask him if he likes you or not, you'll most likely never no for sure, and if he starts having a relationship with another girl, and you find out that he liked you originally, I bet you'll feel really mad that you didn't jump at the chance to ask him if he liked you when the time came.

I think knowing that he doesn't like you is a lot better than not knowing whether he likes you or not.

You will not jeopardize your friendship either, trust me. That's what everyone worries about when they are in this same situation. If they are really a true friend, than they will most likely stay your true friend, even if they reject you.

If you need anymore help, just ask. :D

Best Regards,
Mariah

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hey. i'm 13 and i just started getting my period this year. just recently, my last few periods have been making me feel absolutely horrible. i feel as if i need to puke, my back always hurts, and i go to the bathroom alot more often then usual(i'm sorry, i know that's disgusting, but it might help?)
i was wondering if there's anything i can do on my own without going to a doctor, or if this is atleast normal.

please, please, please help me, i feel so sick.

I would go see a doctor, because the only way to lessen the flow of your period, as well as take away some of the pain, is to start taking birth control pills.

The downside of taking the pills is that you can gain up to 20 pounds as well... :(

I don't think that periods are meant to be that bad, so seeing a doctor about this is your best bet. They will give you a proper diagnosis that is most likely better than someone telling you how to make your period better on the internet.

I'm sorry I couldn't be of more help, but seeing a doctor is your best bet.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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ive been getting really bad stomach cramps and it burns when i go to the bathroom and it feels like i always have to pee.ive had sex with two different people once each but i know for sure that neither of them have an STD.. could i have one? my period is coming up soon so the cramps could be from it. whats wrong.. please help

Hmm...

#1. First, I'd try drinking lots of water, because that may be the reason that it burns when you pee, unless it really is an STD.

#2. Wait until your period is over, when it is, and if you still have really bad cramps and it still burns when you pee, I'd see a doctor just to be safe. It might be nothing, but than again, it may be something.

I'd get yourself checked out ASAP, because even though your partners didn't have an STD, it doesn't mean that you don't...

If you need anymore help, feel free to ask me. :)

Best Regards,
Mariah

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I'm going to be a freshman, and me and my parents were considering boarding school. I was hust wondering, at boarding school, whats it like? And do all the freshman know each other, or is it like college where kids come from all over? I really need advice on this. Thanksyou.

I've never gone to boarding school, but my dad went to a boarding school for high school.

It's basically sort of like college, somewhat. You stay in a dormitory and get random roommates (which is not always a good thing, because you don't know who you'll end up with...).

Students from all over the world come to boarding schools, because that is the main point of a boarding school; to help foreign or out-of-state students get a better education and increase the school's diversity.

Most people there will not know each other, as not very many students go to school at a boarding school, unless they actually live in or around the city that it is located.

I think that most boarding schools allow you to leave on the weekends to go visit your parents and such, and they also let you leave during in-service days and breaks.

I, however, wouldn't recommend going to a boarding school if you get homesick easily...

If you need anymore help, please feel free to ask me. :)

Best Regards,
Mariah

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so i got this little tin box b/c i thought it was cute and i want to use it for something, like as a place to put spare change or savings. but not that because i already have something like that.
any ideas?

heres a picture so you can get a better idea =]
http://www.electrasol.us/whats_new.html
the one with the little dog on it =]



thanks.

If you have a dog, you could use it to store your pooch's food.

You could also decorate it, embellish it, and whatnot.

You could store jewelry in it.

You could also store candy in it, or use it for Halloween.

You could use it to hold a present for someone's birthday or for Christmas.

You could put little trinkets or little things that you collect in it.

You could store office supplies, like pens, pencils, markers, paperclips, .etc.

You could bake a food item and either store it in there or give it to someone as a gift.

The possibilities are endless... :)

If you need anymore help, please ask me. :D

Best Regards,
Mariah

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why does it freak a guy out when a girl that they've had a secret crush on finally starts to show an interest back and flirts with them, especially if he has no problem flirting with the other ladies?

It's most likely because he feels insecure about himself and he doesn't feel very confident. As in maybe he's still unsure that you actually like him. He probably also feels uneasy because he may not be ready for a relationship, and he's surprised that someone actually wants to have a relationship with him, so he's scared.

I would ask him if he wants to become friends. This way, he can learn more about you, and then maybe if all things work out and he sees the real you, he'll warm up to you and ask you out or so, "Yes" if you ask him out.

