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first off, has anyone ever heard of molly's plant food? if you haven't, its a legal form of ecstasy. was for a little bit, anyways. now its banned, but there have been many knock-offs produced around where i live.
i first heard of molly's plant food about 3 months ago, tried it for the first time about 2 months ago. obviously, i loved it. at first, i did it occasionally. like at my prom, sometimes at a friend's house, etc. now i've gotten to where i take it once, sometimes twice a week. and when i'm not on it, i'm CRAVING it like a motherfucker. the thing about mdma is that it drains your brain of suppressed seratonin and flushes it all out, so you're deliriously happy for a few hours. after that, you get kinda depressed or apathetic. after every weekend of fun-filled rolling, i get angry, emotional, apathetic, and it just seems like i'm not happy anymore unless i'm rolling. and i definitely can't stop. i'm on too much of a routine to stop. i don't know what to do, my weight is dropping from not eating on weekends, my sleep patterns are off, and my moods are becoming borderlined suicidal. what do i do? 18/f
This is precisely why I don't do ecstasy anymore. That feeling is just too good to give up, which is why I only did it a few times. And while I never became addicted to it, I completely understand how you can crave that feeling.
And I think we both know it's beyond "taking your mind off it" or "eating a peppermint." Like everyone else said, if you're rolling that frequently (your come downs most totally obliterate you at this point) you really are going to need some professional help. Talk to your doctor and get directed to some sort of rehab program.
My girlfriend is excited because het favorire actor has a new movie and she wants to go see it but I'm worried because she cries everytime she watches hs movies. What can I do to comfort her down if she starts crying ?
Hopefully she'll become dehydrated and just pass out.
So I met and started dating this really sweet boy in January, shortly after getting out of a long, complicated and personally detrimental relationship with an older man. I am 20 years old, this new boy is also 20. I have had more fun with him than i think I've ever had in my life. Hes a sweet, caring, genuinely nice boy and I can say I've fallen in love with him. I have been super happy except recently I've started noticing things that kind of upset me.
For one, we are out of that "honeymoon" phase where he thinks about and puts me first and calls me sweet names all the time. He used to say I was perfect, call me princess and precious, etc Now its just babe or love and honestly I understand that this happens and its not a big deal, but it would be nice if every once in a while he would still call me sweet names and text me nice things. I dont think that would be too much to ask for. I kind of feel like the "new" feel of the relationship has worn of, sort of like a little kid with a new toy. They're super excited about it for a few weeks and then they're not.
Another thing that is bothering me is something I found out about him a while back but I didn't think it was a problem. He told me, reluctantly, that when he was younger he used to have an anger problem. That as a kid he was always angry at his parents and he didn't understand why. He said it was bad when he was a teenager and he would yell and them and get upset over everything, and now he said he's learned to control it a lot so it doesn't show, but it still happens to him sometimes. He told me "if you ever see me get quiet or unenthusiastic about something, or answer in short sentences just know it has nothing to do with you, I'm just upset" And i told him good, because i had noticed him be like that and thought it was my fault and he got super sad and sad nooo baby, don't ever think it's your fault i dont want anything to make you feel like what we have isn't real. That was sweet and all, but ever since then I notice him get upset a lot more often which makes me think back also to the fact that were not in the beginning of the relationship and he's not trying to be perfect anymore. And it bothers me because from the very beginning I told him that I'm a very happy person and i thought he was too, but now I see that he gets upset over any small little thing he doesn't like and he gets all quiet and like keeps to himself and it makes me feel bad, I don't know how to handle it like I try to give him his space but it upsets me.
I don't want to talk to him about all of this because I'm not very good at expressing in words to others how i feel and I feel like I would mess up what I'm trying to say. I just feel like things are different now like the way he treated me for the past 4 months is changing and it makes me sad. I even had a dream about it last night that I was with him and a lot of people in my childhood house where i grew up and there was a party but something went wrong and he turned evil and told me he wanted to break up and got everyone at the party against me and tried to steal the house, idk it was a strange dream and honestly a nightmare.
It's also important to note that he's a gentleman in every sense of the word. like hes sweet and gentle and not at all mean, so I don't know why I had that dream or feel sad about the situation. I just basically feel like I'm not as important to him now as I used to be, because it's not like he does anything wrong to me, but he doesn't really do anything special either.
I don't like feeling this way, what can I do or how can I change my mentality about this?
Get over it.
What are the adverse/negative effects on your body from taking LSD. I already researched it and all I could find was that it can mess you up psychologically but couldn't find any physically damaging properties. I need to find this for health class. thank you
From what I've seen, it's not physically damaging. There's a myth that it gets stored in your spinal chord and if you injure your back you can begin tripping again, but I've never seen that verified anywhere.
