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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.
I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..
My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]
I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥
I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.
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are there any free websites were you can like put what you dreamed about and then it'll tell you what it means?
This will come up with a whole bunch of sites.
i am in 7th grade and i have a friend who i have known even before skool we were always the best of friends but then she moved to a different skool and well we have hip hop together with some other of myfriends and when i am there she never even says a word to me and it really hurts she has always been a good girl and now she is just so caught up in her looks and she she hangs out wit and boys and all my other friends think this to and i dono if i should be angr wit her and all that ir if i should just forget about it cause when i see her and she doesn't even reallt notices me it jind of hurts my feelings please help
It`s okay to feel like this. But changing into a new school and hanging out with new people can really change anybody. I say if she doesn`t make an effort into talking to you; then you shouldn`t either. This girl has obviously changed & met new people. Ignore her too. I know that you guys were best of friends, but sometimes life needs a little bit of change. You really don`t want to hang around someone who doesn`t even pay attention to her other friends. I say ignore her.
But if you want to make an effort into talking to her and become atleast friends again, then pull her aside and ask her why she`s being so rude and ignoring you. If you actually talk to her; she might be nice to you again. But I don`t know for sure..
Help! Help! Help!
I used to have this boyfriend my parents hated to death. He moved all the way across the United States (I live in California) and emailed me his new phone number. While my parents were at a meeting, I called him and talked only like a minute since he had to go to a school event. Will his number show up on the phone bill? If so, my parents will see it and become suspicious, because we almost never call people out of state. I have a Panasonic phone with caller ID if it helps.
Can anyone give me any good excuses for when my parents round on me?
If your call ANYONE from your cell phone, it`ll automatically show up on your phone bill. It doesn`t matter if you just called for a minute.
Maybe you should use your house phone from now on. If you guys make calls frequently on your home phone, they will not even bother to check the bill for that..I don`t even know if there is a bill for your house phone..there probably is; but my parents make calls from my house phone ALOT ; so they hardley ever check that. I don`t have any excuses to say to them..soo i`m sorry.
i have big issues with my weight and would like to know from experienced poeple what the best way is to start dieting and what is the best diet to do?
I really don`t know anything about weight loss. But I do reccommend a columnist :]
Try Amy :]
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=naimee
She might take a while to respond (or maybe she`ll be really quick in responding) but it`s worth the wait. She`s got all the right answers for weight loss.
I know that 13-year-olds shouldn't be wearing a lot of makeup. Is colored lip gloss ok? (mine is dark purple)
It`s fine. But like the other girls said ; dark purple lip gloss can go really bad if your skin is very light. Try like a really light pink lip gloss. Don`t try putting things on when it`s too dark ; it just makes it look bad..
EDIT ANSWER::
Well since you didn`t say what type of skin color you have or anything like that BEFORE we answered the question, we would've been helped you alot better now. But since you showed your description, dark purple is good for you.
im going to my first concert in a few days.its hello goodbye,panic! at the disco,acceptance,and the academy is..my question is how do you act at concerts-what do i do?
Omg! That sounds like an awesome concert !! Well if you really do like the music you just jump around and scream. Just look around && see what the other people are doing. Just be yourself. And if you know any of the lyrics, then sing along.
I think I am fat. I weigh about 116-120 pounds and am about 5"4. Is this overweight?
I don't have like ANY time at all to exercize, I do lose weight, but than I end up gaining it all back on. I can't wake up an hour earlier in the morning because I am already tired as is. I am busy like ALL the time. Does anyone have any way I could lose weight quickly, and wouln't take much time out of my schedual?
First off, your not even fat. Your seriously the perfect weight your suppose to be, so losing alot of weight can be really bad. But I guess you can just watch what you eat. Stay away from fried foods, junk food, anything that has flour, sugar, & soda. Eat veggies & some fruit; but not alot of fruit because it contains sugar.
Is it common for girls to not be attracted to guys (age 14)? They all seem too immature in school and I'm not like those other girls that think every dude is "hot". I'm not concerned about this, I don't care If I have a bf or not but I was just wondering if this is common (and I'm not gay, I know that). It's a bit hard to explain in detail but in short, guys aren't intresting... At least not yet.
You`re perfectly normal. Not every guy you will meet will be immature. So just wait till you find a "hot" guy to fit your perfect guy.
