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What I Look Like.
okay this kid named David called me fat. And he wouldnt drop it and he told me i should buy a tredmill and dumb stuff like that, i know im fat but i donno i didnt think it was that big of a deal.
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thats my myspace and i was wonderingif i really am as ugly as he says.. be truthful please..:(
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It is generally not a good idea to link pictures of yourself in an anonymous forum.
I know you have self confidence issues, but you should not be looking to us to solve them.
You are providing anyone who reads these a window into your personal life. Its not a good idea.
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Okay look. I have a friend named Lindsey and shes's in the same thing you are. first of all who ever this "David" guy is, stay away from jerks like that, theres going to be people in your life that you have to deal with one way or another so deal with him first and anyone else who makes those remarks. you don't have to do anything physicall. there must be some reason why he would say that. you should come up with comebacks to his jokes. you could give him a nick name or talk about something he doesnt like about himself and make fun of it? but if you dont want to hurt his feelings just comepletely shut him up and shut him down from you. hes just trying to make your self-esteem go down. and you defidently don't need that. sorry if this is long but oh well. also you aren't ugly mmk? everyone on this earth has something they dont like about themselves, i think uglyness doesn't seriously exsit, its just flaws. and i have flaws to,and so does david, everyone does. so do what you want to do and think of things that will help you through your life. :]]
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tell him that you'll rip the stick out of his ass and beat him with it.
i hate people who make stupid comments.
tell him to go shove his conceited head up his ass.
sorry for all the language..but yeah you look fine don't let people get to you like that.
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girl you are GORGEOUS! not ugly at all!! dont even listen to what that kid says hes just insecure about himself! never let anything negative that someone says bring you down What you think of yourself is the OnLY opinion that matters!
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you need to go punch david in the face. the only reason anybody feels a need to tell other people things like that is because they are insecure about themselves. you are gorgeous. the only reason you would need to buy a treadmill is if you just had some strange longing for a treadmill. don't listen to whatever people tell you about your body because the only person that should be concerned about your body is you. and if other people take time out of their lives to tell you mean stuff like that, they desperately need to find a hobby.
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The huge sunglasses in your profile picture at the link you gave makes it difficult to tell what you look like period. I'm just being honest.
As I scrolled down I saw another photograph of you. Tell this inconsiderate lout to get his eyes checked. You're beautiful inside and out. Besides, people can look like models and celebs on the outside but be coldhearted and awful people on the inside. If you have inner beauty plus outtr beauty you have it made.
This guys just being a jerk and trying to get a rise out of you. Don't let his comments bother you as they're not valid. Interestingly enough, guys and girls say these things to eachother and spar back and forth and it usually turns out all they wanted was your attention negative or good because they had an interest in you.
He could also being saying it to bother you because you're a better student than he is, have talents he wish he had and or are well liked and he isn't. It's no big deal at all and just consider the source of the comments.
Brush it off and go on about your business. When he sees he cannot bother you no matter what he says he'll move on. You can also use humor if he says it again something like "I wouldn't talk it looks like you need a personal trainer yourself." If they see you have a sense of humor and nothing bugs you they'll stop or will laugh and approach you in a civil way in the future.
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Tell him he should buy a better attitude.
I hate people who make fun of others over body image. It's none of their business what you look like and how you control your body. If they want to critque somebody, it should be themselves. You're fine. Don't let iggnorant people bring you down. As long as you're happy, then you shouldn't let anything/anyone bring you down!
Hope it helps beautiful =]
<3 Laura.
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I could help you out, but there's no picture. :(
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