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I know it was wrong but i had sex wit my bf...the problem is i did it wit out a condom...he did not cum inside me but im really scared that im preg...its only been like 2-3 weeks since i did that..im so scared and idk what to do..i cant tell ne one well i can just not my family..im waiting for my period to start..it will start the end of this month..someone please help or tell me about preg like the signs and symtoms i really need help on it cuz its scaring me..

you should have used the mornin after pill, but too late

most likely if he didn't cum then u aren't pregnant, but just incase...

wait until your supposed to get ur period
if u don't get it, wait 1 more week
if u still don't have it, then go get a pregnancy test

GL, hope all works well for u! :-)

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I need to get rid of a few pimples over night. Do u know something fast that I can use that wont cost much? HELP YA'LL!!

toothpaste, idk about overnite, and idk how long to keep the toothpaste on, which makes it whereas this question is worthless, maybe a few minutes, im not sure, all i kno is if it's on too long then it could stinf, burn, or leave a white mark o ur face(it has to be the white kind)

or clean n clear
or any acne products!
GL
hope i helped sumwhat!!

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ever since summer started its been problem after problem. i guess its keeping me busy n itz better happening now the during school. but i dk. i break down at night n crym y self 2 sleep its getting bad but im the kinda person that can deal with alot happening but i dont like it. i dont know i think im really confused about wut to do n i need help.

maybe ur depressed or sumthin
is there a lot of stuff happenin in ur life
if u can't handle it, and yall have enuff money, maybe u can see a shrink, or psychologist or however u spell it

maybe it's just depression, and u need medicine
or maybe it's stress
talk to ur mom or dad or gaurdian, and see if u can go to the doctor, or ask them wut they think

GL hope u feel much better, like this :-)!!!

well i would say get a job, but if u have 2 OLDER brothers and 1 of the OLDER brothers is 12, then your not old enuf to work
maybe u can see if sum1 will hire you to babysit, that way u'll have money for clothes and all that

thanks for the good rating :-)

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Well Friday is my boyfriends birthday. We have the house to ourselves for the day...any suggestions on anything romantic we could do ?

i guess it really depends on how old u r

but sum suggestions are.. only do these if age appropriate

sleepin together
cuddling while watchin a movie
making out
have a party
so sumthin that interests u both

if u wouldn't mind leavin the house here are other suggestions, u can always go back to the house and do one of the above

out for a picnic
walk thru the park
to a pool for swimmin (dependin on where u live)
bowling
movies
mall
build a bear!!
ridin around in a car listenin to music
out to eat

not totally awesome
it'd help more if i new your age tho, if u wana rate and leave feedback wit ur age ill edit this to make it age appropriate

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my little brother has a really bad temper... kinda like a baby but he gets mad easily... he's really discusting... things u couldnt emagine... well i dont like touching him its that bad... so when he gets mad... lol. he touches me n like i start fighting with him. when he does stuff like that i alwayz get in trouble instead of him sept 4 1 tyme but thats a whole other story wut do i do my mom already knoz all this but hez her little baby... she says oh u cant do anything that he got 4rom ur dad. wut can i do? i have no clue wut 2 do at all.

my brother is the same exact way, but my brother is 11, he's been like that since 2nd grade

there's this thing called Attention Defficate Hyperactivity Disorder... ADHD, or just ADD Attention Defficate Disorder

well he mite have to be put on sum medication, but it doesn't always work

my brother doesn't even always take it

i hate it because ill watch him throw the pill down the drain, or ill hear him cuss at my parents or sumthin, but they don't believe me

my brother will call my mom and asswhole to her face, and she's like def, she doesn't hear it, im like OMGosh did u not hear that, and she's like NO

I HATE IT, im always embarassed to have ppl over bc of it

Sorry I kinda got off subject, but the same thing is goin on wit me

my brother was at sum grls house past curfew, and no1 new where he was, he got grounded for a day, and went outside that day, all that happened was he got yelled at

me n my sis r out past curfew for 5 minutes, we got grounded for a week, he's 11, were 14 and 15

it's like the baby of the family gets special treatment, it's SO NOT FAIR

try tellin ur mom that he mite have ADHD or ADD
have her take him to the doctor, it could be serious

Hope it helped
sorry for gettin kinda off subject :-)

also, if u have enuf money or if u have 1, either get a video camera, or tape recorder, and w/o him knowin get him caught on tape!!
i've been savin up to do that wit my bro, i can't wait to get him busted, so my 'rents don't blame me :-) ;-)

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i didnt kno wwhat catagory...but ok, i want a ring also, but i have a question.... ok, first of all, how does it feel in the long run, like, does it ever hurt while you have it? and is there anything dangourous about having a belly button ring, or getting it pierced?

if there was anything dangerous, the worst would be an infection, which can hurt, that u means tat u'd have to either clean it more then usual, like 6or7 times nstead 0f 3-5 per day

and with the whole hurting issue, i got more then my opinion, just so im not the only person, cuz u never kno other peoples pain tolerence, but no, well erally it depends where u get it

if u get it at the doctors office, then sum people said that they numb it

but really it's not that bad!! And Rings are safer, or better then like the one's that aren't rings(studs or w.e) thats wut my doctor said!!

