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15/f
boyfriend and i been together 2 years.
love him DONT JUDGE OUR AGE. K THANKS =]
first time i was unprotected;
like two weeks ago and he did NOT cum inside me
he didn't even cum; i made him get out.
[he lost his virginity to me; && has been tested like i many times]
since last week or so, when i pee
light colored blood comes out; its NOT my period.
i also have to pee alot more too.
sometimes it hurts to pee.
what is this?
i cant ask my mom about this either.
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It doesn't always have to do with sex. As one who has worked in the medical field, I can tell you that they are NOT going to assume you are sexually active.
I checked Cherry's source because couldn't believe it would have said that. Here is what was written under causes....
Notice it says "MAY" occur.
"Cystitis may occur in women after sexual intercourse. But even girls and women who aren't sexually active are susceptible to lower urinary tract infections because the anus is so close to the female urethra. Most cases of cystitis are caused by Escherichia coli (E. coli), a species of bacteria commonly found in the gastrointestinal tract."
Note: Sometimes cystitis and urethritis are referred to collectively as a lower urinary tract infection, or UTI.
You need to see a doctor. Don't rely on over the counter medications. They cost a lot of money and very rarely work. Even when they do it will usually reoccur. UTIs are very common in women of all ages, and even very young girls. It is nothing to worry about if treated. All you have to do is pee in a cup, it does not require a physical exam or anything. :)
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So I have been very good about taking my pill, and i had sex the other day for the first time in a long time, and my bf cummed in me. I'm on the blue pills with about 5 left and i got my period, but i seems to have gone away already in one day..is this bad? Could i be pregnant? (link)
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Probably not pregnant. Periods can do some weird things now and then. You may or may not start again in a couple of days. Either way, don't worry about it. I think you are fine. :)
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thanks for the advice dear...vil refer d sites but plz lemme knw if u can help me out with some ebooks...want 2 hav a life (link)
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I have been looking for hours and all the "free ebooks" wind up costing something before its over with!
You really don't need a book. Just be yourself.
If you like someone get to know them a little by being friendly and treating them nicely, then just ask them for a date.
Will you get turned down now and then? Ya probably. Just get back out there and try again. You will eventually find someone just right for you!
So do your best not to be nervous. Everyone gets rejected now and then. It doesn't mean you are
a horrible person or anything! Just means she missed out. But you have to try and keep trying.
Good luck. Hope to hear you have found someone special soon! :)
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if you eat too many skittles...like eat them everyday all the time could something bad happen to you? like in the future or something (link)
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Boy I hope not! I love those things.
I suppose if you ate a giant bag of them everyday you would get fat. Other than that I don't think they are any worse than all the other things in the world that aren't vegetables. :)
MMM, skittles!
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This is really confusing. End of September i started my birth control. The week of the last pills(the iron pills) i was spotting a bit for 2-3 days (thats how long i usually get my period) , so i figured i had my period and started the new pack the following sunday. that wednesday i started bleeding (the 24th of october) and i ams till bleeding today (november 4th) i am confused because i dont know if this is my period, i should have it, i should actually be getting it this week. i called my doctor and she said my body wll take 3 mnths to get used to it. but i am confused, do i continue to take the iron pills even if i do not have my period? help! (link)
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The last week of pills are nothing. They are placebos given so you stay in the habit of taking your pills everyday. If you miss one, or forget to take one all together, it will have no effect on your period or the effectiveness of your birth control at all.
Follow your doctors instructions and believe what she tells you about your periods. She is the expert! :)
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Hi, I am visiting my boyfriend in 2 months and i have recently been taking the birth control pill Lutera. I was wondering if it is okay to stop taking the pill after my first pack is gone, and waiting a week or so to start taking it again. The reason i'm doing this is because the pills in the last week of the pack do not contain hormones, so when I see him i would be on those, and I'd have my period. So if i dont start my second pack for a week, I wont have my period when i see him.
is this okay? (link)
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Don't mess around with your pill taking. To be 99%
effective you have to follow the instructions to the letter. With luck you won't start until after you see him. If you do, you're still protected. THAT is
the main thing. Please do not play around with your pills. :)
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ok, i have a bf. but he never tlks 2 me. then this other guy came... i guess i fell in luv with him. and i luv him more than my bf!! the new guy always tlks 2 me, flirts with me, and all of that junk, u kno. but my bf doesnt. i dont wanna break up with my bf cause i dont wanna go breaking anyones heart... WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE!?!?!?! pls help me!! (link)
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You aren't going to break anyones heart.
