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am i or am i not


Question Posted Saturday July 12 2008, 5:18 pm

OK so yesterday i went on a date with blind date. It was really nice...we were supposed to go this party. but didn't know what time is was gonna start. well it was like 7...and the party until 9:30 so we parked near his friend house and waited for him to get home(until 10!) the hole time we were just talking about everything. As if we known each other for ever. Like around 9:45 he asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend. I couldn't believe it i asked him like 20x if he was 4 real. well i said yes cause i felt really good with him...his friend got home and went inside to take a shower wile we were in his car making out! I feel kinda weird sine i never had a real boyfriend i told him to call me today...but he hasn't. so i don't know if he was being 4 real or not. am i his girl friend or did he just want to get me in the back seat. but its not like he got any...we just made out...idk help

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Cux answered Saturday July 12 2008, 10:19 pm:
I don't think he was being fake about it. I mean he talked to you about "everything", as you claim, and most guys who are just using a girl usually don't talk that much, you know?

There could be many reasons he hasn't called you back. Sure, he could have forgotten, but maybe his phone is dead, or he was really busy today, or he just couldn't call you. I'm sure he'll call as soon as he can.

If he doesn't call tomorrow, maybe try calling him and setting up another date ;]

--Jack
(16/m)

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miren2k answered Saturday July 12 2008, 10:03 pm:
Yes, you definitely are going out with him, I reckon he likes you quite a bit seeing as he asked you out then and there. I think he didn't call because he might have been busy all day or couldn't find time alone, that or he wasn't sure what to say, he's probably nervous.

My advice would be to not call him to just chat with him unless he calls you, but definitely call him when you want to see him next, for example, if you want to go out with him Wednesday evening, call him on Tuesday to organize it with him so at least you have something to talk about... If he calls you before that then that would be great =]

I hope I helped

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Trauma answered Saturday July 12 2008, 7:30 pm:
I'd say just give him a little bit more time. You two just started dating. I know how nerve-wracking it can be, since it's your first real relationship. I was the same way. Just don't freak out on him or anything. You'll seem way too clingy. I'd say give him until tomorrow and if he hasn't called by then, maybe call him.

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