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am i or am i not
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 5:18 pm
OK so yesterday i went on a date with blind date. It was really nice...we were supposed to go this party. but didn't know what time is was gonna start. well it was like 7...and the party until 9:30 so we parked near his friend house and waited for him to get home(until 10!) the hole time we were just talking about everything. As if we known each other for ever. Like around 9:45 he asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend. I couldn't believe it i asked him like 20x if he was 4 real. well i said yes cause i felt really good with him...his friend got home and went inside to take a shower wile we were in his car making out! I feel kinda weird sine i never had a real boyfriend i told him to call me today...but he hasn't. so i don't know if he w...
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When a Guy doesn't like sex....
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 4:41 pm
Well I've been dating this guy for 2 months now. We have had sex 5 times.. but the thing is I am sexually active and he's not. Often times when I'm in the mood he's not in the mood. I can't help but think that I might not be sexually attractive or something...and I tried to exsplain to him that it bothers me and he seems to get upset and says that he's not like other guys and just doesn't enjoy sex that much.
What should I do?
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convince him I'm not too young
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 2:32 pm
hi I like this 20 year old guy and he likes me I'm 16 in october. I really like him and he likes me. he is scared of what people will think if we date and the law my parents his ect ect ect. what I need to know is what can I say to him to make him ask me to be his girlfriend. thank you
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Two people in love with a dilema...
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 2:19 pm
I am a separated 35 year old female in love with my 36 year old high school sweetheart, whom is going through a divorce. We had not seen or spoken to each other since September of 2000. In May of this year we finally got in touch only to find that we are still very much in love with each other. We both have children with our spouses and have a long difficult road ahead in closing the chapters in our marriages. We don't know how to "just be friends" and allow each other the space and time to settle our lives. We have tried. No matter what we discuss about not talking or not seeing each other, it's almost unbearable and virtually impossible to stay away. The good thing is that we live about 3 hours away from each other. But that h...
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purity ringz
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 2:03 pm
female
hi its unhappychik and me nd my bf are goin bak out (we went out 4 yrz ago)and it seems like things r goin well until he told me that he wanted 2 hav sex wit me,i kinda want 2 but im worried about wat will happen.idk i really wanna buy a purity ring...not jus 4 him but bcuz i dont wanna lose it 2 the wrong person at mii age.im not sayin after i get it nd hav sex its not gonna b the wrong person(hopefully not)but hey wat do i do?
ps-duz any1 kno where i can get 1 frum?
~unhappychik~
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no communication
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 1:59 pm
16/f
ok so i've have a thing for a couple weeks with this one guy, billy. In the beginging everything was really fun a we got along really great, but ever sence we started hooking up, we cant seem to hold a conversation. When ever we hang out we normally just hook up cuz we have nothing to say to each other. When were in places were it is inappropriate to hook up we usually just talk to other people, or have horrible small talk. idk what to do, I feel like we cant get back to how it used to be
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Is this guy just like every other guy?
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 2:29 am
This past week I went to a camp and my ex-bf was there also. And over the course of the week I realized that I still liked him. He had already told me about 3 weeks ago that he wanted to get back together with me, but I turned him down because I was still upset with him for dumping me in the first place.
Anyways, now I've told him how I feel and we've decided to get back together. But tonight he was texting me and talking about starting back right where we left off, and suggesting sex too. I told him right then he was moving too fast, but he pulled the whole "you do love me don't you?" to which i said, "i did once until you broke my heart. I'm not just giving it back to you so you can do what you want with...
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I think i love him...and im scared to death!
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 2:25 am
ok i have a boyfriend and i think me and him are getting pretty serious. and im pretty sure i love him. And that makes me really scared and it makes me want to cry. lol im a nerd, i know. But its really scary. Im kinda scared of commintment(sp?)
iv never really stayed with one guy for long. And i really love him and i want to stay with him. My heart says stay. But my mind says go...Even though hes all i think about anymore. Iv never been in love. SO i guess what im asking is,
how can i be less scared of being in love?
How do i really know im in love?
How can i make my heart and mind agree with eachother. (lol)
Because i really dont want to hurt him again....
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does a purity ring turn guys off
Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 1:21 am
15/f
ok well does it?i have morals and plan on saving myself until im married :D. i have had guys flirt with me and then see the ring on my finger and will be like oh? so do purity rings turn guys off?
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two guys.
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 7:22 pm
i have been with this one guy (bob) for almost 2 years. and i can honsetly say i do love him. but also like another guy(bill). AT THE SAME TIME! the one that i like i have known for awhile. and everytime i hear he has a new girlfriend i wanna punch her in the face. lmao. i dont know why i get this way. i mean he has his right to like other girls,i know that. but i dont know what to do.
what if i break up with bob because i like bill. and then later on i find out that i was meant to be with bob. but what if i stay with bob and find out that im suppose to be with bill. im so confused and i need seriuos help!
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Gaining back trust.
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 6:40 pm
Okay so I need advice on how to gain someones trust back.
Me and my guy friend [were not dating] had sex like 2 days ago.
&& we were supposed to just keep it to ourselfs but I was extremely excited so I told my best friend about it and well she told her boyfriend who is friends with him and her boyfriend told him..
He confronted me in txt.
he said he wasnt mad just dissapointed.
He also said that he doesnt know if he should trust me.