If you smoke weed after having taken acid weeks later, you can get acid flash backs like you're tripping again. A small amount of people can get flash backs to the acid trip without weed, and the drugs-are-bad crew have turned that into "you can crash your car from an acid flashback and die!" There have been no confirmed deaths from acid.
There is also a very unpleasant metallic taste in the mouth while tripping, and you cannot sleep on acid.
Oh, and an acid trip can last up to ten hours. Which sucks.
would 190mg valium 360 mg codiene, 200mg amitriptline, 200mg lyrica prove fatal with strong alcohol?
Lyrica does have an adverse reaction when combined with opiates. Codeine is an opiate. Combine all that with alcohol; you've got a pretty shitty idea on your hands.
Okii so im 13 years old and female i go to a junior high with my best friend, and shes 15(yes she fluncked 5th grade once) so anyways i dont lyk one of her friends. so lets call me "connie" my best friend "lizette" and her friend "elizabeth". so anyways lizette told elizabeth i dont lyk her, and shes lyk well thats good because i dont lyk her either, i doesnt bother me because well i dont lyk her but my friend is always telling her friend everything i say for example she has a friend "lizeth" and i told lizette that it looked lyk if lizeth had a hicky, well she had to go and tell lizeth, and of coarse i got pissed off, shes always doing this to me.
so what should i tell her so that she stops saying everything i tell her, i alredy confronted her bout it but she wont stop please help
It would be easier to understand if you could choose an extra name that isn't a combination of Lizette and Elizabeth.
If you have a z fetish, I suggest Suzy.
I really like this girl, but she doesn't like me. She likes one of my best friends.And were graduating soon ,but she's going to a different school from me and i won't be able to see her anymore. I only have until June 10 left. Should I just give up liking her? Please help!
Yes.
Hello.
I am 13 years old & i have lomg blonde hair & blue eyes. I need an emo-ish nickname for the sitemodel group Im apllying for on facebook. I can think of anything!! My name is Taylor Elizabeth. & I would really like a name including "kitty". but its fine without it. Any suggestions? Please && thank you!
Executed Kitty with Black Diamond Tears.
hello, i am a communist. i am a registered member of the communist party of the usa. I have been a communist for about 3 years. and i have only recently getting active in spreading my views on politics, and other issues. so is there any advice i could get, that would make my point sound convincing.
No.
is it bad to push your other friends away when you have one main friend?
Only if you want to be a bitch.
Im 17/male
I've been seeing this girl for the past few months
and all of a sudden, overnight, she transformed.
Why is this? HELP
You're dating Optimus Prime?
Theres this one spoiled biznatch in my class who text all the time, and she looks lilke miss queen B when she is texting, and it bothers me.
What do i do
Get over it.
13/f
ok i have a guy friend and he is soo nice to me.his name is austin and he just broke up with his girlfriend lilly. and lilly she is KINDA my friend. so i was on facebook and austin was on too so we started to chat and he asked me if i wanted to go out with him. and i didnt respond because one of my best friends,nicole likes austin alot. and once i told her she said"no no no no no no NO!!" sccreaming at me. so back with lilly. if i go out with austin she might think im a slut because IM the one who was saying when HE broke up with HER that"youre way too good for him" and other things to keep her happy.
so what should i do?
go out with him or not?
-darkangel31
No.
I'm getting a laptop soon for college. Im probably going to buy a refurbished one. That's ok right...? Like from overstock.com? I'm just going to use it for homework and maybe playing a few games on it.
So what is the best brands? How much memory or whatever it's called do I need? What is ghz? How much of that?
I'm really bad with technology ha
My primary piece of advice to you is designed to undercut the sub-par advice you will likely receive after this;
Do not buy a Mac.
I'm 21, male. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend (of seven years) a month ago. I have recently found out that my she just had a miscarriage at five months of pregnancy. In fact, she told me that she was a victim of rape, and that she did not know what happened to her(drink was spiked.)
I only found this out because she had her miscarriage - all this time, she kept this from me, while we were dating, because she felt it would be best for us. She intended to bring the child to term (does not believe in abortion) and has been having a very difficult time dealing with her miscarriage. Out of embarrassment, trying to find a new life and be fair to this child, she chose to move away to a different part of the country, hence why I have not seen her in over six months. She grew attached to the child, already knew it was going to be a boy, with the help of a friend had found a job and a place to stay.
