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Crush Problems
I really like this girl, but she doesn't like me. She likes one of my best friends.And were graduating soon ,but she's going to a different school from me and i won't be able to see her anymore. I only have until June 10 left. Should I just give up liking her? Please help!
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You can't always get what you want, dude. Just let her go and deal with it. Your chances of her ending up as your marriage partner are dubious anyway.
The thing you will learn is that sometimes rejection is the best thing that can happen to you. Why? Because it closes one door and forces you to see what is behind the others and often what is on the other side of those other entrances is something better.
One other thing: never get heavily invested in a girl at your age. Date around, live life, find out what you actually like because you still aren't grown up yet anyway. By the time you reach age 25, you are going to find yourself changing your views about things, occasionally radically. Therefore, glomming onto and getting obsessed over one chick not only makes you look needy and desperate, two things no chick finds attractive, but you miss other opportunities as a result.
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Its hard, but i think you need to let her go. Even though you like her, you cant make her like you if she doesnt feel like you do towards her. Its just a matter of personal preference. but this has happened to me before, and i felt much better after i learned to move on. There is someone out there for you, you just have to find that person. Make sure they love you for you.
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the short answer is, yes, let her go.
the longer answer is if you are able to just be friends with her, be that, but never at your own expense.
g'luck
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Yes.
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