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i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips?

yea u have to get used to it, the 1st tyme i buoght a thong, i went the whole day feeling like i had a weggie lol

the trick is, to put it on rite b4 u go to bed (not many ppl where thongs to bed, but i do)

then when u wake up in the mornin, it feels a bit more normal, cuz u wore it 8 hours or so

u mite have to do it a few tymes, but eventually u don't really notice! :-)
Hope this helped!!

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I didn't know wut to put this under so i put it under love life .. buh im gettin my belly button pierced august 11th and im 14 and im still gunna get it cuz like my best friend is in poland . and she comesz bak aug 7th and her b-day is aug 8th and then were gunna go shooppin on august 9th and shes gunna sleep over on the 10th and on the 11th were gettin our belly button's pierced .. im reely scared .. kan someone tell me if it hurtZ?

it stings for a second, then for the next week or so u have to wear hip huggers, so they don't run up into the bellybutton, also the put a bandage over it

it's best if u get it done at a REALLY STERILE place, like my sis got hers at the doctors office, they do it for a low cost

if u wanna kno anything else about the piercing, lemme kno

im not tryin to scare you, but when u see wut they're gunna poke u wit, just Good Luck!!

and im pretty sure it hurt less on top then on bottom, but i haven't had it on both top and bottom

Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hope ur not frightened

and don't worry, after ur allowed to take the bandage off, it looks sexy hehe!! :-)

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HeY ! well im 14 and i weigh 86pOunDz or sumfin liek that .. buh i know its around 80 is that good enuff? im scared that if its not .. then something mite happen . buh u know i eat ALOT !! i just dont gain weight .. and im reeely skinny ;) hehe .. soo yehhh heLp?

xOxox maya xOXx

unless ur under 5 foot then thats REALLY BAD, if ur under 5 foot then it's a lil underweight, but u have a super fast matabolism, or not to scare u, but there's sum disease, where u can eat and eat and eat and not gain ANYTHING, my aunt has.had it

when i was in 4th grade, she was in her 30's and could fit into my clothes which were like 8s in kids

idk if it's just fast mataboism or whatever my aunt had, your best bet is to talk to your mom, and/or see a doctor

i'd ask the aunt about it, but her n my uncle divorced(thank goodness i couldn't stand her) and so technically she isn't my aunt

just consult a doctor!!

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Im babysitting a 4 yr old boy from 7:30am to 4:30pm and i need some ideas of things to do. I dont have a liscense so i cant drive anywhere and i live in maine.

well u can play with games that he has (my 4 yr old nayber LOVES the game trouble) and if theres sumthin like a twister moves...these are things my 4yr old naybers like, idk if they're just mature for their age or wut

but any toys they have that they like, or any movies

make him a fun or cool lookin breakfast, promise him that if he's good, then next tyme he'll get a treat, and next tyme, give him a lil treat!!

if they have a playset in their backyard, or a pet let him play!!

Hope this helps
and hope it's not too late

GL!!

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I have gone through a 14 hour babysitting course at Baylor Hospital, I am certified at the heimlech maneuver and CPR. I think that I am fully qualified to babysit, and my parents say thatt i can. The problem is, I have only had one real job! No one asks me because I am short for my age, therefore I look young but I am very mature. How do I get babysitting jobs?
Signed,
Helpless

after i read the addition info, im gunna answer

well instead of flyers all around, put flyers in mailboxes of people u kno who have kids, if there are kids around u, like if u live on a street full of them, or a cul-de-sac, then hang wit the lil kids (if they're not to annoyin)
the parents will be like, o shes so good wit the kids, thats how me n my sis got r jobs

GL, hope there isn't a sicko out there tryin to get you hehe sry HAD to say that lol im just messin around

How old are you? you sound so mature thats y i made that lil joke up there

and ur question on how much ads cost, like sum abount of cents per word, either a nickel or a dime i think, i had to put an article in the paper b4 (ad) and it cost me about $20-$30

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I met this guy online and I thought that I had a crush on him. He was REALLY nice and everything that he said just made me feel that there was serious relationship potential. However, I just met him in person and he's really shy around me. Sure he might be shy because he has the hotts for me or something else along those lines, but now that we've met in person he won't even talk to me online anymore! Maybe it was because he lied about his height and he discovered that I'm an inch taller than him (and I'm a girl) but shouldn't we still continue a friendship? I just don't understand. Does anyone have any ideas why he won't talk to me at all anymore?

maybe he pictured you differently and isn't impressed? (unless u sent him a pic, and im not tryin to be mean)
or maybe he's embarassed cuz he lied about height
or maybe he thinks u don't wanna be seen wit him, or maybe he doesn't wanna be seen wit u

try to IM him on the internet or sumthin and ask y he isn't talkin to ya, tell him u like him, then he mite not be so shy ne more

again im not tryin to be rude wit any of my answers above, and GL wit the guy hope it all works well 4 ya :-)

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This is a stupid little thing.. but oh wells.