I already broke up with her about a month ago. I felt that I was no longer a part of her life, and that it would be for the best for both of us. Of course, I had no idea that any of this even happened to her. I was led to believe her choice to move away was to fulfill academic commitments. When I last spoke to her before she informed me, I said I did not want to maintain contact.
I was raised to believe in forgiving others. I know that if I decide to maintain contact with her, I need to be clear and let her know what I expect. How should I feel about this? On one hand, it seems she has all the support she needs to get through a pregnancy, let alone living life in another part of the world - she no longer needs me, and I would be foolish to accept what she did to me. On the other, I understand that victims of domestic violence, and even rape, suffer so much emotionally, physically, and mentally - she seems to have had good intentions.
Yet, I feel betrayed: she put this child before me. She pointed out how she lost me to try and keep the child, but now has lost this child. I know its ultimately my call, but I really do need some sense of direction on this one. Thanks.
Your logic is strange. You broke up with her a month ago. Why are you even thinking about maintaining contact with her at this point? You both need to get your acts together first; you spent seven years together as a mutual crutch, and now it's time to move on.
This rape/miscarriage business is completely bizarre, and sounds at least a little fishy. It's unfortunate, but you broke up with this girl before you knew about any of this. I don't think these extremely suspect events should impact your decision.
I'm 19 years old and currently a highschool senior (no I'm not a super
senior), but the man I'm totally head over heels in love with is 39. I met him
my freshman year because he happened to be my busdriver. Do you think thats weird? And from the
first day I saw him I always thought he was cute but nothing
more than that. There was no actual feelings but by the end of freshman
year I felt something builiding there kinda like a crush. I wanted to
talk to him more than just saying hi and bye everday, but didn't know how
to. That summer I found myself thinking about him a lot. I think i grew to be
infactuated by him. And sophmore year
came around but nothing changed just kept admiring him more wishing
for him to talk to me- and I think that's when I was starting to like him more
than a crush. I'd be thinking of him at home on weekends, when I was out
with my friends, and even in class waiting for the bell to ring just so I can be
on the bus with him. No matter how busy i kept myself he managed to be
on my mind all day and all night long. The summer after sophmore year the
same feelinggs continued but I never told anyone cause I didn't know how
to and was kinda embarrassed. It wasn't until junior year that one day this bus
driver just started talking to me. I remember I got up to throw something away
and he was like nice shot and I
was like thanks! And he was like I think you should go out for the ladys
basketball team and we just started talking from there. THAT DAY WAS
THE BEST EVER AND WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN! WHY? well because
its the guy i was totally in love with that said it..who also likes basketball.
He picked me to talk to out of every girl on that bussss!!! meee! It went from
talking a couple times a week to everyday. And I was starrting to like likee
him moree! LIKE ALOTT :)) He was so sweet and intresting and diffreent
and charming, and kind, and smart even if he didnt go to college, AND
THATS WHEN I WAS SO IN LOVE WITH HIS PERSONALITY I BEGAN
TO THINK HE WAS THE SEXIEST MAN ALIVE AND THATS WHEN I
GAVE HIM THE COMPLIMENTS I DID, AND HE GAVE ME THEM AT TIMES TOO! I HOPE HE BELIEVED THEM PeoPLe
THINK HES NOT CUTE!
then all the other guys I know. I still told nobody bout my feeling and that
summer just because I liked him so much I made a goal to work out even
if I already was skinny just so he“d be impressed by my body when senior
year would start up and he did notice. I thought A LOT about him that
summer even if I kept myself busy with vacations and friends! That summer
was the hardest to go through without seeing him Senior year came and I
got closer with this bus driver I shared by personal life with him and
so did he. WE HAD SO MANY ALIKE INTERESTs (we liked the same sports, movies, tv shows-all ten shows we both watched, values, i dont know we just were really alike. AND HE MADE ME
FEEL SPECIAL IN SOMEWAY> HE WOULD CALL ME SWEETIE AND
SWEETHEART BUT NOBODY ELSE THAT I reallly reallly realllly knew
that this is the man I wanted to be with! But that's when I found out he had
a fiance and so I stopped talking to him but then he started talking to me
and I think
he noticed hw I suddenly stopped talking to him after he told me about the
fiance! I think I kinda made it akward but he just started talking to me again
even if i didnt make the effort to talk to him. I dont know if he knew I liked him..I'm
sure he didn't! THERS NOT WEDDING DATE THOUGH HE SAID THERe
JUST GNNA STAY ENGAGED! But I was dying to tell him, I invited him to
cme to my powderpuff football game and watch me play! He said he would
of if I asked earlier! And I wish I did. But a couple months ago my bus driver
got fired for not doing a child check. I'm so sadd! I couldn't stop crying and I still cry and it hurts so so much! He
never even said goodbye to me, thers a lot I still wanted to tell him,
talking to him made me feel so happy when I was having a down day. I
wanna talk to him but I dnt knw what to dooo! - I needa to see his
face and hear his voice. Please dont judge I have feelings for my
busdriver its not a joke your heart desires what it desires! And no I
dont have daddy issues nor am I a gold digger! And no she's not some
model looking guy everyone thinks he's ugly but I think he's drop dead
gorgeous! Thers no man I rather be with than him. I'm not too young
too love so pls dnt say that, I've never gotten this feeling in my
life before! I know what a crush feels like and I now knw what love
feels like. We were so alike and had a lot of the same intrests I miss
it all. I sent him a goodbye card through the bus company but I dnt
know if he got it. What do I dooo?