Also that it will take time to gain that trust but it could happen.
that im a great girl but i have to learn to keep good things to myself.
that i fucked up but he still loves me.
Yeah i just sumed it up because there were like 20 tx...
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Gabe and nika.
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 5:29 pm
ok. well. this storry is really messed up.
in september i met gabe and i really liked him for like ever but i was too shy to talk to him.
so then my best friend was jsut like "ok ill become friends with him and get him to talk to you"
so i was like "whatever"
months later i still liked him
but then my best freind tells me that gabe kissed her.
so for about 2 months they were making out in cemetaries and giving and taking handjobs in the woods.
and she knew i liked him.
so then she kept saying "get over him get over him hes just gonna hurt you."
so then i was just liek "ok im over him" even tho i really wasnt.
then rite when i told h...
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dating people
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 4:54 pm
18 years old.
I usually go on a date with someone "new" about once every two weeks. A few of the people I go on a date with really have a lot in common with me. But there's a good number of people that I just don't hit it off with, and when that happens, I get really depressed. I don't know why.
This guy on myspace added me and we talked online for a long time and finally went on an actual date today. We didn't hit it off like we thought we would, and since it ended, I've felt really bad. Like I didn't measure up to what he expected. I always feel like this after a date that doesn't go smoothly. I never feel like I'm good enough. :(
Is this normal and what do I do?
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Internet relationship;; I don't wanna hurt him too bad, but it's over
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 4:39 pm
15-F
Ok well, I've been in an internet relationship with this guy for 13 months now.
He's 17.
At first, I REALLY REALLY liked him.
But now I like...log on my MySpace SUPER quick so I don't have to like, talk to him or anything.
It's been like that for about 4 months now.
I'm with my ex boyfriend again and he doesnt know.
I'm trying to think of a way I can tell him its OVER without hurting him too bad.
He REALLY loves me alot.
But I don't really cares what he doesnt or whats happends to him now.
Thats pretty harsh but whatever.
I used to live in NJ.
He lives on Oklohoma[sp?]
I moved to Cali about 4 months ago.
Now we're even father apart.
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boys will be boys.
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 4:27 pm
I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. And since, it is summer, we have a little bit of a slut problem. And the biggest slut, is his male friend. My boyfriends friend treats girls like shit and basicallly fucks around with a lot of girls, but this isnt about him, only my boyfriend is best friends with him, and since the summer started, my boyfriend has been going to partys, and girls houses that i dont know. Sure, I trust him, only to an extent. And I really just get so mad at him when he tells me he's at some girls house. And he's had some girls in his room before, with his best freind.
yeah, that crossed the line.
But I don't know if I should learn to accept the fact that he's an asshole and wont listen ...
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Kiss
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 3:49 pm
14/F/UK
So i have an amazing boyfriend who i'd never dump. He's out side of my school (goes to a different one) and we see eachother over weekends. We've been going out now for about a month.
We've hugged and kissed (like a peck on the lips) and now i think he wants to go further like a pull (snog) kinda thing (fair enough).
I was just wondering whether there were any tips that people had for me? One of my friends said that there's some sort of way that your tongue has to go? like girls go clockwise or something? I wasn't sure so is it true?
Please, ny thing will do. It's not my first but i've not done it in about 3 years. :S Any fo your tips will do, anything at all.
Thank you. :) x
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answer fast !
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 2:20 pm
hey i dont know if this can be answered on here, but i have given my guy hand jobs and stuff, and he says theyre really good. i wanted to know some new ideas and different techniques to try, that make work/feel better. also if anybody has any realy good ideas to turn a guy on? and what do guys find sexy that a girl can do?? thanks so much. if you can't answer on here send me an email
jamour-tu@hotmail.co.uk
please answer quick.
thanks. X
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Stop this stuff. help !
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 2:15 pm
right, i'm with this guy
& he's like a bit smaller than me.
everyone takes the mickey outa him, they say hes fat and horrible. but I definatlely don't see that.
Sure, he isn't the buffest guy on this planet, bu the has the sweetest heart and I wouldn't have anyone else.
His best friend lies to him, saying i call him fat and ugly. But he is really good-looking !!
i would never say that.
So please, help.
What should I say to stop all of this ??
X
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Asking a girl out
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 11:08 am
About two weeks ago I asked a girl out who I was very close with. She said she didn't know yet and that she would like to hang out more first. We have been hanging out ever since almost every day even though we both work and have other responsibilities, we have made time in the day. For the past few days all of our friends have been telling me to ask her out again. I'm not sure what to do. Is the a certain period of time to wait before asking again? Since the first time I asked in kind of an extravagant way should i do something better this time? Is there anything she will do to let me know she's ready now?
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To chase or be chased?
Posted Friday July 11 2008, 8:44 am
17/f
I really like this boy. Hes like everything i ever wanted but I feel like he is too hard to sort or get him I suppose. I dont even talk to him. :S
Its just too hard and I can't do it and I think he is too good for me anyway.
Anyway one of his friends who is fun and really nice is chasing me. I have only just started thinking about him more often. Like wondering what it would liek to be with him. I only started thinking like this after I found out he liked me. Yet without a doubt I would love to be with the other boy so much more.
I don't think I have a chance with the first boy I really like and I've got no confidence at all around him, yet around his friend I am confident and he likes me....
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