If you need anymore help, just ask! :D

Best Regards,
Mariah

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I know how girls flirt, like eye contact touching laughing etc....
But what do guys do or are supposed to do to flirt with girlss

1) Lock Eyes

Lock eyes with the person you're flirting with for a full five to six seconds, then smile and drop your gaze. Don't stare a hole through the guy's forehead for goodness sake, just give him a smoldering come-hither look and look away. Do this at least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute period.

2) Smile

Smiling is absolutely the most effective tool in your flirting toolbox. Not a giant plastic used car salesman smile, just your normal "I'm having a great time and I'm happy to be here" face will do the trick. Make your move, head on over and start up a conversation. If you don't, somebody else will.

3) Be a Vampire's Best Friend

One of the most winning flirting techniques a man can use is the exposure of his neck. The over-the-shoulder move is extra-effective because it's sexy and it sends a signal to your target that they are worth a second look.

4) Preen Like A Peacock

Try combining a grooming gesture with a smile and a gaze. Another trick? Toss your hair to one side. This classic move is a double whammy that combines preening and a flash of neck. Need we say more?

5) Lip Service

Both men and women are subconsciously attracted to red, moist lips because they signal youth, sex and fertility. How to make the most of it? Try licking your lips (subtlety is key here, you don't want to look like you're trying out for a porno flick.) or biting your lower lip - both are extremely effective flirting behaviors.

6) Square Your Shoulders (Men)

Women are attracted to more dominant men, so stand tall with your shoulders back. Feel free to take up some space. Try wearing bulkier or more conservative hairstyles or clothing, hold your head up, and speed up your speech and gestures to be more assertive.

8) Let Your Feet Do The Talking

You want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. Appearing more dominant effectively draws female attention. To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches apart, and your toes pointing outward.

9) Be a Mimic

People mirror each other's body language when they are attracted with similar gestures, voice volume, etc. Try subtly mimicking your flirting target's behavior. If she leans forward, you lean forward. If he scratches his head, you scratch your head.

10) Focus, Focus, Focus.

Once you and your flirting target have started talking, use these tips to deepen the attraction. First, smile and maintain eye contact as they are speaking, and focus all of your attention on what they are saying. There is rarely anyone more attractive than someone who finds you utterly fascinating. Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you're listening to what the other person has to say.

How to tell if a woman is flirting with you? Look for the signs above, especially extended eye contact, low-level touching and laughing.

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Alright.There's this guy.And I love him so much.But he's unfourtantly 4 years older than me..and I'm only 13.So that is really really bad.But I just sort of fell for him.I know for a fact he doesn't like me at all..but what do I do? I mean I talk to him all the time..and I asked him out once..but he said no because of..something.And so yeah.
Help please =//

UPDATED ANSWER:

Hmm... That doesn't really change anything, however, you should ask him how he feels about you , as in if he likes you as more than a friend. I know this may seem like a longer leap than you can probably take, but think of it this way. If you don't ask him, what happens when he gets into a meaningful relationship with someone else, and you then find out that he actually liked you?

You're better off knowing that he doesn't like you, than you are not knowing whether or not he does.

If you need anymore help, feel free to ask me at anytime. :)

Eeek. I wouldn't get mixed up in a matter like this. Do understand that guys that are older picture a relationship differently, which usually means that they are more physical and expect more chemistry than does a 13 year old guy.

I'd say try your best to forget about him, because if he has said, "No", then that usually means that he doesn't like you in that way; older guys are pretty straight-forward...

I also wouldn't get involved with him, because once he turns 18, your chances are over and done with because it'll be illegal since you are a minor.

Just ask him if he wants to be friends. Being friends is better than going out with someone at your age, because, from past experience, middle school relationship just don't work out very much.

If you need any more help, just ask. :)

Best Regards,
Mariah

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i have a blog on LonelyMind.com and i have no idea how to edit it?add to it !
help!

I am not really sure; I just made a blog on there as well to try to help answer your question, but I find no way to edit it.

I would stick to www.blogger.com if I were you... It's a lot easier, and you can actually edit your blog.

However, if you insist on having a blog on that website, contact the website admin and ask them how to edit your blog.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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okay this kid named David called me fat. And he wouldnt drop it and he told me i should buy a tredmill and dumb stuff like that, i know im fat but i donno i didnt think it was that big of a deal.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=41915905
thats my myspace and i was wonderingif i really am as ugly as he says.. be truthful please..:(

I could help you out, but there's no picture. :(

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does out universe expand forever? or does it like.. end? im really interested in that stuff even though im only 13 so i dont understand alot about or solar system. what are some jobs other than astronomer i can do when im older too? or do astronomers get paid alot? i want a job relating to the solar system that gets paid well when im older. cause i have no clue what i want to be when lots of kids already know.. also yeah with my first question.. also whats the deal with black holes? so when you go in.. instant death? or you get transported to a different time or something? i wish we humans could know more.. and like whats a space time continuim(sp?) and do you believ in aliens and are there any clues to there being aliens or some kind of other organisms on other planets? THANKS! :)

The universe is thought to expand forever, but we may never reach the "end" of the universe during our lifetime at least. There is a theory that galaxies and such expand and keep on expanding over time, and someday they are thought to "explode" because of the size of the galaxy being to massive and taking up too much room in our universe. It is thought, however, that we won't have to worry about this happening for billions of years.

