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Gabe and nika.
ok. well. this storry is really messed up.
in september i met gabe and i really liked him for like ever but i was too shy to talk to him.
so then my best friend was jsut like "ok ill become friends with him and get him to talk to you"
so i was like "whatever"
months later i still liked him
but then my best freind tells me that gabe kissed her.
so for about 2 months they were making out in cemetaries and giving and taking handjobs in the woods.
and she knew i liked him.
so then she kept saying "get over him get over him hes just gonna hurt you."
so then i was just liek "ok im over him" even tho i really wasnt.
then rite when i told her i was over him, she said she liked him.
so i was like inlove wiht him while i saw them getting all googley eyed around eachother.
but they never went out.
so then like suddenly they stopped hanging out.
and nika (my best friend) got diagnosed wiht cancer.
and she wanted me to tell him.
so i did cause at that time i was kinda giving up cause i kinda almost figured in my head they would end up going out.
so then liek nothing happened wiht her cancer.
and i know its a horrible thing to say but i think she was lying.
and honestly its obvious shes lying.
so then i never said anything cause i didnt want to start a fight.
then me and gabe got alittle closer cause i let my guard down.
so then like month later gabe texted me when nika was in ohio.
we talked alot and we found out alot about each other.
then he told me he liekd me for about a month.
so i was really happy about that.
so he asked me out.
i said yes.
we went out 4 3 weeks.
hung out ALOT.
like seriously alot.
we did things that honestly i didnt really want to do but eh.
im an idiot.
but then exactly a month b4 my birthday and exactly 3 weeks that we were going out
he broke up with me
in a text.
he said he jsut couldnt b in a relationship at that moment.
i was really upset.
but i got over it, yet i still liked him.
after that, he barely came to school.
nika would always say "oh yea, gabe calls me all the time and we talk for hours!"
so i was like "whatever" yet i honestly wanted to bite her head off.
nikas also a huge poser. shes like "i love emo boys!"
god. its just like "nika! shut up! no one likes you! ughh aussies.."
but then gabe completely disappeared from town.
changed his number. moved. hes just gone.
basically to wrap up the story, before he left town, he screwed around with the biggest slut in town and then told nika that he was inlove with her and then nika told my other friend that she loved him too but he "hurt" her way too much and "caused her too much pain"
ughh. also, gabes a drug and sex addict.
i dont know what to do. help?
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If Nika is a close friend and you wouldn't want to break your friendship, I suggest that you talk to her and tell her about what happened between you and Gabe, this would really help you guys and make you two closer in a way, because have something in common, Gabe.
Gabe sounds like a complete jerk that just loves to hurt people, and the only way to get out of this in one piece, is to just ignore Gabe and get over him for real this time, don't lie to yourself if you haven't. I think the best way to get over guys is to just hang out with your girlfriends ALOT, talk to guys and don't be afraid to get all flirty with them. :) Remember, Gabe was a jerk and he used you and your friend, so if he does come back and make up excuses and etc. Just ignore them, you don't deserve anyone like Gabe!
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Well first of all, make sure you definitley know that Nika never had cancer before saying she didn't. Because to be accused of lying about an ailment when a person actually has one is one of the worst things to be accused of. Now, if you're correct and she actually didn't, then that's a horrible thing to lie about on her part. Even worse, to make you tell Gabe AFTER she pretty much stole him from you (or at least killed your chances with him). I know Nika may be your friend, but she's gotta straighten her act out. And it might be good to let her know that you don't like the way she's been acting.
As for Gabe, he's just not worth it. First off - do you really want to be with someone who's a drug and sex addict? Not the best for a relationship. Plus, it's obvious that he just got close to your friend and you so that he could get some from 2 girls. He was playing off both of your emotions for his own sexual gain. But at least he's out of the picture now and isn't cause for too much concern, and at least you got the chance to be with him for a little bit, so you can't feel as if you lost out.
Sometimes you need to experience something first hand with someone to realize they're not worth it. But I feel that Nika is more of the problem here than Gabe. You should probably confront her about her actions if she continues behaving the way she has been.
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I think the best thing to do is forget about Gabe. He's just a plain old jerk, nothing more, if hes playing with you like that. As for your friend Nika, maybe you should tell her whats been going on with you while she's been talking about Gabe. Hopefully, she'll understand that it hurts you and stop.
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