I needa to see his face and hear his voice. Pls dont judge I have feelings for my busdriver its not a joke your heart desires what it desires! And no I dont have daddy issues nor am I a gold digger! And no he's not some model looking guy everyone thinks he's ugly but I think he's drop dead gorgeous! Thers no man I rather be with than him. I'm
not too young too love so pls dnt say that, I've never gotten this feeling in my life before! I know what a crush feels like and I now knw what love feels like. We were so alike and had a lot of the same intrests I miss it all. I sent him a goodbye card through the bus company but I dnt knw if he got it. What do I dooo? IS IT WEIRD I LIKE HIM? I know hes on ebay should i try and contact him? i miss him and wanna get in touch like crazy. Its been since the superbowl that hes been gone but i still am CRAZY about him. Ive tried going out with other guys to get my mind off him but nothings working. CANT I ATLEAST BE FRIENDS WITH HIM? Or friends with benfits? I wouldnt mind if he were to use me for sex, hes the only guy I would let use me for sex.
I truly do care for this man more than anything in this world. Im willing to give him anything. If he needs money which i know he does Im willing to give him my pay checks-all of them. I wanna take him on vacations hes never been able to afford, i wanna save up all my money to one day be able to surprise him with the sports car hes always wanted, I wanna take him to comedy shows he wanted to go to, i just wanna give him everything hes ever wanted and cant afford. HES MY LIFE HE COMES BEFORE ANYTHING AND ANYONE IN MY LIFEE! AND IM NOT EVEN JOKING!
LIFES NOT THE SAME WITHOUT HIM ITS LIKE PART OF ME AND MY HAPPINESS IS MISSING AND FOREVER GONE! HE NEVER SAID GOODBYE TO ME, I NEED TO TALK ONE LAST TIME!!
I LOVEEE HIM so sos sooos sooo much, i want him to have all the happiness in the world, im not trying to be selfish cause love is not selfish, i just need him to say he doesnt want me in his life and i think itll be a little easier to move on. i dont want to move on from him causee he is my life, and i dnt evn think its possible to love again. i dont want to love anyone but him! i would take care of him so well, even when hes 60 and im 40, he"ll be just as gorgeous as he is today and ill love him more and more until i die. every thing reminds me of him..eveery song and every object-everything
should i contact him ...
signed
IN LOVE
No.
why is the bay of pigs so controversial? im doing a paper on it and trying to understand it but im having a bit of trouble as to why its controversial.. is it controversial due to the fact that it should have never happened.. do some people believe that it shouldnt have been attempted while others do? any ideas please? I just dont really understand the controversy of it.
It's controversial because, as the_goat said, it was a proxy war. The United States equipped other people to do the dirty work for us. Had it all worked out and Castro was killed and the people of Cuba revolted as was expected/planned, it would probably be seen as a success. But since it did not work out that way, and it was a massive failure with all fingers pointed at the US, it receives a different grade from history.
However, to compare the Bay of Pigs to the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor is misguided and naive. Arming a group of rebel Cubans is not the same as outright attacking a non-aggressor, especially when history shows us they quite clearly were not armed well enough for an invasion. To compare that to the extremely brutal, systematic bombing of Pearl Harbor, even on principle, is bizarre.
There is also no such thing as sovereignty or human rights.
So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now. (I'm a girl by the way.) I want a promise ring and he wants to get me one. but, is it to soon to commit? We've known each other for about 2 years now and he knows more about me than I do. Is it too soon?
It's never too soon to make a promise you're not going to keep.
i need a good site or source on mass hysteria and mass paranoia and also on psychic premonitions too thanks
I need you to take my Math and Urban Politics finals tomorrow and also my World History final on Monday too thanks.
My cat never touches me anymore.. what's wrong with me?
You're not a cat.