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What does sexual tension feel like?


Question Posted Wednesday May 11 2011, 12:42 am

I have this friend I have a crush on and I think he likes me too but not really sure. When we are around each other though it feels weird. We both seem to have a hard time talking to each other but have no problem talking to our other friends. My friend has told she has seen him looking at me. Sometimes he shows some interest. He makes small talk and sometimes he kisses me on the cheek. But if we're near each other for a long time I can feel the tension building. I was thinking maybe it was sexual tension but then again I dont really know what it is so Im not sure. What do u think it could be?

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VoiceofReason answered Tuesday May 17 2011, 3:22 am:
He likes you but is too shy to really go for it. That is why you are feeling the tension between you two. Next time you see him try to tickle him or touch him a lot. If he hugs you, tell him you love it when he does that. If he kisses you on the cheek, tell him you prefer to be kissed on the lips. Pretty obvious gestures, but it is a reflection of how dumb guys are about reading signals of interest from women. If you don't ask you won't get.

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Teen2TeenHelp answered Thursday May 12 2011, 11:00 pm:
I don't know if its sexual tension. But if you want to figure out if he likes you, you should attempt to be flirty with your eyes, and always smile at him. I don't know if you'd want to go straight out and touch him. That's kind of bold, and something I wouldn't do, but the choice is yours. If he kisses you on the cheek, then that's a big plus. It probably is sexual tension from your side, but that's probably your hormones speaking.

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hoji answered Wednesday May 11 2011, 4:54 am:
Ye, sounds like you have a crush on each other.

you assholes.

If you want to make double sure... when you think you are feeling it, WHILE talking to him, stand facing him, move in a little closer (halve the distance between you with one step) and touch his arm on the side for a second.
While you do this, check if his pupals dialate.
If you like first try it with your mom/friend/brother and see what their pupal response is.

Of course while you are that close you could slowly move your face closer to his at the same time and either see if he moves back, or even kiss him just then. It's not called taking a leap for nothing.

G'Luck!

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