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How to get my friend back
well one of my best friends hate me cuz me and her x kissed and i didnt know she still liked him and idk what to do....
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She can hate you for whatever, but honestly it's really immature of her to get mad that you kissed her EX- someone she is no longer dating. She has no control over him, and for a simple kiss, getting mad is really stupid.
Like it was mentioned, I would be the bigger person and just talk to her. Let her know that you had no idea she still liked him, and that really, he wasn't "out of bounds", since he was her ex.
If you feel it right, apologize. If you don't, then don't.
--Jack
(16/m)
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You should talk to her and let her know that you assumed that she no longer had feelings for him, therefore, you thought it was okay to kiss him (which it really should be since they're broken up, but if you want your friend back, this is a better way to do it) and you're sorry. She should understand and get it over it pretty quickly, if not, let her be upset for a little while, more than likely, this will pass and she'll move on from it.
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You can tell her you didn't know she still liked him, but what you do is your choice.
You are your own person, you cannot let other people get you down or tell you what to do, unless there like your parents or something.
SHe has no reason to hate you, and I'm guessing she doesn't, shes probably just hurt. Tell her you never meant to destroy the friendship or hurt her.
And there called exes for a reason, because you x them out of your life you know, just x them on out. Anyways, that being said, tell her your sorry, but you are capable of making your own decisions.
Have a nice day :)
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Let her hate you.
Here's why:
She went out with him but they broke up. She would assume that her best friend is on her side about things so when you kissed him, that was probably a stab in the back for her.
However, she needs to learn to let go. There's a reason why they're called exes. So let her hate you over some stupid little thing because it'll help her move on (hopefully).
cheers,
stargirl
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