Ruperts_gurl answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 12:19 pm: you can start dating i guess in 6th grade i dunno it depends ... thats when i started dating ... and it doesn't matter if you like gurls and you are a gurl i mean my sister likes gurls ... i personally don't but i mean you could like who ever you want it'll be hard for a bit but if you stick by what you like go for it
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accolade answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:46 am: if you think yoiu might be a lesbian, you ahould only tell someone if you're ready. lots of people who are homosexual are freaked out of what others will say when they find out... so i'd have to say, don't tell anyone till youu know you won't care what they do when they find out. otherwise they might really hurt your self esteem without ever knowing.
as for the boyfriend/girlfriend thing, it's your choice. i mean, i wouldn't suggest it till you're in like, 7th grade or something, then you and your gf/bf can actually go out and do stuff, as opposed to just having the title of "and item" at school or whatever, but again, it's your choice. my sister's going into college this year and she's only dated once (but then all her best friends are guys anyways...).
~accolade~
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LaCrAzY4501 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:33 am: Hey!! Well... many parents have an age limit when you can go on dates! well some of my friends started being "bf/gf" in 5th & 6th grade! they never went anywhere special... but they knew they liked each other. But as you get older... you will know when your ready! there shouldn't be a certain age... because right now if i just said that you should get one when your 17, then if you couldn't find someone... you would feel forced to finding that special someone! it shouldn't be forced like that. take your time and do what you think is right for you!
If you are homosexual, you may feel alone and not wanted! It is never wrong to feel an attraction to the same sex. You can chose when you should tell someone. but you should know, that when you tell someone, they may become shocked and go into a stage where they are "sickened" and do not want to be your friend anymore! don't be afraid. it should never leave you friendless!
QTPNic answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:27 am: If you are a girl and you think that you like girls, then do a little experiment and do something with a girl that is willing too..if you hate it then you don't or if you love it then you do. But if you like to do stuff with guys and girls thats okay too..try it with both..i think that you should start to care for guys when you get into about 7th or 8th grade but before that you can have a little puppy love. [ QTPNic's advice column | Ask QTPNic A Question ]
lilangelshan08 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 10:27 am: there's no real age to start dating someone, you're the only one who can know when you're ready to start looking for someone that you want to be with. and if you are a girl and you like another girl, that's ok there's nothing wrong with you or anyone else who feels that way it's healthy and fine. just as long as you are happy with yourself you have nothing to worry about don't listen to anything negative you might here from anyone, it's your life, it's your business. good luck with everything
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S_C answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 10:13 am: any age when ur a teenager, not yunger then 13 tho, maybe from 13-16, my mom is strict on the whole dating issue, me n joel have been 2gether 4 a while, and idk if she knows were even dating, she's never asked, so i never told
and if ur a lez or bi, then it's perfectly okay, tell people when ir ready, or if u find urself attracted to a girl, tell sum1
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:27 am: There's really no set age for when you're ready to start dating.I think you'll just know it in your heart and in your mind when you feel ready to handle a relationship,and all that comes with it.You'll know inside when it feels right,and when it's time.As far as your sexuality,you should definetely speak to a parent,an aunt or uncle,a neighbor,anyone who you know you can trust and confide in,and who will support you all the way.Remember there's no reason to ever apologize or feel ashamed of who you are.If people can't accept that,then that's their problem,not yours.I think you should definetely speak to someone about it as soon as possible.It's always great to have a strong support system around you no matter what.And holding all those feelings inside is never good!Best of luck,and if you ever need someone to talk to,just leave me a note in my inbox and we can exchange S/N's!! Take care! :) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
GC_rox_my_sox answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:20 am: For a good relationship that will last a while, I would say 14 or 15. Most people are mature enough to balance school, friends, and a relationship by then. Don't rush it.
If you are a girl and you like girls, I wouldn't tell anyone until you are absolutely sure. Most people get a crush on someone the same sex as them at some point in their life, even if they are straight. If you find yourself being attracted to only girls for 6 months to a year, then you should probably tell someone. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
randomdude answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:11 am: you should get a boy/girlfriend whenever ur ready and itz ok to be interested in girls too u should just tell them the way u feel
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Sagittarius03 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 8:53 am: i think that at any age, you are ready for new experiences. if you like someone, dont keep it inside. tell the person about it. if you like someone of the same sex (girl/girl....guy/guy) then you should wait a little or a long while till you are ready to make that choice. people might not accept you for who you are now, but if you make that decision, they probably wouldnt accept you then. "COMING OUT" is a big part of someones life b/c its declaring your sexuality, gay/straight. as a person myself, i love boys, especially my boyfriend Brandon, but if you like boys, and you are a boy, or if you like girls and are a girl, then wait a while to tell somebody. give yourself time to find yourself, your TRUE identity, who you want to be for the rest of your life. hope i helped! -PA [ Sagittarius03's advice column | Ask Sagittarius03 A Question ]
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