Unless this guy actually takes you to movies
or to dinner, you just have a hallway romance.
Go for the other guy, the one you have now probably won't even notice & if he does whats he gonna do?
Not talk to you? No lose. :)
Good luck.
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can someone explain what masturbation is? i've heard many different definitions. (link)
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http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
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Okay basically:
I'm gay. I'm into this guy who is "confused". He has a girlfreind, but has liked a guy before. He always acts like he's flirting with me, and it confuses me so much. His girlfreind knows all about it, we talked it over, and she told me to talk to him about his feelings. I already tried talking to him about it, but I didn't get a straight (or gay, hee hee) answer out of him. I want to get this answer out of him, but I don't know how. I don't really want to flat out ask him, but that would be the best way because I'd get the result I want, but awkwardness after that. AND I have no clue how I'm going to get over this guy. I have so much hope about going out with him, but deep down I want to keep myself grounded... but many people say we'd do good together and that he's actually interested in me. I have no clue what I'm going to do. Oh, and he knows I'm gay and that I like him... (link)
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One thing is for certain. You don't want a confused guy. You want one who is certain. If not you are looking at being hurt in the future.
What I would suggest is waiting. I know it is hard to do, but better he be certain before you jump into a relationship.
If he knows you are interested, (and be sure he does know you are), he knows you are gay, he will approach you if and when he makes up his mind.
I know that you know, some people are just curious,
others are scared. Give him time. You don't want
to start something only to have him change his mind later. :)
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Female
I need tips on how to be a better kisser!
Preferably from guys but girls are welcome too.
I always thought I was good then I got a somewhat mean comment not too long ago.
So any tips, that you know are good, would be great. (link)
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Here is a whole bunch of informative sites for you.
Just click search. :)
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Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)
thanks (link)
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Ah, gotta be the bad guy and say you can only post to one person. Any more than that will get deleted.
So, since you are anonymous to all but a very few
upper level mods, and that is the case even for inbox questions, it is perfectly fine to post it to
the entire group of columnists. :)
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'cause i have one of those blush sticks and i don't wanna put it on, go to school and people be like, "um. what happened to your face?"
so please help.
i've heard when you smile its the part that gets puffy.
but i heard that from my mom, and she's not the best source of makeup advice. (link)
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Moms right. Take a look at this site and it shows you where they are. :)
http://beauty.about.com/od/makeuptrickstips/ht/blush.htm
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you're very good at advice, probably the best advicenator out there
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519717 (link)
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I have to agree with ammo. Didn't answer because he said it all! :)
Drinking has been an excuse used for bad behavior for a long time. I agree with you not wanting her drinking at parties if you aren't around. Talk to her and tell her your fears. :)
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I have a strange problem in approaching women,i always have a negative thought that i would get rejected so i avoid most of the time.Can anybody help me out in refering some ebooks(free download)
Effective ways to flirt with women
How to impress women?
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There are a lot of sites out there that can help you. Not all are ebooks, but the info is certainly free. Here are a couple of searches I think you will find helpful.
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I recently met a wonderful, mature guy in his forties (I'm in my thirties) and we spent a great night together and a long late breakfast the next afternoon in which we told each other quite a lot about our past relationships. I divorced four years ago after a marriage of seven years. This marriage was to my first boyfriend, my first sexual experience, and turned out to be somewhat abusive. I tried to get out of the marriage twice, first by simply telling him I wanted out. I stayed that time because I couldn't handle how much it seemed to hurt him to leave. The second time, I went off to an artists' colony for a month and actually cheated on him, the first time I'd ever done this before or after. I told him immediately and it was the end of our marriage. One of my friends thought the cheating was the only way my husband would have let me go.
So I told the new guy all of this. He had said something about my being mature enough to get out of the marriage or something that I thought wasn't quite right, wasn't quite honest if I agreed, so I told him of the cheating so he'd really know what happened and told him I suffered untold guilt about it for a long time.