For the astronomy jobs: Astronomers get paid about $100,000 a year. Astronomers are among the highest paid professionals, but they are also among the rarest: there are only about 800 astronomers in the entire United States. Astronomers are expected to get doctoral degrees in astronomy or astrophysics, and have a great knowledge of math, physics, and computers. Most astronomers work for NASA. Lots of colleges and universities offer courses on astronomy as well, so finding a school would be fairly easy.

A black hole is an object with a very powerful gravitational field. The region surrounding it, including itself, becomes cut off from the rest of the universe. How it works is the black hole basically "converts" any matter that goes into the black hole into nothing.

A spacetime continuum is used to describe the space and time in space by using a coordinate system. Spacetime is in 3D, while time is in 4D.

I don't think that aliens are real, because they would have most likely found some form of skeletal remains on a planet. However, evidence of water at one time has been found on several planets, I believe. But then again, I believe that there is an explanation for everything, but some explanations are still undiscovered. :)

Best Regards,
Mariah

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okay i'm very responsible and love kids so i started putting flyers in peoles mailbox's that have kids i did it 6 times and only 1 person responded and they havent called once so how can i get more costomers?

Never put flyers inside of people's mailboxes because it is illegal. I would advise putting them in their newspaper holders instead.

Also, I wouldn't advise posting flyers or handing them out to strangers, because some strange weirdo that doesn't have any kids could call you and you could be in serious trouble.

I pass them out to people that you know, like friends, neighbors, relatives, your parents' co-workers, .etc.

The best and most-trusted form of advertisement is word-of-mouth. But, hear this, customers are 3 times more likely to tell other people about a bad service than a good service. So make sure that you offer a great babysitting service and try not to make a customer mad, because it will come back to haunt you the day that you have no customers because they told everyone that you were a bad babysitter...

I'd also buy some business card magnets at an office store or at Wal-Mart and make some business cards to put on the magnets to hand them out to people that you know. This way, parents will always no who to call when your business card is a magnet on their fridge...

Best Regards,
Mariah

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Sombody asked me to babysit for her son on next monday,tuesday,wendnesday for $15 each day but my aunt wants me to go with her to wisconsin dells those days should i stay or should i go?

It depends on how many hours you have to babysit each day. If you have to babysit for more than 3 hours each day, then it's not worth it because that would be around $5 per hour.

To me, $15 a day sounds fairy cheap, so I would go to the Wisconsin Dells if I were you.

If you decide not to babysit, politely tell the person that you had previously made plans to go on a trip with your aunt, and you would be glad to refer them to a trusted friend, neighbor, or relative of yours that babysits.

It's always nice to refer a trusted friend, neighbor, or relative that you know and trust to take over for you if you are ever unable to babysit for someone. It shows that you are still reponsible, and you don't leave the customer hanging so that they have to cancel their plans.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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is it possible to lose weight in your face? if so, how?

Unfortunately, no.

It is impossible to lose weight in a specific area of the body. When you lose weight, the area of your body that it is lost in is random. Usually when you lose weight, the loss of weight is evened out throughout the body, based on how many calories and such you have burned.

I would try exercising normally and eating healthy, and you should be able to lose weight throughout your entire body, including in your face.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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Ohhhh gosh. I don't know what to do! I've had my iPod Video for the past 1 and a half. And it has been driving me NUTS after like 7 months. It has been running out of battery the day that I charge it. It sometimes froze, and un-froze only like 2 days after. I never dropped it or anything. And now.....the battery runs for like less than 4 hours, after one full charge. I am so serious...And the video part. It wastes my battery RIGHT AWAY! It has a memory of 30 GB and I only used 5 GB!

Would it be an iditotic thing to do...to buy a new iPod? Can anyone give me suggestions of a better mp3 player?

Thanks =]

The best thing that I could suggest to un-freeze your iPod is to connect it to your computer; that should do the trick.

As for the battery problems, I would contact Apple iPod Support by going here: http://www.apple.com/support/ipod/

They should be able to tell you whether or not your warranty will cover it, or if it would be of more help just to buy a new iPod.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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