As of now, I'm hungry. I need something to snack on! Any ideas of what I could make for a little midnight snack?

Haha. Thanks!!

i kno this isn't gunna help u, but it could for nextyme
S'MORES YUMMY ;)
or popcorn
or icecream
or any other junk food that will keep u up all nite!!!

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For everybody out there why do you support Bush? If you don't why don't you?

he's against abortion unless it's rape or the mothers life is in danger (my exact views on it)

and he's for the death penalty, which im half n half, cuz u want the people who murdered sum1 brought to justice, but then that means the person that killed them would have to be killed otherwise that wouldn't be fair... just my confuin opinion

plus he's republica, and he's gotten us thru 9/11, and will get us thru that other terrorist attack that will supposedly be happenin sumtime around my birthday (wierd)

Bush rox, we've ben thru lotz wit him already

now kerry is all for killing innocent babies, and letting murderers walk free, hmmm more killers now yall!

kerry is a *BEEP* He Doesn't deserve to run for office

but hey thats just my opinion, and please if u disagree don't rate me a 1!!

also, kerry at one point was fighting against us or sumthin like that, for all we know he'll sell us to sum other country

and, bush has been there for us, i don't support EVERYthing he does, but most of it

we ruined iraq, were helping clean up, the bombed us and now were in war, if we just let the terrorist attacks stand by without doing anything, then more and more will cum, and that just won't be cool!

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my mate has fallen out wiv me and i dont no y.we was at dancing and i went to say hi and she just flipped.i really wanna be mates wiv her.can ne 1 give me advice as to become mates wiv her agen?

talk to her
ask her wut u did
and if u think that u should apologize, then apologize, if she's mad over sumthin stupid, then decide whether u want to apologize or not!!

not much help, but hopefully sum :-)

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okay, well me and my husband got married like almost a year ago. the problem is im ready to have kids, but he says he doesn't want to have kids..ever! i really love him, and we have so much in common and we always have fun together, but this is like the first thing we have disagreed on and i really don't no what to do. please help.

maybe u should wait a year or so, give it tyme

eventually he'll give in, men r suckers lol

but, maybe wen ur 2gether longer, then ur husband will feel different about the idea of havin a family

offer to watch sum1's child while ur husband is home, and show him the joys of havin a baby

if i wasn't so yung, then i'd LOVE a baby, rite now i just stick to babysittin tho hehe

my boyfriend joel said that eventually a man will give in to his woman.. he said wait a while, and maybe when u tell him u want a child, and u want to start to have the child, where sum sexy langerie, and make his fave dniner, do sumthin super romantic

sum men don't want kids, but when they find out their wife is pregnant, then they're all happy

Give it tyme and talk to him! :-)

o and sry this is soo late, u asked this like a week n a half ago!!

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at what age should you get a boyfriend/girlfriend? what if you are interested in girls and you are a girl.....when should you tell someone?

any age when ur a teenager, not yunger then 13 tho, maybe from 13-16, my mom is strict on the whole dating issue, me n joel have been 2gether 4 a while, and idk if she knows were even dating, she's never asked, so i never told

and if ur a lez or bi, then it's perfectly okay, tell people when ir ready, or if u find urself attracted to a girl, tell sum1

if ur friends are your tru friends, then the wouldn't care! :-)

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tHis iS fOr tHe gUyS oUt tHeRe....iS iT oK fOr a GirL tO aSk a gUy oUt?

i kno u said this is for guys, but im answerin anyways
and if u rate me, please don't rate 1 just because im a girl

well anyways, it's totally ok, and just to make sure, i asked about five of my guy friends, and i was actually the one that asked my boyfriend joel out, he was too shy to ask me out, and i heard he liked me so i asked him, and we've been goin 2gether for a while now!!

perfectly normal!! :-)
Hope This Helps, GL wit the guy!!

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okay, there are like 4 people on this site pretendin to be alicia, i was wonderin who was the real one, cuz i wanted to ask her a question on sum1 she knows, but i wasn't sure which one was the real alicia, and i can't sk a fake cuz they wouldn't know the person!!!

ADMINISTRATION please don't delete this, i need to kno so i can ask another question!!!!!!!!!

BarbieGurl111111

i think, i hope thats her
if not WILL THE REAL alicia please lemme know it's u

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hi, um to answer your question, im 13, hes 13. and by creative, i guess i mean, romantic. something unusual. hope you can help.

oooo ok, well then idk if my previous answer was good, leave feedback or sumthin (i haven't checked if u already have)
and ill edit that answer

:-)

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