Well now I'm wondering if I made a mistake, if my desire for honesty will simply scare him off instead. He took what I said very kindly, seemed to understand, but now I'm worried. Maybe it's just that I'm waiting for that call to see him again that's gotten me so worried. In any case, would you recommend this kind of honesty on my part in the future (on future dates, if this one doesn't work out)? Shouldn't I keep things open? Or am I just shooting myself in the foot.
Thanks,
handwringing (link)
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Bravo! I don't think it will matter in your relationship. I think you just have nerves.
Pick up the phone and give him a call. Even
discuss what you are feeling now with him.
If he is a good man and an honest one, which
is what you want, all will be well. If for some reason it isn't then maybe he isn't right for you
anyway. If it scares him off then I guess in the
future you will just have to use your best judgment.
I think the truth will take you a lot further. :)
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my doctor suggested a centrum..
im not sure if i should eat an extra vitamin b complex pill and stuff
and theres fish oils, etc
so how many "pills" do you take daily and what are they? (link)
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Most people just pop vitamins and supplements without thinking much about it. If your doc says
centrum might do you some good, then follow his/her
instructions on how to take it. If they didn't tell you how then call the office and ask their opinion.
You could also take the recommended dosage on the container.
As for the others, do call and ask the doctor, or nurse in his office about those as well. You can get to much of a good thing too. Be safe and ask. :)
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Just recently I told my boyfriend how I truly
felt, that I wasn't as happy with our relationship like before and he said he felt the same way. Then he went on about how it feels like I don't care about him at school. Also he told me how it seems when I show up to his group in the morning he feels he can't act himself or I'll think he's "fudging weird" and just leave. Which is true because his
group of friends do embarrass me. They are loud, obnoxious, and weird. He can be sometimes too and I get really annoyed. We can't find a solution to our problem and I need help fast! Any ideas to what we should do? We've been dating for 2 months.
we're both juniors in high school. (link)
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You'll have to sit down and discuss it. Sounds like you have and that is good.
The big problem is being himself evidently includes being loud and obnoxious. You will have to accept that part of his personality if you want to stay together. Not being himself is causing HIM embarrassment. Sounds like he is trying, but I'm afraid it isn't making him happy.
Good luck. :)
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Does anyone know how to get rid of the smell of smoke from items such as clothing? but not with perfume and stuff so people know you are?
because my friends smoke, and its their decision but I hang aorund them and i don't smoke. and when I go home and my parents smell my lcothes, they'll think that i smoke when i odn't and i can't change clothes because they'll remember what i wore before i left (link)
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It doesn't matter where they smoke, your clothes
and hair will still smell like it to others who haven't been around it.
The best way to keep out of trouble would be to
tell your folks you have friends who smoke. Tell
them you don't agree with it, but they are still your friends. That should keep you out of trouble
without feeling you are trying to hide something,
Because nothing covers the smell. I am a smoker
and know that for sure! :)
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I have been married for 5 years, and for the past 10 months have been having an affair with a man from work. I love my husband, but I know that if I tell him the truth, we will be over. My husband is very good to me. The affair is now over. I have been feeling guilty and depressed, and I don't know if I should tell my husband. I also think there is a possibility that I might do this again, and I can't explain why. What should I do? Tell him, and try to move on, or move on myself, and try to spare our relationship? (link)
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Do you want to save your marriage? If so, then I think you need to try and figure out just what it is
that made you stray. Then you need to discuss the problems with your husband and try your best to solve them.
If you want to save your marriage I'm not so sure you tell him about the affair. I am torn on this. I don't believe that couples should keep things from each other. So from this day forward, if you decide to keep quiet, talk to him and not some other guy.
I am torn about this because telling him just eases YOUR conscious and makes YOU feel better. It can potentially destroy his entire life. I don't think you punish someone else to make yourself feel better. Not to be mean, but you should feel bad. If you didn't I would be worried about you.
It is over, it is done, you are going to feel guilty for awhile but you need to concentrate on
your marriage now if you choose to stick with it.
If you don't think you want to be married anymore,
then you leave him. If you feel you are going to do it again, leave him BEFORE you do it. It is cruel to string someone along.
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Anyone know good ways to releave stress? (link)
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Here is a good search for some sites that will be of help to you. :)
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