Okii so im 13 years old and female i go to a junior high with my best friend, and shes 15(yes she fluncked 5th grade once) so anyways i dont lyk one of her friends. so lets call me "connie" my best friend "lizette" and her friend "elizabeth". so anyways lizette told elizabeth i dont lyk her, and shes lyk well thats good because i dont lyk her either, i doesnt bother me because well i dont lyk her but my friend is always telling her friend everything i say for example she has a friend "lizeth" and i told lizette that it looked lyk if lizeth had a hicky, well she had to go and tell lizeth, and of coarse i got pissed off, shes always doing this to me.
so what should i tell her so that she stops saying everything i tell her, i alredy confronted her bout it but she wont stop please help
hoji answered Thursday May 12 2011, 3:58 am: Yup, stop telling her things that you don't want repeated... or better yet work on making better friends. That's the nice way of doing it.
Does she ever start a sentence with "I don't want to gossip, but..."?
If you are maliciously natured, like I also have been in the past over a simular situation, you could turn it into a game where you tell something to your friend, something so deliciously unresistebly untrue, and time how long the story takes to get back to you.
My best was 13 minutes, almost got me beat up, but then, denial is a powerfull tool.
Matt answered Thursday May 12 2011, 1:29 am: It would be easier to understand if you could choose an extra name that isn't a combination of Lizette and Elizabeth.
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