I have a great girlfriend, one I've been going out for nearly three years now. We have never really fought or argued or been mad at each other or anything. We both have problems here and there with school and home, but small ones with each other. I do need advice on that though...See, my teacher once told me two years ago that most if not all guys will hear a girl tell her problem and then go to try and solve it, when really the girl just wanted him to listen and hear her out. Is that true? Sometimes I find myself doing that, even after thinking about what my teacher said. So my question is...does being a listener and just talking about a problem count just as much as trying to come up with a solution. For these kinds of problems I mean things like: yeah my friends did this to me; I'm not sure what to do about this sport; I feel a certain way when ___; etc. It does seem that half the time she tells me something, I right away try to come up with a solution or tell her what to do about it. It usually ends up falling right back in my face, or making her feel upset. Would you (girls) appreciate it more if the guy that was there...helped out with a solution, just listened to you about it and talked to you about it, or a little of each. Thanks, I would really appreciate it.
I love it when guys can listen to what`s going on with me & everything. But it kind of ticks me off when the guy is telling me what to do. I enjoy his opinions, but if he`s at the point where commanding me to do something & just came up with a solution to shut me up ; i`d be pretty damn pissed. I love it when a guy trys and cheers me up too. Just listen to what she has to say and tell her everything is going to be fine & all that cute stuff ♥
im 13/f. My boyfriend beats on me. I have marks and scars on my arms and legs from him. Im a cheerleader so they always show. I really like him but i hate him when he does this to me. What should i do?
**sleepiesheep**
Break up with him. Yea, you like him, but you can`t & shouldn`t be with some who beats you up. You need to tell your parents about this & don`t ever hang out with him again. It`s the right thing to do before things get way out of hand..
Is there any free Mac-compatible software available to resize pictures? If so, can you give me a link to it?
I've tried google, and it hasn't really helped, so I really wouldn't just like a search box, as spiffy as they are.
You can go to www.imageshack.us
Pick the size you want to resize it. It`s not a software ; but it`s easy.
You can possibly download this software:
http://www.irfanview.com/
It`s kind of complicated..but once you find out what you are doing, it`s easy as tic-tac-toe :o)
I don`t know if it`s Mac-compatible, but I think it should be.
me and my friend from my old town are in a huge fight... i feel bad cuz i forgot her birthday but she FLIPPED OUT ON ME!! so she was like your fucking hockey messed my whole life up! but hockye is important to me but so is she.. i wanna take my life somewhere with my hockey..... help!
It is kind of a big deal that you forget one of your friend`s birthday. How would you like it if one of your friends forgot your birthday? Wouldn`t feel so great, huh? Firstly, apologize a trillion times & send her something through the mail like a card or if you visit her make her some little cupcake with a card. Second, hockey might be your life, but if you seriously take it overboard, things might get difficult. Hockey obviously isn`t leaving you, so just take it down a notch with the whole hockey obsession. I`m not saying to LEAVE HOCKEY. I`m just saying not to let it get to everything in your life. You said other things are important to you ; so prove it.
Hey are you okay? You look a little said in your picture. But I wanted to ask you what do you think i should get my boyfriend for Valentine's Day? Any ideas or suggestion would be a great deal of help.
Aww. Thanks for asking :].You`re sweet. But yea I guess I`m okay. Just problems with the boy♥.
Hmm ; well think of what he likes. Get him like a couple of CD`s, a teddy bear & a cute little scrap book with pictures of you guys & cute love quotes. 1OO reasons why you like/love him. Cute simple stuff like that would be adorable. I personally like the scrap book; I think that`s what I`m going to get my boyfriend. ♥
heyy..i have this problem and i really dont know what to do. im going out with this guy that i have liked since november. and he asked me out like three weeks ago and i said yes. and for the past week, i have been starting to like other guys, and not likeing him as much !! hes really nice and everything, but idk i still like him, but no as much. i rreeaallyy want to have a boyfriend for valentines day though, but i know that the guys i like wouldnt go out with me. but many times when i dump someone,i start likeing them again, and when i got out with them i dont like them as much.. i dont get it.. what should i do ??
I say stay with him. Not because you should have a boyfriend for valentines ; but because the only reason why you don`t like him is because your in a relationship. I seriously would've told you to break up with him, but I just can`t seem to point out the reasons why you DON`T like him. If you spend alot of time with him, you`ll actually might be able to like him like you did back in November♥. You don`t like to be in a relationship, maybe because your afraid to get hurt, you get bored, you don`t like the guy anymore, etc. But whatever it is, you just need to find out what`s going on between you guys & make the right choice. Make a good one.
i'm 16 and i'm in high school right now and I know this might seem like a cliche, but all of my close friends are getting into serious drugs and alcohol, and I made an oath to myself awhile back never to get into that shit. So what to I do, find new friends? Tell it's stupid and have them exile me? Even I myself at one point almost gave in.... I keep trying to tell them pot makes them stupid and they're alcholics. Any suggestions?
No way do you find new friends. You made an oath && I know your sticking to it, but the only reason why you don`t like your friend is because they are druggies & alcoholics. Please don`t get new friends. It`ll just be really messed up. You made an oath & that`s good!! But that doesn`t mean that you need new friends. They aren`t leaving you because you don`t do drugs. So don`t leave them.
13/m. Okay, so there's this girl, and I like her, and she knows I like her. But she just likes me as a friend. No... like isn't strong enough a word. But I can't say love, because everyone says that teens don't know love. But isn't infatuation a necessary part of our lives? (Besides, it's been so long that I've liked her, it's not quite love anymore...)
Background info on her: she's smart (I'm smart too), she's hyper (I'm hyper too). Um... yeah that's it.
So anydangways, I was reading her blog just now, and I was astonished to see that she was talking about how she needs a boyfriend, and single life sucks, and she wants a "hot cool british guy to un-single her. cuz brits r cool." I know she thinks guys are hot, but I didn't know that's what she looks for in a guy!!! Or that she tries to get a boyfriend for the sake of un-singling herself! I don't know what to do; before I know it she'll be taken, or perhaps she'll just never like me! Just because I'm too nerdy! Or any other reason! What should I do?
Plus: Valentine's Day is coming up soon, and I know I should do something special for her, but I don't know what! I've tried asking her out, and I told her my feelings, and she said back in August that she'd tell me whenever she, too, feels that way. So I want to respect her privacy by not rushing her, or telling her stuff again and again and again. I don't want to seem obnoxious. But I gotta do something, just to tell her that I still like her! What should I do? Please help!!!
Lol I think she was just joking about the british guy. She`s a little sarcastic. How cute ♥
Anyways, Oh man I have so much respect for you for not rushing into things & bugging her about it. That`s good so I give you props on that. Try getting her a cute littler present with a card. Like a bear or something. On the card, express how you feel. You've waited long enough. And you need to know. Maybe she just forgot that you like her, so on valentine`s ; on the card say your feelings. And by the way she reacts, you can tell if she doesn't like you or if she does. =) Also, flirt with her a little. But honestly, don`t try to be SOOO in obsessed/in love with her because that can kind of be annoying. Just don`t push it TOO hard. Awwwww i hope i helped !! I really do hope you get her ! :]
Who know's spanish.
Can somebody tell me what "Lusta Prima Vista" means.
I dont really know if it's spanish, but if it is...can you tell me?
Lmfao. It`s so funny seeing people trying to find out what it is. Anyways. Prima means cousin(who`s a girl). Lista(or lusta) IS NOT LOOKING. Lista means "being ready". Vista is "view" in spanish. I have never heard of Lusta in my whole spanish life. So it wouldn't sound right. If you put it all together you get :
Lusta Cousin View.
Which of course doesn`t make sense, right?
Here`s a site if you need help.
http://www.freetranslation.com/
Just please don`t believe ANYONE down there(except for Rudy) because n/o, but they don`t know..
does anyone no the nine new nations that were created by the treaty of versailles? so far i have poland, czechoslovakia, finland, yugoslavia,estonia,latvia,and lithuania. what are the other 2??
Thanks in advance!
http://killeenroos.com/5/ENDOFWWI.htm
Or even googling it.
The only time and place I can play tennis is at night in an unlit place, so...
Can anyone tell me where to find some glow in the dark tennis balls???
And if you don't know, then please answer this question. I found some glow in the dark dog toy balls. They are semi-hard vinyl, will a semi hard vinyl ball hit like a tennis ball?
Any Big 5 or Sporting Good stores. Stores where they have stuff with sports gear & all those goods. You may even want to try Wal*Mart ; Target ; KMart ; stuff like that.
For the second question, try it right now actually. Go outside and hit it like you would usually hit it (but don`t be aiming at something when you hit the ball) & see if you feel comfortable hitting the dog ball.
I'm 14 almost 15 and i'm still in a traning bra,is there anyting that will make them bigger besides serguy?
Getting padded bras will make them fit & seem a little big bigger. Go to Macy's or JCPenny's or Victoria's Secert. And don`t worry your boobs won`t stop growing until your like 18.